Please explain how because I would have to disagree.Vulnerability is what creates attraction, not lies.
The reason why most guys cannot rap their minds around this concept is because logically, it appears as if vulnerability = weakness. But if you had all the abundance in the world and knew that that there was nothing that can hurt you, you would drop all of your defense mechanisms and make yourself 100% vulnerable, and thus it is actually a show of strength and power.
Even if you have abundance, it doesn’t mean you should be vulnerable. You can show empathy, kindness, politeness, wittiness to turn her on. But to tell her your deepest darkest fears and your insecurities and vulnerabilities to turn her on? I don’t think that will help any man.
I wouldn’t tell anyone anything they can use against you. Especially the women you are attracted to and / or sleeping with.