Maintaining IL in an LTR

[Leykis]

Please post your best tips for maintaining intrest level in an LTR.

Think I found one that I'd actually like to keep. (Knock on Wood)


Thx

 

[b's nuts]

keeping things spiced up in the bedroom is a sure fire way to keep IL up.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Look through Doc Love's artichle archive. He speaks in detail about showing women respect, romance and affection to keep her.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

I'm in the same boat L, check posts I recently started.

 

[bugsquish]

Be respectful and caring but not supplicating.
Don't let her control you in any way.
Don't lose your identity.
Have your own hobbies etc.
Communicate. LISTEN.
Spend only quality time together.
Don't overreact.
Be spontaneous.
Don't tell her you love her. Unless she says it first, and more often.
Be dynamite in bed.
Don't check out other girls when you're together.

Follow the way of the DJ. And then some... Oh yea, read the bible

 

[InLawsHateMe]

When she b*tches about work, life, etc... just listen, DO NOT GIVE ADVISE!... just listen... women for some reason, use this to bond with others... so let her talk, listen, and let the bonding begin.

 

[Chewy Bagel]

My IL in my ex-gf never went away, however my sexual attraction went away at the 3 year mark. Maybe if she worked out and kept her body hard, then she would have held my interest.

 

[Helter Skelter]

Maintaining interest in LTR is achieved in a number of ways.

Sex starts to get routine, these additions will help.

1) Anal sex-if she doesn't like it, your doing something wrong
(Try again).

2) Try cuumming on all her different body parts. Including her face (this one never gets old)

3) Sex in a hammock- no matter how many times you do it, the possibility of falling out always exists.

4) Mention how attracted you are to her friends. This will make her jealous and want to stay with you even more.

5)Try spanking her while saying "Who's your daddy"

6)Tell her if she ever leaves you, you'll go OJ on her.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Originally posted by bugsquish

Spend only quality time together.

Don't check out other girls when you're together.

I guess it depends on your definition of "quality time", but it's possible to just go chill out with someone.

I found an ex liked me to check out other girls, ymmv

Oscar.

 

[bugsquish]

Originally posted by Oscar Wilde
I guess it depends on your definition of "quality time", but it's possible to just go chill out with someone.

I found an ex liked me to check out other girls, ymmv

Oscar.

Well I have lost girls in the past by spending so much time together that it just became routine. And as I know now, routine=boring. Now if I spend any time with a chick it's doing something interesting. No just hanging out for the sake of it.

And checking out other girls, hmm yea that could work in your favour I guess. But I kinda decided that although it raises the surface IL it may contaminate a deeper interest... if you get what I mean...