Hey fellas, a lot of you already know what's going in my life currently with my LTR gf being deported, if not you can check my thread here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=182786
Well after dealing with immigration lawyers and researching this stuff the only real option we have to be together is for me to move to Mexico.
At first the prospect of that was an outright no to me, but we have since been keeping in touch daily and she has given me some things to think about and shared some thought provoking insights as well.
Her Mother is moving down there with a nice sum of money and they are going to buy a house in Acapulco (nice beach area) and she told me I am more than welcome to join them, and that her family supports it as well. She also said no rush or worries on my finding work there, though of course I would want to work eventually anyway.
I know this seems kind of far fetched, and I am undecided at the moment, and am trying to think with my brain and not just my heart here. I love this girl and think that not only do I not want to let her go, but what if I were to make the move and we have a happy life there?
She also said she will marry me upon my arrival.
So what do you guys think? For the most part my family supports it as not only did they like her but ultimately they tell me that if this will make me happy then to go for it. I've also even had some friends comment that this is almost like the chance of a lifetime, to live on the beach.
Where we are at with it currently is it will take a minimum of 6 months (the mom is staying here for about 3 months to let her younger brother finish high school here before they move back to Mexico) or so for them to buy their house and get established. She wants to have everything all set up and essentially have a good life to offer me before I make the move.
I am going to put in for a week off mid summer to go and visit her and see how things are, and to also talk more about this. You can only get so much out of the phone, and obviously I will get a better vibe talking to her face to face bout this. I also plan to take one more vacation down there before I make the move, if I do.
At this point I've concluded I just have to let time go by and see how things go when I visit her, and take it from there. She assured me she has no problem waiting, and will wait a year if that's what it takes.
Just want to hear some feedback and any advice on maintaining a long distance relationship and if you guys think that this is worth considering, or should I just let it go and deem it impractical?
Well after dealing with immigration lawyers and researching this stuff the only real option we have to be together is for me to move to Mexico.
At first the prospect of that was an outright no to me, but we have since been keeping in touch daily and she has given me some things to think about and shared some thought provoking insights as well.
Her Mother is moving down there with a nice sum of money and they are going to buy a house in Acapulco (nice beach area) and she told me I am more than welcome to join them, and that her family supports it as well. She also said no rush or worries on my finding work there, though of course I would want to work eventually anyway.
I know this seems kind of far fetched, and I am undecided at the moment, and am trying to think with my brain and not just my heart here. I love this girl and think that not only do I not want to let her go, but what if I were to make the move and we have a happy life there?
She also said she will marry me upon my arrival.
So what do you guys think? For the most part my family supports it as not only did they like her but ultimately they tell me that if this will make me happy then to go for it. I've also even had some friends comment that this is almost like the chance of a lifetime, to live on the beach.
Where we are at with it currently is it will take a minimum of 6 months (the mom is staying here for about 3 months to let her younger brother finish high school here before they move back to Mexico) or so for them to buy their house and get established. She wants to have everything all set up and essentially have a good life to offer me before I make the move.
I am going to put in for a week off mid summer to go and visit her and see how things are, and to also talk more about this. You can only get so much out of the phone, and obviously I will get a better vibe talking to her face to face bout this. I also plan to take one more vacation down there before I make the move, if I do.
At this point I've concluded I just have to let time go by and see how things go when I visit her, and take it from there. She assured me she has no problem waiting, and will wait a year if that's what it takes.
Just want to hear some feedback and any advice on maintaining a long distance relationship and if you guys think that this is worth considering, or should I just let it go and deem it impractical?