Made CLASSIC mistake... help me rectify

[Cod3r]

Ok fellas, I made the classic DJ mistake... I pissed off a b!itch in a high place aka she's a bouncer at a popular club in NYC and well I've got VIP there but this stupid ***** dosen't like meAT ALL (yes its my fault)

I was drunk one night in arriving and went front of line like a pimp and met some guys on the steps and we proceeded to make fun of some of the girls in the line, well the bouncer b!tch says something to me about not disrespecting females and I just ignore her and then she starts really yapping at me trying to get attention (i think she likes me or something) I turn around and say, "wat u like me or something ?? shutup already, ur making my head hurt"

Well from that moment on she has been on ultimate revenge mode, she told me that night that I should "try to get in here again" and that I'd get a surprise. Well I waited about 2 weeks before going back, I was all liquored up and got my admission ticket and she came into the male line and snatched it out my hand and called some big assszzz bouncer dude and told him

"I did something last week and need to be removed"

FVCKING B!TCH

I got kicked out for nothingggg and had nowhere to go except to take my drunkass to a crappy bar with stupid little after-work wh0res, its such crap and now I want to go back tonite but i'm afraid the same thing will happen again and it'll be a waste of good alchohol and it'll ruin my night....

I even apologized last time because for one, I REALLY wanted to get in, its basically major fun for me everytime I go there, girls are wild, great music, inexpensive drinks, runs till like 5 00am full of people, really big ect.... but she was like, "ohhh u wanna say sorry now, fvck that... ur out"


Help me out... seriously cuz she's a serious c0ckbl0ck right now



-Cod3r

 

[Cod3r]

bump



-Cod3r

 

[Jack McCrack]

Maybe you should find a different club to go to.

 

[BacardiGuy]

Go up to her and apologize for being an *******.

 

[Cod3r]

Maybe you should find a different club to go to.

That's not the issue, I want to get into THIS club...

I even apologized last time

Go up to her and apologize for being an *******.

Done... not working...


-Cod3r

 

[Jack McCrack]

Confront her then. Ask her why she gotta be player hatin.

 

[Phyzzle]

VIP pass? Do you know someone higher up the totem pole? If not, the management won't listen to some strange guy.

It's not worth bugging them. Recently, a guy in this city got into a brawl when he disrespected some female customers (threw drinks at them, a bit more severe). After he was thrown out, his frat brothers told him to go back and apologize (the frat loved that place.) He went back and got thrown through a large window by the bouncers, who claimed he went back to raise more hell.

The whole frat got banned after that. From the bar management's point of view, they are not staying in business by babysitting drunks who hassle their customers or insult their staff.

Back off from this one.

 

[Cod3r]

^ ^ First of all I didn't harrass the staff, the dumb b!tch had it in for me ever since she first saaw me, she always has something to say about me like a dumb school girl "where's ur jacket ? ru stupid, its cold out here" blah blah blah....

The time i said something back she was serioiusly being annoying, I didn't threaten her or anything, the b!tch was just acting like an ******* and jocking my c0ck so I said something to her...

Also, i was not there to cause anytype of trouble... its basically one female who likes me and has a vendetta against me for some reason, she's always looking at me like, "u think ur the sh!t don't u" i mean come on... that's classic c0ckblocking and seriously its annoying.... Gotta be something I can do mannn, i'm NOT out to cause trouble and if she throw me out again thas the last time I go back there and I'll juss sell my VIP pass, but still its fvcked up, she's acting like a little kid... she looks 30 or something, ugly b!tch


-Cod3r

 

[Jack McCrack]

Maybe she secretly wants your cawk

 

[Cronus]

Get a disguise!!!

Seriously, I can't think of what you can do. The bouncers are pretty much the people with control of the clubs. Do you know any of the other bouncers there? If your VIP you should know some people there...... Talk to them and see what the deal is.

Management ain't gonna do **** for you, unless you know them....

 

[Cod3r]

Get a disguise!!!

I was seriously thinking about that, or at least throwing on my jacket and just being quiet in line so she dosen't see me... Females are free tonite so 1,000's of people are gonna be there tonite, so she'll be busy... I might just throw on my reading glasses and just keep my mouth shut until i'm in, it just urks me that one b!tch with a little power can fvck my night over...

I wish she was my girl, I'd fvck her so hard... throw her head into a floor board and make her scream cod3r is my god... ughhh whatever, we'll seee... I'm headed there in about an hour. Tks for the advice


-Cod3r

 

[BacardiGuy]

Go on a not so busy/hyped night, approach her, and apologize again; elaborate that you do not expect her to reverse any decisions, that you are just sincerely trying to make things right between the two of you.

 

[Cod3r]

I'd recommend not to disrespect females again really. I treat all women kindly and I've never gone wrong doin it.

Of course if a chick IS a ***** or you're laying out some C + F then run your mouth!

I'm not into disrespecting females, but this girl is just annoying and I was at my breaking point. I ignored her and she continued to get into my face about things, just like a chicken just sqwaking and won't stop... I didn't say anything massively disrespectful just to 'shut her mouth' that's it.....

I know I fvcked up because she has alot of power there and its definitely not DJ to fvck up your hookups, but now that I have... i still need a remedy...

Go on a not so busy/hyped night, approach her, and apologize again; elaborate that you do not expect her to reverse any decisions, that you are just sincerely trying to make things right between the two of you.

Best advice I've heard and I think that might be what I have to do, despite that's swallowing alot of pride mannn, ughhhh but if she is a b!tch tonite then i'll prob have to do that if I expect to get back into that club ever again...

Advice for the rest of you, NEVER bite the hand that feeds you



-Cod3r

 

[PeterNorthisawesome]

How the hell can chick be a bouncer? seriously that's only in the U.S. maybe she's bangin the bouncer in which case your done. Don't kiss up and apologize she's a b*tch and she won't change her mind. If you REALLY like that club you can get a job thereor you can make a "generous contribution" or befriend the owner/executives of the club to let you become a "exlusive VIP." I still suggest trying to befriend the male bouncers by getting em drinks or talk about bouncing or lifting. This is how I got into clubs when I was 15

 

[skip2mylou781]

Cod3r - your a pimp i kno u are, and pimps get hated on sometimes....best thing u can do is take ur business elsewhere, cuz if u try to go back, things will get worse b4 they get better