Tenacity said:
zekko and Colossus,
I'm waiting for you guys to tell me what you are getting from the chick that you didn't get when dating? Also, I'm waiting for you guys to tell me that she supports you, is loyal, cooks, cleans, or does something for you in terms of wanting to HELP YOU rather than just enjoying the ride of being with a dude with his shyt together. I understand you guys have your shyt together and you have a chick "riding" with you that is somewhat positive most of the time and doesn't have an attitude problem....I get that....I'm saying what does she do FOR YOU that she wasn't doing outside of the relationship?
You forgot to "re-ask" the question about
loyality.
What happens when you no longer "have your sh!t together"? Then what? Is the woman with you because you're the best deal in town or is she "ride or die" for life
no matter what happens. I can assure you "ride or die" is not the case.
If there is no loyalty at the end of the day.. then the LTR doesn't mean sh!t. It is simply a translation between two people.. similar to job at a company. Mutually beneficial.. but shallow. On top of that.. it has diminishing returns as your woman loses value over time (aging). So you are paying MORE for LESS the longer you commit. Similar to getting more responsibilities at your job each year with a
decrease in pay over time.
Another question I need to ask zekko and Colossus is:
CAN you be happy, whole and fulfilled in life without a LTR? If not.. what is the cause of your co-dependence on these inferior creatures (women)?
As long as you're both "living in the moment" and enjoying these women for what they are
today... you're in a good place. However, if you really believe these women give a sh!t about you.. (
ride or die) then you might still be a blue piller deep down.
Ride or die is the only situation where I would enter a LTR. She has to be so loyal that I could become broke, homeless, and brain damaged and she would still stick around. My time is wasted on being "monogamous" otherwise because a woman who isn't "ride or die" is basically
just a glorified plate whom you have put on a pedestal for some stupid reason.
An old post from Burroughs:
Burroughs said:
Yes indeed this is where we lose 99% of men
Even the *take action* so called alpha men
Women are not stupid they seek men who pedestalize them in all forms athletes, lawyers, tiger woods:crackup:
Smart women let the foolish man think he is *alpha* but steadily drain his bank account and nutsack so he is on the hook for child support for 20 years...meanwhile the man stupidly thinks he is *alpha* because he *got the girl*:rock: