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Passion (what some call "love" in a romantic relationship) is one of the dumbest feelings ever.
 

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I've dated a few girls and once their love hormones wore off it was the beginning of the end. The more irrational their personality, the more likely this was to happen, and the more rides they'd had on the cahk carousel.
 

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I've dated a few girls and once their love hormones wore off it was the beginning of the end. The more irrational their personality, the more likely this was to happen, and the more rides they'd had on the cahk carousel.
Yep. I remember many times within the span of weeks I went from “this is the most healthy relationship I’ve ever been in. My therapist even said I need to hold on to you because you’re good for me” and a few weeks later it was “I’m sorry I just am not looking to be in a serious relationship right now” which I knew meant she’d found another guy.
 

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Yep. I remember many times within the span of weeks I went from “this is the most healthy relationship I’ve ever been in. My therapist even said I need to hold on to you because you’re good for me” and a few weeks later it was “I’m sorry I just am not looking to be in a serious relationship right now” which I knew meant she’d found another guy.
She was in therapy.. That's where you went wrong.
 

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Any girl in therapy.. on meds, recreational use only.. it's cool we all learn the hard way.
I'd advise against even that to be honest, bro. More likely to make accusations against you or cause you other problems even if recreational use only. Best left alone, I reckon.
 

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I’ve been in love. It is an amazing experience. The highs and lows are off the charts. It’s a drug like nothing else.



legit songs.
 
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Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes.

Young, old, men, women; I hugged anybody who needed a hug.

Not anymore though, too much sex already, not looking for more kittens.
I don't know if I can buy that for Canada and in particular Toronto, Canada. Sounds too much like fantasy-territory that could land you into trouble up here. Maybe Amsterdam (ie where you are from) is a more sex-positive and open culture then these parts. If the people there are that nice there, then I don't think I would even need to visit the Red Light district and would likely just interact with civvies.

Have you visited North America?
 

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Passion (what some call "love" in a romantic relationship) is one of the dumbest feelings ever.
I don't think it's a bad thing. I remember having a crush on a girl a few times, and I've never had so much energy in my life. Made working out super easy too.
 

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I don't think it's a bad thing. I remember having a crush on a girl a few times, and I've never had so much energy in my life. Made working out super easy too.
There's something in this, although the energy and motivation can also take a hit if and when things go wrong.
 

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There's something in this, although the energy and motivation can also take a hit if and when things go wrong.
True, but that's life. It has its ups and downs. If passion were not useful for human survival, it probably wouldn't exist.
 
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