Hi all,
I got a problem with my girl and I would like to ask for your advice on the situation.
For more then a year Im with my girlfriend and everthing is cool. She isnt the type that would make you jealous. Every now and then her former f*ckbuddy tries to hook up for a drink...
What I read about this kind of thing on the forum is to just be a men and get over the jealousy, so just let her get the drink with him and just don't care about it because you are the price..
Now I thougt myself not to be jealous but this guy tries to make me look bad.. I had serveral arguments with my girlfriend about him, and how he just plain disrespect her in the past (calling her names, letting her wait for an hour on the street before picking her up) but she didnt get much attention during that time so she stuck to him. One day she told me he called my out on messenger by saying I would dump her for another girl (he just made that up).
After saying that he wanted to have a drink with my girl, she sort of rejected it by saying she had to think about it. She is honest with me, because she tells me everytime he talks to her.
Now this weekend he sended her a text message, saying he was hoping to she her at a party but she wasn't going so he was dissapointed. I asked if she wanted to see him, and she said that see would like that because she isn't mad anymore and its more then a year past she saw him in person...but that if it doesnt happen see doesnt care (I do think she says that just to calm me down)
My problem is that Im pissed off that she wants to see him while he disrespected me.. Also I dont want to forbid her things she wants to do but if she goes there he'll go talking about their fbuddy time..and I just get pissed off by the very thought of that..
Like I said I'm not jealous because she meets alot of slick guys at her work and school, but this guy just bugs me out.
Sorry for the long post but just give me your thinking! Im really doubting if I should just let her go or put her to the confontation...him or me..
Thanks in advance
Treetz
I got a problem with my girl and I would like to ask for your advice on the situation.
For more then a year Im with my girlfriend and everthing is cool. She isnt the type that would make you jealous. Every now and then her former f*ckbuddy tries to hook up for a drink...
What I read about this kind of thing on the forum is to just be a men and get over the jealousy, so just let her get the drink with him and just don't care about it because you are the price..
Now I thougt myself not to be jealous but this guy tries to make me look bad.. I had serveral arguments with my girlfriend about him, and how he just plain disrespect her in the past (calling her names, letting her wait for an hour on the street before picking her up) but she didnt get much attention during that time so she stuck to him. One day she told me he called my out on messenger by saying I would dump her for another girl (he just made that up).
After saying that he wanted to have a drink with my girl, she sort of rejected it by saying she had to think about it. She is honest with me, because she tells me everytime he talks to her.
Now this weekend he sended her a text message, saying he was hoping to she her at a party but she wasn't going so he was dissapointed. I asked if she wanted to see him, and she said that see would like that because she isn't mad anymore and its more then a year past she saw him in person...but that if it doesnt happen see doesnt care (I do think she says that just to calm me down)
My problem is that Im pissed off that she wants to see him while he disrespected me.. Also I dont want to forbid her things she wants to do but if she goes there he'll go talking about their fbuddy time..and I just get pissed off by the very thought of that..
Like I said I'm not jealous because she meets alot of slick guys at her work and school, but this guy just bugs me out.
Sorry for the long post but just give me your thinking! Im really doubting if I should just let her go or put her to the confontation...him or me..
Thanks in advance
Treetz