Maintaining Frame

[Fruitbat]

Can this not just be summed up more easily than “this particular woman is a cvnt?”

she’s just an unpleasant human being. Frame, whatever you want to call it, is just how much you let it get to you.

just ignore it and let it go. If a male friend acted like this you’d just think “whatever” and just chalk them up as a d1ck.

the reason we have all this theory is we are invested in them, so we have to provide a format to remind us what we already know.

there’s a reason men who DGAF in general DGAF with women. It’s the same personality trait.

 

[Fruitbat]

Some women just aren't fun and need to be dumped for that reason alone. The solipsism of thinking all women are the same other than your frame is a bad perspective I think. Assuming you are not an egotistical guy, it comes mainly as a scarcity coping tool, it's a glorified excuse to not dump low value to blame yourself for bad Game / Frame.

this plays out the other way. “Why do you allow a woman to do that?”

they just do. No man, excepting film stars and the 1% don’t get that. And even the 1% get it sometimes, and inevitably after time at some point.

It’s common to hear a paternalistic air on here. “You’re making excuses for your own lack of blah blah. Everything is in your control”. It isn’t. Not for anyone. They are unpredictable beings.

the really good advice on here is about how you deal with it, and that is always to brush it off with a smile, and if it’s too much of too often, get rid. It’s your call.

I had a day of stupid shyt from my wife recently. Trying to fight that shyt is impossible. If you want to try to fight it head on, it can only come to blows because most women DO NOT back down and get subservient when they are off on one. To be fair, mine is pregnant. She gets a semi pass. She isn’t usually that obnoxious.

I smiled, I found it funny, her stronger and stronger attempts to knock me and upset me. It’s like a squall or a thunderstorm. It passes. A couple of hours later she’s laughing about it. And she respects me more for not giving a shyt; not reacting, keeping control.....and, well, she just likes me as a human being more. Who doesn’t like someone who accepts the odd moment of poor judgment. I’ve done it to her, and I appreciate it when she doesn’t put the knife in to my mistakes

you know deep down if it’s just hormones, time of month, she had a rough day, or....if she’s just a b1tch.

Some pretty alpha guys I know get it. Posters claiming they don’t I think don’t realise some of us are old and wizened enough to know it’s horse shyt. You can’t stop a monkey climbing trees. You can’t stop women being on the whole quite emotional and irrational in their relatinships.

 

[Jager]

Yes. Frame is A C T I N G. That's why you can't "maintain frame." How do you maintain frame? Make sure it isn't an A C T. "Losing frame" is just another way of saying what an actor means by "breaking character."

This, in addition to what Spaz and stormrider posted.

 

[Fruitbat]

An enormous amount of the advice here is based on Narcisisstic men projecting magical thinking, lack of empathy towards women, and the desire and belief that they can control others. Some conclusions:

1. Your mental state controls everything
2. Your "frame" controls all women
3. Mentally ill women don't exist

you may think that, but you will find in the end you are wrong. You are making excuses for her and your own lack of frame and basic masculinity is the problem. You can’t see it, because you’re cukked.

I have given you the chance to learn from someone wiser than you.

I can no longer help. There is nothing that can be done for you. Don’t come running back here when it goes wrong, and it will.
You will learn in time.


sound familiar?

you are spot on in your analysis. Who would have thought a forum for banging women would contain a lot of NPD?

im here more for a male version of Cosmo and to shoot the shyt

 

[Newbee2]

From what you describe, she could be with covert narcissistic traits.. I tried one of those psychos, they will slowly try to erode your self worth. Like a frog in boiling water.. they start slow, and hope you don't have power enough to break free, after long periods of covert demeaning, hot and cold behavior.. this fits the 6 you describe too.. they are crazy in bed. And know how to talk to your ego. Learn how to test her, and see if she fits the criteria.

Respond don't react..

You can have all the frame in the world, be the supreme man.. and these psychos are still likely to get under your skin..

Test her, fvck her... mind fvck her if she is a narc.. they can't handle when you do a 180 on them.. they go completly off the rail's

Good fvck.. not good luck