Well, in your defense, a lot of what you are describing or did say is emulated in pornography. Which is what most men watch and use to understand what sex is supposed to be. Which is, unfortunately, very false.
IDK man, some chicks would have responded well to this. I've had some nasty shi.t spoken to me in my day. I've said some things that made me feel uncomfortable but she really liked it...maybe it was just bad timing...or maybe it came off too c0cky. Just learn from it. Clearly you're not an @ss, you knew what you said was over the top, shi.t man live and learn, I'm not sure there's any other way with women.
I've also noted -- if a chick doesn't "give back", then it's going to be a continued shi.t deal. I was once with a chick who said she "doesn't do" *******s, yet asked me to go down on her more than a few times. My mistake at the time was I was too young to contest or use some sort of clever mindset to flip the coin...but looking back a lot of those types of chicks are just spoiled bishes, a lot of them not used to really giving anything back to anyone anyways.
Live and learn man. Maybe give it a week and try and contact her again. Maybe she could understand if you were caught up in the moment -- she might even give you another shot.
