Man walks away from girl on date after she disrespects him

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I can't say that I ever had a situation when I was on a date, that I was disrespected.

I've had dates where women were just being themselves... and they themselves are generally disrespectful, and when that happens, I know what she is and never ask her out again.

Really... don't take any of this personal... they are not disrespecting YOU: they are showing you who they really are. I would NEVER just get up in the middle of a date and leave someone that I asked out on their own like that. That's just silly and all it does is let the disrespectful person know she got to you. End the date, take her home, delete the number, and never contact her again. Why give her the satisfaction of knowing she got under your skin? All you are doing is giving this chick something to talk about with her friends.

You shouldn't want to date a person who is a narcissist, with little empathy, who thinks the world revolves around them, anymore than you would want to date a 250 lb. chick with a bad skin condition.
 

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Really... don't take any of this personal... they are not disrespecting YOU: they are showing you who they really are. I would NEVER just get up in the middle of a date and leave someone that I asked out on their own like that. That's just silly and all it does is let the disrespectful person know she got to you. End the date, take her home, delete the number, and never contact her again. Why give her the satisfaction of knowing she got under your skin? All you are doing is giving this chick something to talk about with her friends.
Agree with the bolded part. Don't get the rest. So you didn't assess the girl properly (because if you had, you wouldn't be on a date with her). That might be your mistake or simply happened because of not enough info. Now you're on a date and she shows her true colors. Why not just cut the losses short and leave instead of not only carrying on a charade but also pay for it? :rolleyes: She only gets satisfaction if you make a scene either then and there or through text afterwards.
 

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Let me guess, as offensive as this comes off. The white girl is likely the one he was on the date with and the black girl is her friend. The white girl, based on the way her nose looks, is likely either a Jew, Frenchie, or some Mediterranean trash. The reason I mention the white girl's heritage is because, except for maybe Jewish girls in certain instances, the groups I have named tend to produce a lot of these types of women. All because men from these "romantic" cultures are SIMPs that let this sort of behavior slide time and time and time again.

Only French and Mediterranean women would regularly act like this because their men don't keep the pimp hand strong.
This is perfect analysis.

You're right that the White woman appeared Jewish, French, or Mediterranean. She looks more Jewish to me than the other ethnic options, but it's a quick glance making it more difficult to assess. However, there's one hint that makes me convinced that she's Jewish. In my mind, the odds are over 90% that she's Jewish.

The TikTok user name of the video poster is "itsethankeiser", meaning the guy's name is likely Ethan Keiser. Ethan Keiser is a very Jewish sounding name. Also, at the end, the guy explaining the update (likely Ethan) looks Jewish to me.

American Jewish women tend to exhibit princess syndrome and that's in part due to a lack of frame from a lot of Jewish men.

You're also right that non-Jewish women of French and Mediterranean ancestry tend to exhibit similar issues due to the tendency of a lack of frame of men in their own ethnicities too.

In fiction, even Tony Soprano didn't have an ideal frame with his daughter Meadow Soprano. Meadow was a bit of spoiled brat. There are middle class or higher Italian-American men in New York/New Jersey who let their daughters get away with way too much bad behavior.
 

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If a woman turns up to date with with a friend, always walk away.
Years ago a girl showed up to a date with her girl friend and her sister with boyfriend. She said, “Sorry I brought everyone” in a playful laughing tone.

My bluepill self thought she wanted me to met her friends and family and that this was a good sign she was taking me seriously for ltr

Well the night was filled with lots of eating good food and lots of drinking! When the night came to an end we were drunk and her girlfriend said something like “Why are you driving him home it’s out of your way and you’ve been drinking. I barely had any to drink and his place close to mine so I will take him home.”

Anyways, I f/cked my dates girl friend that night.
Cute chubby church going Christian Korean girl in her early mid twenties.

Even in my early thirties as a bluepilled beta I managed.
 

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Years ago a girl showed up to a date with her girl friend and her sister with boyfriend. She said, “Sorry I brought everyone” in a playful laughing tone.

My bluepill self thought she wanted me to met her friends and family and that this was a good sign she was taking me seriously for ltr

Well the night was filled with lots of eating good food and lots of drinking! When the night came to an end we were drunk and her girlfriend said something like “Why are you driving him home it’s out of your way and you’ve been drinking. I barely had any to drink and his place close to mine so I will take him home.”

Anyways, I f/cked my dates girl friend that night.
Cute chubby church going Christian Korean girl in her early mid twenties.

Even in my early thirties as a bluepilled beta I managed.
Yeah, sometimes bringing a friend can backfire on them.

It's happened to me a couple of times that I totally lost interest in the initial target and got with the friend.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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I can't say that I ever had a situation when I was on a date, that I was disrespected.

I've had dates where women were just being themselves... and they themselves are generally disrespectful, and when that happens, I know what she is and never ask her out again.

Really... don't take any of this personal... they are not disrespecting YOU: they are showing you who they really are. I would NEVER just get up in the middle of a date and leave someone that I asked out on their own like that. That's just silly and all it does is let the disrespectful person know she got to you. End the date, take her home, delete the number, and never contact her again. Why give her the satisfaction of knowing she got under your skin? All you are doing is giving this chick something to talk about with her friends.

You shouldn't want to date a person who is a narcissist, with little empathy, who thinks the world revolves around them, anymore than you would want to date a 250 lb. chick with a bad skin condition.
I don't get this at all. You are saying he should have stuck around and tried to close the girl he was on a date with?
 

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This is perfect analysis.

You're right that the White woman appeared Jewish, French, or Mediterranean. She looks more Jewish to me than the other ethnic options, but it's a quick glance making it more difficult to assess. However, there's one hint that makes me convinced that she's Jewish. In my mind, the odds are over 90% that she's Jewish.

The TikTok user name of the video poster is "itsethankeiser", meaning the guy's name is likely Ethan Keiser. Ethan Keiser is a very Jewish sounding name. Also, at the end, the guy explaining the update (likely Ethan) looks Jewish to me.

American Jewish women tend to exhibit princess syndrome and that's in part due to a lack of frame from a lot of Jewish men.

You're also right that non-Jewish women of French and Mediterranean ancestry tend to exhibit similar issues due to the tendency of a lack of frame of men in their own ethnicities too.

In fiction, even Tony Soprano didn't have an ideal frame with his daughter Meadow Soprano. Meadow was a bit of spoiled brat. There are middle class or higher Italian-American men in New York/New Jersey who let their daughters get away with way too much bad behavior.
I remember when Meadow brought home a black dude, that was hilarious lol.

However, I just notice that in some cultures, you have women that act like this.

Going to walk on egg shells here but the one thing that makes Jewish American women amongst the worst in all the groups mentioned is that you cannot avoid them. If you ever get a job that pays well or live in a well off area, you are dealing with them left and right.
 

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He didn't know the girl and her best friend were showing up?? He sounds super lame to begin with if a woman is going to assume she can get over like that on a dude. Obviously he is giving her all the signs in their interactions that he is a chump that can be taken advantage of.
 

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Going to walk on egg shells here but the one thing that makes Jewish American women amongst the worst in all the groups mentioned is that you cannot avoid them. If you ever get a job that pays well or live in a well off area, you are dealing with them left and right.
Jewish women are notorious carousel riders. It's quite common to see Jewish women single at 30 or 35.

Jewish people tend to be successful. They hold many admirable attributes that tend to help them do well from a financial standpoint. With Jewish women, there are many high powered career women.

There's a significant link between Jewish women and feminism, which is closely link with career oriented behavior. The two most influential feminists, Betty Freidan and Gloria Steinem, were Jewish.
 

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Jewish women are notorious carousel riders. It's quite common to see Jewish women single at 30 or 35.

Jewish people tend to be successful. They hold many admirable attributes that tend to help them do well from a financial standpoint. With Jewish women, there are many high powered career women.

There's a significant link between Jewish women and feminism, which is closely link with career oriented behavior. The two most influential feminists, Betty Freidan and Gloria Steinem, were Jewish.
Feminism is a byproduct of Tikkum Olam, which is the branch of Jewish subversion which seeks to elevate the weak (to create a culture of tolerance in order to weaken the cohesion of their host countries, and also to help protect themselves). In Steinem's case, she's also CIA.
 

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Jewish women are notorious carousel riders. It's quite common to see Jewish women single at 30 or 35.

Jewish people tend to be successful. They hold many admirable attributes that tend to help them do well from a financial standpoint. With Jewish women, there are many high powered career women.

There's a significant link between Jewish women and feminism, which is closely link with career oriented behavior. The two most influential feminists, Betty Freidan and Gloria Steinem, were Jewish.
Agreed on all of that.

This is the typical behavior and entitlement of your NYC JAP

 

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Agreed on all of that.

This is the typical behavior and entitlement of your NYC JAP

The best thing about Jewish women is that they are usually quite sexual. I know how to seduce them.

Jewish women as girlfriends are often demanding and they are often careerist/feminist. That's a tough combo to deal with for an extended relationship.
 

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The best thing about Jewish women is that they are usually quite sexual. I know how to seduce them.

Jewish women as girlfriends are often demanding and they are often careerist/feminist. That's a tough combo to deal with for an extended relationship.
Yeah but however, if you live in Manhattan and love a sexy brunette, Jewish women there sure as heck take care of their appearance. They might be crazy but on the looks front, they definitely put up some top notch quality. The Jewish women in NYC completely outclass the Italian women there if your type is the hot tanned brunette. Despite all of the things wrong with them, living in Manhattan made me develop a thing for Jewish girls.
 

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Yeah but however, if you live in Manhattan and love a sexy brunette, Jewish women there sure as heck take care of their appearance. They might be crazy but on the looks front, they definitely put up some top notch quality. The Jewish women in NYC completely outclass the Italian women there if your type is the hot tanned brunette. Despite all of the things wrong with them, living in Manhattan made me develop a thing for Jewish girls.
Italian women love anal tho...
 

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No. End the date and take her home. I wouldn't leave her there.
RangerMike I have a question for you.

Say you’re on a first, second or even fifth date.

Previously there was zero disrespect
but out of no where she does the following.
- on her phone texting
- later on during a conversation she stops you mid sentence by simply holding up one finger “wait” as she picks up her phone to text more
- let’s herself get opened by a stranger, gives all her attention to him completely ignores you and gives her contact or social media information to him
- “oh I invited my friend” another man shows up

Again Ranger Mike,
No signs of disrespectful behavior from her prior to this and could be on any date from first to fifth date or perhaps months down the road

How do you handle this?
 

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RangerMike I have a question for you.

Say you’re on a first, second or even fifth date.

Previously there was zero disrespect
but out of no where she does the following.
- on her phone texting
- later on during a conversation she stops you mid sentence by simply holding up one finger “wait” as she picks up her phone to text more
- let’s herself get opened by a stranger, gives all her attention to him completely ignores you and gives her contact or social media information to him
- “oh I invited my friend” another man shows up

Again Ranger Mike,
No signs of disrespectful behavior from her prior to this and could be on any date from first to fifth date or perhaps months down the road

How do you handle this?
End the date, offer to take her home. Then never ask her out again. Keep your cool stay polite, but know that after the date is over you are done.

Women aren't stupid.... she KNOWS what is is doing is not appropriate when you are out on a date... You do not have to call her out on it. When you don't ask her out again, she will know why, and if she is really interested in you she will reach out again... apologize to you... if she doesn't, then her behavior was just her letting you know she isn't interested in you anymore.... take the hint and move on.

A woman that is interested in you isn't going to do anything like this when you are with her.
 

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RangerMike I have a question for you.

Say you’re on a first, second or even fifth date.

Previously there was zero disrespect
but out of no where she does the following.
- on her phone texting
- later on during a conversation she stops you mid sentence by simply holding up one finger “wait” as she picks up her phone to text more
- let’s herself get opened by a stranger, gives all her attention to him completely ignores you and gives her contact or social media information to him
- “oh I invited my friend” another man shows up

Again Ranger Mike,
No signs of disrespectful behavior from her prior to this and could be on any date from first to fifth date or perhaps months down the road

How do you handle this?
Did this really happen? This is way too.much disrespect.


When a woman does this you MUST call her out on it. This is one of those things that makes us say women are sometimes like children;you might need to raise them on the spot.

It starts as a small and subconscious shyte test , and spirals out of control like a snowball effect . If this really happened she must have felt like it was Going nowhere and tried to make you end the date by all means necessary.
 

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End the date, offer to take her home. Then never ask her out again. Keep your cool stay polite, but know that after the date is over you are done.

Women aren't stupid.... she KNOWS what is is doing is not appropriate when you are out on a date... You do not have to call her out on it. When you don't ask her out again, she will know why, and if she is really interested in you she will reach out again... apologize to you... if she doesn't, then her behavior was just her letting you know she isn't interested in you anymore.... take the hint and move on.

A woman that is interested in you isn't going to do anything like this when you are with her.
I was bluepilled with my current ex. I ignored red flags and disrespectful behavior right from the start. Two years down the road in a ltr living together it got worse and I reached a point where I walked out on her. This relationship led me to the RedPill thanks to a friend that asked me what happened.

Now any little sign of disrespect and I walk. I simply give her a subtle smile and walk out on her keeping my cool. But I will give your approach a try. I’ll politely end the date and offer her a ride home and never contact her again. I can walk out on her with a smile of amusement so I’m sure I can end the date and offer her a ride home with a smile of amusement keeping my cool and being polite as I always have.

Thank you for your advice
and thank you for your service.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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