happyman2012
Don Juan
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Been with her a year and she is a nice girl, really good looking, used to get on great, still do but not as much because she has issues:
Jealousy issues
Needy and clingy
I broke up with her recently about it, as I made it clear I couldnt be with someone like that. We spoke about it and she says she is determined to make a change and sort it because she wants to be with me.
Thing is, I dont know if her actions have pushed me away/made me lose attraction for her FOREVER, or if its just temporay as we were going through a bit of a ruff time.
I have started to look at other girls on facebook and think "hmmm I'd love to shag her" and started to think about sleeping with other girls. (I wouldnt cheat on her though) Is this normal when your in a relationship going thru a ruff patch?
How do you know if things just arnt the same anymore/lost attraction
vs
Temporary Phase and things will get back to normal.
Am I right in thinking that time apart would be a good thing to see if I miss her/want to spend time with her e.t.c ?
Perhaps if I do, focusing on slowing things down, seeing each other just a few times a week and doing fun things together, again?
I realise relationships take work from both sides, so is there anything I could do?
I would love for it to work because shed be a top notch if she got rid of the issues.
Dont want ripping apart, just some advice!
Thanks guys
Jealousy issues
Needy and clingy
I broke up with her recently about it, as I made it clear I couldnt be with someone like that. We spoke about it and she says she is determined to make a change and sort it because she wants to be with me.
Thing is, I dont know if her actions have pushed me away/made me lose attraction for her FOREVER, or if its just temporay as we were going through a bit of a ruff time.
I have started to look at other girls on facebook and think "hmmm I'd love to shag her" and started to think about sleeping with other girls. (I wouldnt cheat on her though) Is this normal when your in a relationship going thru a ruff patch?
How do you know if things just arnt the same anymore/lost attraction
vs
Temporary Phase and things will get back to normal.
Am I right in thinking that time apart would be a good thing to see if I miss her/want to spend time with her e.t.c ?
Perhaps if I do, focusing on slowing things down, seeing each other just a few times a week and doing fun things together, again?
I realise relationships take work from both sides, so is there anything I could do?
I would love for it to work because shed be a top notch if she got rid of the issues.
Dont want ripping apart, just some advice!
Thanks guys