Barrister
Master Don Juan
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@Dash Riprock already gave you the advice you need to hear. And it is going to hurt like hell to pull it off for probably a good 2-3 months. But it will be worse if you don't follow No Contact immediately. She is going to breadcrumb the hell out of you not because she cares about you, but because she wants to feel better about herself and the decision she has made. She also will do it for extra validation while she seeks out other men. The fact she is ending everything via a break-up text tells me that she has a feeling of guilt where she can't talk to you much less look at you. That likely means, as others have stated, that another man is already in the picture that is causing her to feel like she can't even interact with you on a basic level even after four years.She started acting cold and distant sometime ago. I asked about it and she kept bringing up stuff about the past. One day she said I dont miss u anymore like I used to. Yesterday she started texting "Im sorry"
"About what?"
"I cant even say it"
"You replaced me already?"
"no"
"u wanna break up?"
"Yes. Im sorry"
Save your dignity and go NC. When you're ready, reach out to other women - and I actually recommend you focus on self-improvement for a bit before you go for other women. Just based off of my own experience, I was not ready for a good couple of months to date other women following an LTR due to my mind being in a bad place. And if it hasn't already been said - use the NC Thread pinned at the top of the forum. Good luck, brother.