moneybanks24
Don Juan
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Ok, I think I've written one of these things before but I'll just write it again because it's getting more urgent. So, I've spent a lot of this summer reading up on all the materials of the seduction gurus. The main thing I've taken away is that girls are attracted to guys that just don't give a ****. Therefore, I have tried to convey that I don't give a ****. But this has honestly led me nowhere, and I've had my opportunities. I come off as the funny, really witty kid, I make all my friends laugh but girls don't seem to get my humor. I make obscene comments or I just **** around in general. The main problem is: GIRLS DON'T UNDERSTAND MY JOKES (or my sense of humor for that matter), and I just get either ignored or not taken seriously most of the time. I'm like tucker max's best friend in i hope they serve beer in hell. Instead of making obscene and out of place comments I'd like to develop my sense of humor so that girls understand it, and thus, it becomes a source of attraction.
Another problem of mine is that although I'm funny and friendly, I'm very immemorable. People don't remember if I was there when they did such and such a thing or went to such and such a party. I just blend in, I guess. I want to figure out a way to stand out in peoples minds (both girls and guys). I want people to want to have me with them cuz I'm really fun to be around, instead of just not caring if I come along.
Anyways, last night, me and 4 of my friends went to this girls house to play ruit. This girl was hot but she had one friend there that was nasty. The girl was giving everyone major IOIS (including me). She grabs my necklace and says: OMG, what is thisss? What stopped me was that it wasn't just me, it was all my friends that she was flirting with. THe point of the story is that my friend matt got her even though he has a gf of 5 months.
There's nothing flashy about matt, he's just a really cool guy. But every girl he comes into contact with seems to fall in love with him. He isn't incredibly good looking, funny, or talented BUT I've come to realize that he gives off that i dont give a **** vibe that girls flock too. I want to have that vibe, but for me, it means making obscene comments that defy the principal social dynamics.
I need some help, guys, so hit me up with those comments, suggestions and advice to get the idc vibe and improve my sense of humor to make it more accessible. Any advice is appreciated.
Another problem of mine is that although I'm funny and friendly, I'm very immemorable. People don't remember if I was there when they did such and such a thing or went to such and such a party. I just blend in, I guess. I want to figure out a way to stand out in peoples minds (both girls and guys). I want people to want to have me with them cuz I'm really fun to be around, instead of just not caring if I come along.
Anyways, last night, me and 4 of my friends went to this girls house to play ruit. This girl was hot but she had one friend there that was nasty. The girl was giving everyone major IOIS (including me). She grabs my necklace and says: OMG, what is thisss? What stopped me was that it wasn't just me, it was all my friends that she was flirting with. THe point of the story is that my friend matt got her even though he has a gf of 5 months.
There's nothing flashy about matt, he's just a really cool guy. But every girl he comes into contact with seems to fall in love with him. He isn't incredibly good looking, funny, or talented BUT I've come to realize that he gives off that i dont give a **** vibe that girls flock too. I want to have that vibe, but for me, it means making obscene comments that defy the principal social dynamics.
I need some help, guys, so hit me up with those comments, suggestions and advice to get the idc vibe and improve my sense of humor to make it more accessible. Any advice is appreciated.