Maaaannnnn, whats really good? And I got something to say...Just some thoughts....

[TheInfamousCBear]

Ive been doing some thinking, and Im on some sh1t right now, and Im bored...The number one thing with dudes on this site and in real life is thinking that women think with men logic...You know, that 1+2=2 sh1t...You have people on here that say all this stuff about "DJ's" arnt supposed to follow rules, but people make to many damn rules for themselves on here...People with all this "If you dress this way, then these girls will/wont like you", or "If yo dont have your life toghter (sp), you wont get girls"....Its all lies...

I remember a dude posted about some guy he knew how had this hot girl all up on him and he doesnt have a job, car, house, clean clothes, etc...And of course, you will have people going at him cause it seems like hes a loser, but the thing is, he cuts the bullsh1t and gets straight to the point...See, most dudes think if you have money/job, nice clothes/dress a certian way, and have a car that thats the only way a woman could ever look at you...Thats how dudes think, dont ever assume that a woman thinks that way...Alot of b1tches dont give a sh1t about any of that, Ive seen too many dudes with "nothing" get girls...

And thats the funny thing about this site, people fall to this sh1t all the time...I see 14 and 15 year old kids telling people to wear button up shirts...YOU ARE A KID! Sh1t, when you get old and you work and have to wear that sh1t everyday, you will see where Im coming from, enjoy wearing Tshirts and Jeans while you can...Like girls wont like you if you dont wear Banana Republic, LMAO...Then you got dudes who clain this site is about life improvement, I thought it was about getting girls...You can get girls without doing all of this...Anyone can get laid, it isnt that hard...So what is it? Is this site about getting girls or improving your life....You can do one without the other..

Now what am I getting at you say? STOP THINKING THAT WOMEN AND MEN THINK THE SAME, ...Stop being a hater when you see a dude who is supposed to be a "loser" with nice girls..Why dont you try to learn from him? See how he gets down...Remember that girls feel sh1t, they dont think when it comes to sh1t like this...My hands are tired from typing, maybe Ill post more later..

But oh yeah, go ahead and tell how you feel about what I said...Come and get me....

 

[Tha Realnezz]

^^I agree. BUMP!

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

Im back In here...And I dont care if Im saying sh1t other people said before...This time Im saying it with my own little twist on it...So if you dont like it get out the thread...

Another thing thats lame are these labels...You know, this "DJ" and "AFC" sh1t...When you make labels, they have certain qualities and the people under the label have them...Thats why you have so many dudes on here saying that they are "DJ" cause they think that they have these qualites and when they make one little mistake, they get scared and think they are "AFC" again..People need to understand that you are a human being...Everyone gets sh1tted on in life at times, and when you try to live up to this "DJ" label, people lose their air of being natual and putting their own little twist on things cause they are trying to live up to a fictional character...Quit that sh1t...Mistakes are good as long as you learned from them, at least you did something...

More stuff later...

 

[aBAzLLnA]

The labels are basic training wheels. Once you realize that the labels are nothing...but labels, you move on. But for the green horns, it's something they can identify with.

 

[stonefromnyc]

I feel you on this about the button up shirts and all that. Its like as soon as jigga came out with the button ups everyone wants to do it. But before when he was wearing throwbacks they wanted to do that too. People especially teenagers like to follow the popular trend. And its crazy cause that trend was started by one man so instead of doing your own thing they wanna follow. Just like when P.diddy had that mohawk then all of sudden people coming into the barber shop like yo I wanna get a mohawk. Its crazy man everyone just needs to get their own style that they like and everything will be all good.

 

[CLOONEY]

The part about 15 year olds telling u what to do is hilarious! So true!!

<--------------------------High school forum that way kiddies! They shoudnt be in this forum!

As far as the site! It is what u make it! U dont have to winge about it!

I personally c the site about telling people to improve themselves in general so they can feel more confidenct within themselves and ultimately help them with the ladies. I think there are rules, but they should only be used as basic guidelines, all rules are made to be broken! Ultimately, if a chick likes u, she likes u. All u gotta do is be a decent guy with a bit of challenge. Other than that, being out socialising a lot, not just to find chicks but to have fun, and get #s will find u a great girl. That pretty much sums up what this site is about, IMHO. Of course then there is the Health and Fitness forum and Anything Else forum which can have some great topics also.

 

[MindOverMatter]

This post was like a breath of fresh air. Maybe the forum's not so dead after all.

 

[CLOONEY]

Oh and whats all this "dont follow the trends bullsh*t"? I am seriously starting to get sick of these philosophical types in the world these days who tell u DO UR OWN THING. DONT FOLLOW PEOPLE. This is true to some extent, but functioning in society, with good fashion, good trends, feeling good about yourself is what life is all about! It will make u TWICE as happy as being a philosopher pointing out the bad sh*t all the time!

 

[aBAzLLnA]

Originally posted by CLOONEY
Oh and whats all this "dont follow the trends bullsh*t"? I am seriously starting to get sick of these philosophical types in the world these days who tell u DO UR OWN THING. DONT FOLLOW PEOPLE. This is true to some extent, but functioning in society, with good fashion, good trends, feeling good about yourself is what life is all about! It will make u TWICE as happy as being a philosopher pointing out the bad sh*t all the time!

Very true. Lived it, and learned it.

 

[squirrels]

The schemas that we use to interpret the world can work for us or against us.

We build certain ways of thinking to make sense of and interact with the world around us. But sometimes those schemas prevent us from seeing (or if we can't deny SEEING it, we don't believe) certain things going on in the world that they can't account for.

It's important to build schemas that help you interact with society, but sometimes you have to break those schemas down and question their validity...question whether there's another way of thinking about the same thing that can describe what you see and hear. Or just shut them off completely and look at the world in its raw state...physical things like sex often can't be boxed into something formulaic and mentally generated.

 

[stonefromnyc]

Originally posted by CLOONEY
Oh and whats all this "dont follow the trends bullsh*t"? I am seriously starting to get sick of these philosophical types in the world these days who tell u DO UR OWN THING. DONT FOLLOW PEOPLE. This is true to some extent, but functioning in society, with good fashion, good trends, feeling good about yourself is what life is all about! It will make u TWICE as happy as being a philosopher pointing out the bad sh*t all the time! [/QUOTE

I respect your opinion and all that but what is so philosphical about telling dudes to do their own thing. But society or no society who is to say what is classy or not or what is right and whats not. Be for real man cause its obvious that you took offense to what I said cause you probably do the same thing. Just cause a celebrity wears something that doesn't automatically means its hot. Ok you make a good point about feeling good and blah blah but let me ask you this. You put on something that you peeped in a fashion mag or someone in the store picked out for you and you happy right cause it looks nice. Now you thinking to yourself like yea I look good and I can bag *****es and whatnot and you feeling good. So anotherwords you can say that your own taste in style is that wack that you gotta follow another person's style to get some play. Clothes don't make the man they present the man so you wear all this fly stuff and all that and you all commercial then ask yourself. Is this really what I'm trying to wear?. If it is then it is nothing more to say but if you doing it for chicks and society then you a fish point blank. I had to realize that too thanks to a couple of dudes on this site who speak the real of the real. Now I got nothing else to say about the subject you can respond and write back or whatever cause as far as I'm concerned you don't exist to me.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Originally posted by aBAzLLnA
The labels are basic training wheels. Once you realize that the labels are nothing...but labels, you move on. But for the green horns, it's something they can identify with.

^^This dude sh1tted on sosuave when he was he was at the PU soo....

 

[aBAzLLnA]

Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
^^This dude sh1tted on sosuave when he was he was at the PU soo....

You mean, "This dude sh!tted on sosuave when he was (only needed to stated once) at the PU soo...."

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Does it matter?

You said the whole DJ thing was gayness then you claim "self-improvement" saved your life..what's up?No beef,you could go and say what you want.

 

[Dirtheart]

Originally posted by CLOONEY
Oh and whats all this "dont follow the trends bullsh*t"? I am seriously starting to get sick of these philosophical types in the world these days who tell u DO UR OWN THING. DONT FOLLOW PEOPLE. This is true to some extent, but functioning in society, with good fashion, good trends, feeling good about yourself is what life is all about! It will make u TWICE as happy as being a philosopher pointing out the bad sh*t all the time!

I also agree. Once you learn how society operates and what works best, then you start to get the most out of it and life gets a lot easier!

All these kids who think they can somehow rebel against the trends and conventions of society get nowhere with their stubborn naivety.

Dressing according to what you see in all the high profile fashion magazines is no less individual than dressing like your homeboys, or your favourite musicians. But I would suggest using the perception of society to your advantage. If 80% of society admire a man in a suit, wear a suit!

Don't fight the system, learn to play it.

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

I have to go agianst (sp) the grain...When I go with the grain, I dont feel like Im trying something new, like Im gonna blend in...But when I go agaisnt it, I feel better and more people like it...Ive been doing for most of my life...I tried to do it like everyone else, but I got sh1tted on cause of it...Now I just do whatever I want...Theres still things out of my comfort zone that I still need to try, so it keeps me good...