Major orgasm problem

[reyalp]

Hm.

Bald at 40 and I've slept with a hottie every night

OR

Bald at 60 and I've slept with a hottie once a week.....


tempting.......but i'll go bald at 40.

 

[GropeDope]

Don't listen to everything you read

 

[noviceplaya]

so how do u fix da problem?.......dont do n e thing for how long?

 

[Jippii]

www.herballove.com sells actionloves products among others... take a look at that site. it´s really good, and with patience I recovered from being basically impotent from masturbating too much from a young age..

 

[noviceplaya]

any food or anthing that can get me back to normal?....or free at least

 

[breadpitt]

just fake ur orgasm man! lol

 

[Jariel]

I've recently overcome this same problem. In fact, I can never get off first few times I'm with a new woman and I discovered the problem was all about my comfort levels. Since getting more comfortable with my girlfriend, I've been getting off 90% of the time we have sex.

However, last night I stayed at her house with her parents in the next room. When we had sex the bed was banging and she was making a lot of noise too. I kept worrying that her parents could hear us and I just couldn't get off at all. Then this morning, when her parents left, we went at it again, and I got off within 20 minutes.

If you can cvm by masturbating, there's nothing medically wrong with you. Mental processes play a big role in orgasms for men and women, and if you're not on form mentally or distracted, it could affect your performance.

A guy who can go for hours and give a girl multiple orgasms is something a lot of women would kill for. And once you reframe your "problem" as a gift, you should find it gets a lot easier to get off during sex.

 

[Sam Gold]

Yeah I remember when "it" happend to me, I panicked and it made things worse. I believe it is all mental, once you conquer the mental part, the physical part will be "healed".

If you do have these problems...

Performance anxiety
Masturbating too much
Watching too much porn

RELAX, all I can say. Course I've been on my own journey and still am, so I am very secure with my self and performance in bed. Just relax, by all means find something safe to calm the nerves, talk to the girl, talk to yourself, or just really chill.


Try and masturbate less and less to the point you can control yourself. Build a relationship with your demons; you'll become way way stronger.

If you do masturbate, use some lubricant and masturbate the correct way. In essence, you want to climax the way a ***** would do for you--more about massaging the head and surface of your ****, not the internal parts(only the hand can do that).

For me, it was also PORN. Porn is awesome, really gets one turned on easily. Porn is also a double edged-sword, it messed me up in the head when it came to sex. There wasn't any "magic". Real life sex is not like what you see in porn, maybe just a tad like 70's porn lol. Then again, I haven't hooked up with a kinky and open girl(I'm trying really hard to though). That's what I want, and I'm trying to hit it.