fyi
well the first thing you're going to have to tackle is the kissing, which to me is one of the most fun parts. You want to be soft, slow, and most importantly of all be a tease. You've got to make her want it or else she won't enjoy it. Now that you've got that taken care of (hopefully)
dont skip the breasts. suck, nibble not bight, lick fondle, squeeze, kiss. ears, neck, collar bone, and stomach also should be considered
fingering - ok, you dont want to dive head first into it, the one word here is preparation as i mentioned above. you've got to get her turned on. the only hard thing to do after you get passed that is finger out if she's ****oral, vaginal, or both. all girls like a certain part for their orgasm and there are those 3 types basically. for that you're just going to have to fool around with her awhile but i think the ****oris is a safe bet, if you're not getting enough heavy breathing etc in the first few minutes with that then you try something a little different, but dont ever stop what you're doing completely. but, if you start rubbing the ****oris or fingering her and she kinda jumps then you know you need to go back and get her a little more horny. its like starting an old car. it just needs love.
oral - just dont bight and i think you'll be fine, you really can't go wrong with oral from my experiences although some girls just dont like the idea of it.
any questions?