man this sucks.. she's pregnant

[Immaculate]

Man I got this girl pregnant.. at first she was againsts having an abortion but I talked her into it.. she's at like 8 weeks now and we have an appt with planned parenthood next Wed, the 14 to see how far along she is and then another appt on the 16 for the actual abortion.. this is worrying the hell out of me. Why the hell can't they see us sooner.. I mean the longer you wait the worst it gets.. so by the time we get there she'll be at 9 weeks I guess..man the waiting sucks... any advice? I wonder if they'll have to do a surgical abortion or just give her those pills....

 

[frivolousz21]

hey...you wanted the abortion..atleast youer getting it.


how does it make u feel?

 

[Docs]

do you have a relationship with her, or was it a onenighter...because if it's the first one...you got a lot of un-stressen to do.

 

[Immaculate]

Originally posted by Docs
do you have a relationship with her, or was it a onenighter...because if it's the first one...you got a lot of un-stressen to do.

nah it wasnt a one night it's a girl i've been seeing... what do u mean un-stressin to do??

 

[Immaculate]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
hey...you wanted the abortion..atleast youer getting it.


how does it make u feel?

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ok. I don't want a kid ... well at least not with a girl I don't love that would suck... plus I think she did this on purpose because she told me she was on the pill.

 

[frivolousz21]

yea.....

that shyt would piss me off.


i dont agree with abortion..but I agree with free will..

to each is his own!

good luck

 

[BackToTheMack]

I feel for you man i think an abortion is the best option you can not brign a child into this world if you are not ready to take care of it.

Did you confront her and ask why she lied? i belive the pill is 100% effective unless you miss it one day.

 

[Immaculate]

Originally posted by BackToTheMack
I feel for you man i think an abortion is the best option you can not brign a child into this world if you are not ready to take care of it.

How did this come about? didn't you use protection? or what?

she SAID she was on the pill... lying b!tch I think she did this on purpose.

First she wasn't going to have an abortion. I laid down the law and said fine, you take the kid I'll pay your damn child support but I'm not gonna let you lie and sucker me into taking care of you the reast of your life. Plus how the hell can I take car of a kid? I got no health insurance, I work 6 days a week, so does she. I just want to get his over with.

When does a girl start showing she is pregant? I mean how far into the pregnancy?

 

[Immaculate]

Originally posted by BackToTheMack
I feel for you man i think an abortion is the best option you can not brign a child into this world if you are not ready to take care of it.

Did you confront her and ask why she lied? i belive the pill is 100% effective unless you miss it one day.

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I don't need to ask her.. she loves me and I don't love her... she knows this and is trying to trap me.

 

[joekerr31]

you're an idiot for believing a woman when she says shes on the pill.

always wear a rubber.

For all the guys out there who think the only point of life is to get laid, heed this post.

J

 

[frivolousz21]

For all the guys out there who think the only point of life is to get laid, heed this post.

he is very lucky she is actually getting the abortion


how did u convince her to do this if she was trapping u?

 

[BackToTheMack]

it depends on the woman my GF's sister was 9 months pregnant and she was still a size 10 (in Australia size 10 is thin). Some girls can barley show signs of pregnancy.

Though the average is about 3 months in.

Are you 100% sure the baby is yours? could it be someone elses?

 

[h2o]

Originally posted by joekerr31
you're an idiot for believing a woman when she says shes on the pill.

always wear a rubber.

For all the guys out there who think the only point of life is to get laid, heed this post.

J

yeah, that, and you could catch something. i have no experience with pregnancies or any of the drama you're going through, but do wear a rubber next time.

best of luck.

 

[Immaculate]

Originally posted by BackToTheMack
it depends on the woman my GF's sister was 9 months pregnant and she was still a size 10 (in Australia size 10 is thin). Some girls can barley show signs of pregnancy.

Though the average is about 3 months in.

Are you 100% sure the baby is yours? could it be someone elses?

no ofcourse not how could I be sure? She swears she hasnt been with anybody else... I told her if she has the kid I WILL do a paternity test, then all of a sudden she agrees to an abortion.. HMMMMMM.. I don't care... it's gonna cost me 350 bucks and I'll be done with it.. I'm not gonna wait 9 months stressing this.

 

[Immaculate]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
he is very lucky she is actually getting the abortion


how did u convince her to do this if she was trapping u?

I don't know..she's is such a liar.. I was on a bunch of Xanax when we had sex, and she said one of the nurses said that might screw up the baby.... is that true? I have a feeling she screwed some other guy, and when I told her I'm gonna have a DNA test on the kid she got scared and decided to have the abortion.

 

[frivolousz21]

good call...either way your out of it

 

[Bible_Belt]

she told me she was on the pill.

For real, this is how I was conceived. My dad never told me until my parents got divorced this summer. I swear that I am not making this up.

It's even more F'd up in that I am pretty sure that this is also how my mother was conceived.

I think that the majority of all people were accidents. Everyone likes to pretend that a pregnancy was planned.

 

[Immaculate]

So if she's 9-10 weeks into her pregnancy the planned parenthood folks will have no porblem doing the abortion? What is the limit on how far into the lregnancy until they won't do the abortion?

I'm worried now that she's lying to me that she's only 7 weeks..

 

[Legend]

abortion leads to breast cancer some studies are showing. Make sure she doesnt know this and that you dont tell her this. Tests show that women that are having abortions are more liking to come down with breast cancer later on in life. This is not a joke, but I read it out of a medical journal doing research in school. I couldnt believe it myself.

Thank God she agreed to have an abortion, you are very lucky. Most girls today are what you call "now women", sounds like have a "then women", which are a rare breed nowadays.

Best of luck and i hope everything works out for you buddy

regards,

John

 

[Legend]

So if she's 9-10 weeks into her pregnancy the planned parenthood folks will have no porblem doing the abortion? What is the limit on how far into the lregnancy until they won't do the abortion?

You have up to 3 months aka 12 weeks to have an abortion. So you better get this done if its going to be done. After 12 weeks its against the law.

Keep us updated please

John