LR: She says "You think you're getting some tonight but you're not." Then I get some!

BeyondCharm

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I had this girl come over to my place and cook me dinner tonight. She wandered into my bedroom at one point and I pushed her on the bed and said "Wandering can be dangerous" and started making out and grinding with her. She then said "I'm not scared" and we continued making out. After a few minutes I pushed off and said "Let's go finish cooking."

We returned to the kitchen and continued cooking the meal. While cooking she popped the question "So how is it a good looking...very good looking guy such as yourself doesn't have a girlfriend?" --- I wasn't facing her and could not help but grin. I said "I'm unlovable, what can I say?" and she laughed and said "Yea I seem to have the same problem."

I slapped her ass a few times and while we cooked made out with her and pushed her away on several occasions. At point point I even went behind her and ran my hands up her sides and grabbed her breasts for a second, to which she said to me "You don't hold back nothin do you."

By being action oriented with her, I sent a strong sexual frame. Then when we sat down for dinner we were in the middle of eating and I don't remember what we were talking about but out of nowhere she looks me in the eyes and says "You think you're getting some tonight, but you're not." Anyone who has ever read "Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy" should know in a moment like this the first rule is "Don't Panic". Instead of acknowledging her comment, I completely ignored it and changed the topic of conversation completely. Then a minute later I leaned over and kissed her and she hadn't finished all her food so I told her to put it in a ziplock and in the fridge. She got up and went to the kitchen and I went with her and in the kitchen I spun her around and started kissing her again. I let the passion take over and allowed her to seduce me to increase the tension. Then I did the following:

I asked in between kisses: "You consider yourself adventurous?" and she said "Mmmhmm" and I said "You consider yourself spontaneous?" and she said "Mmmhmm" and I said "Are you any good at sex?" and she said "Very good." and I said "ok lets go to the bedroom." and proceeded to take her in there. Two hours of non-stop pummelage later I took her home.
 

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Lol I was thinking she said that to you in a club and you'd just met her or something...pretty standard ASD really when she's at your house.

2 hours inside her? Damn, most of the girls I talk to say they get worn out and sore after about 30 mins....luckily I can pretty much *** on command.
 

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Yeh "You think you're getting some tonight but you're not." means "you can only get some tonight if you are man enough to make me want to give it to you..." - its a very basic confidence/bravery test which is very easy to fail if you really like the girl...

I failed that test 2 months ago with an HB9 and it frustrates me to this day...

I passed it soon after with an HB 7.5 but damn i fell hard for that HB9
 
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just in case no one wants to face the truth,

this guy's looks gave him the confidence to hook up with this girl.....and she was hooked on him because she thought he was hot

awesome job either way buddy
 

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positivity_injection said:
just in case no one wants to face the truth,

this guy's looks gave him the confidence to hook up with this girl.....and she was hooked on him because she thought he was hot

awesome job either way buddy
Positivity_Injection, I agree with you and it goes even further beyond that. Choosing the correct beliefs lead to how you appear to others, confident or weak.

I happen to believe I am a very good looking person. It is my 'belief' that conveys the confidence, since beauty is in the eye of the beholder its all subjective but I believe it. I also believe that women love me and want to have sex with me. Those beliefs and others carry me through many tests thrown my way.

Also, check out this article featured on the front page of www.sosuave.com today that further validates the usefulness of having specific beliefs.

How to Get More Dates

by Allen Thompson

A study at the University of Oregon divided men into two groups based upon how often they dated (high-frequency daters and low-frequency daters). They brought these guys in and had them interact with women. Both the men and the women then filled out a number of evaluation forms.

The women, surprisingly, rated both groups of men about the same, being equally attracted to both the high-frequency daters and the low-frequency daters.

However, the low-frequency dating men underestimated how much the women liked them, and the high-frequency dating men overestimated how much they were liked by the women.

In other words, the high-frequency daters went on a lot of dates, not because they were, in some way, better than the low-frequency daters, but because their confidence (their belief that women liked them) enabled them to actually approach, talk to, and ask out the women that they were attracted to.
 

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DonGorgon said:
Yeh "You think you're getting some tonight but you're not." means "you can only get some tonight if you are man enough to make me want to give it to you..." - its a very basic confidence/bravery test which is very easy to fail if you really like the girl...

I failed that test 2 months ago with an HB9 and it frustrates me to this day...

I passed it soon after with an HB 7.5 but damn i fell hard for that HB9
No matter what a womans reaction to you is, there is always something positive to learn from it. My guess is the next time you're alone with HB9, she'll be begging you to let her know if she meets your standards and expectations.
 
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BeyongCharm, this might be stating the obvious, but you wouldnt believe that you are good looking unless girls have told you so in the past, correct?

the problem is, men without any success with dating, they dont truly believe in their looks because women have never told them they are good looking!!!
 

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positivity_injection said:
BeyongCharm, this might be stating the obvious, but you wouldnt believe that you are good looking unless girls have told you so in the past, correct?

the problem is, men without any success with dating, they dont truly believe in their looks because women have never told them they are good looking!!!
Everyone's perceptions are completely subjective and exist in their own minds. People may share the same opinion but they are still subjective. If 5 girls in a group point at a guy and say "Wow, he's so hot", the sixth girl who just showed up will agree in most cases and find reasons to justify herself in the belief.

Positivity, I don't look to women for validation on any aspect of myself, they look to me for validation. I don't need them to validate my looks. With that said, I've been told I'm good looking by women but that is not the reason I think that I am. I think that I am because it is a better belief for being confident than thinking that i'm not.

Ever seen terminator 3? The Terminator slaps john connor who gets all pissed off at him and he says to terminator "Why'd you do that?" and he says "Because, anger is a more useful emotion than despair"

In essence, we must kick our own ass to make ourselves feel better about who we are. Everyone can tell us how great we look but if we don't believe it ourselves, we wont believe them either. And in the opposite, if we believe it, others will buy into our belief because our belief is strong.
 

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It's funny the girls that say that usually end up doing it with you. It's a ****ing test.
 
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