Making her Prove herself

[Nzo]

When i first met hb8 i noticed quickly how different and random she was from most hot girls. I found this to be a great way to compliment her being as it wasn't on looks and i would tease her about her being a nerd and such.

Recently shes been acting different and i was talking to her about 5 minutes ago over msn.

Me: You know hb8 youve changed alot since i met you
HB8: What do you mean by that?
Me: You just dont seem the same girl that i met way back when that i liked so much

Instantly she got all defensive about how she hasnt been getting much sleep and shes just low on energy and starting trying to prove herself.

I know there is some post on making her prove herself and chase you but i found this was a good way to make her prove herself, point out negative things that have changed about her recently but be careful because she might open up emotionally (which can also be good for comfort)

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

ummm yeah i have never really tryed to make to make a girl prove herself but i have heard its good because as soon as she is trying to do this she is trying to win you. Apprntly good salesmen do this, thats quite impresive dont you think making the customer try and prove that he is good enough to buy the double glazed windows

 

[Rocker]

I tried something similar once and all I got was a really *****y and defensive rant back about how I don't even know her and I shouldn't judge her etc. etc..
She's probably the hottest chick I know and also one of the biggest headcases.

 

[backbreaker]

the point is... you ARE such a great guy that she really DOES have to prove herself to you to show you that she is worth taking the time, your precious time, to spend with her.

She should consider herself lucky.

When a girl feels on the defensive, no matter how "hot" she is, they all are the same.. assuming there is some physical attraction there in the first place.

My old oneitis, a girl who I would have drank her bathwater 2 years ago if she asked me to, once I actually did realize I could find a girl that was that hot AND had a brain to go with it, i couldn't get her off me.

However, if you don't beileve that, it's not true. She really does have to be lucky

 

[Rastaman]

Cool, I've never thought of this concept as I use to and still believe that if a girl likes you and you're a priority, she'll constantly be seeking ways to prove herself to you.
When this happens I know that she likes me and my job would be not to screw it up, instead of make her "prove herself".