Lots of Theory and Fail, where is the Win?

[Warrior74]

Just sayin...turning into a bunch of old nancys around here talking theory, and a bunch of guys who should probably know better talking about epic fails. Who's winning in the game right now? Give us some inspiration with a tale of epic win and crowning moments of awesome.

 

[Luminescence]

Just sayin...turning into a bunch of old nancys around here talking theory, and a bunch of guys who should probably know better talking about epic fails. Who's winning in the game right now? Give us some inspiration with a tale of epic win and crowning moments of awesome.

And why not focus on meeting your own challenges with zeal? Must everyone advance with you?

 

[Proselytiser]

And why not focus on meeting your own challenges with zeal? Must everyone advance with you?

Sometimes I swear we are being infiltrated by women from LS who just want to start drama

I don't see any other way you could find something wrong with Warrior's post

 

[princelydeeds]

Sometimes I swear we are being infiltrated by women from LS who just want to start drama

I don't see any other way you could find something wrong with Warrior's post

There we have it, More WIN! I agree.

 

[Jitterbug]

Last two months I've been working on myself to improve my values: looks, wardrobe, job and social status.

I get checked out a lot more, some women I know find excuses to give me a back rub, nailed a couple of cougars (late 30s, early 40s), a young doctor (about my age) & am gaming some young hotties: a French biologist, a yoga instructor and two BFF uni students (which I'm playfully getting them to spar each other verbally AND physically - one is telling me I should ask her friend out). There's also this singer who's trying to get into my pants to piss off her ex, but her ex's best friend is my teacher & good friend so I'm dodging her claws.

I'm changing my game this year. Build up more passive values, be more laid back, get women to do more leg work to get my attention. It's working so far, but only early stage. The Awesomes will come later in the year.

 

[synergy1]

I hate hiding behind the "job" excuse, but being completely new to an area and establishing ourselves has not lent itself to meeting women. The good news is that our work has been successful enough that the U.S Government has noticed, and I think they will be helping us out in a big way - order of millions of dollars. Like any start up, we have had our issues, but what we have shown is very promising on a local and even larger scale. You can't help but to be excited about that...

That said, living in the middle of no where sucks. We live just outside of a college town with a decent population, so we can occasionally go there to have a good time. The women thing has consisted of going out and getting a few numbers and thats it. Not anything to write home about. We anticipate moving into town by the july or august, so being local and having a little more time to meet people will help.

In regards to the big picture, a few months struggling with out women is worth the payout of something like this. I don't even want to retire!

 

[Warrior74]

And why not focus on meeting your own challenges with zeal? Must everyone advance with you?

I am. and Yes they must. Where is your win?

 

[Warrior74]

I hate hiding behind the "job" excuse, but being completely new to an area and establishing ourselves has not lent itself to meeting women. The good news is that our work has been successful enough that the U.S Government has noticed, and I think they will be helping us out in a big way - order of millions of dollars. Like any start up, we have had our issues, but what we have shown is very promising on a local and even larger scale. You can't help but to be excited about that...

That said, living in the middle of no where sucks. We live just outside of a college town with a decent population, so we can occasionally go there to have a good time. The women thing has consisted of going out and getting a few numbers and thats it. Not anything to write home about. We anticipate moving into town by the july or august, so being local and having a little more time to meet people will help.

In regards to the big picture, a few months struggling with out women is worth the payout of something like this. I don't even want to retire!

That is serious win! Hell, money over women any day! You can always get women with money, but its hard work to get money out of women. Pimpin ain't easy!

 

[RMM]

Win? No win? I've been on holidays for the last two weeks (back to work next Monday) and I'm doing a car tour of the New Zealand South Island. No advancement on anything other than the fact that these two weeks of roadtrip completely on my own have felt pretty damn good. Nothing like recharging batteries.

 

[Jitterbug]

synergy1, I bet the 20 rep squats have helped with that!

 

[synergy1]

synergy1, I bet the 20 rep squats have helped with that!

Those things got brutal as soon as two plates were used. I wouldn't have been able to pull those off if I was playing puck this year. Working out builds you up, sports tears you down..

Gotta ask, regarding your other post, how are you wheeling cougars like that? When I go out, its mostly folks younger than I am. The women my age or older all have rocks on their fingers. Not doing the home-wrecker game, but I want to get a cougar under my belt before long!

The whole passive thing worked great where I used to live, but I am finding its more difficult down here. There is a fine line between letting things happen, and taking some initiative. If you don't take initiative in some situations, nothing will happen! I found that my friends who were aggressive got what they wanted, but sometimes they did not. One of my boys was trying like nothing else to get with one chick at a bar we were at back in the summer, and she ended up approaching me ( had a g/f at the time so nothing was going to happen).

...ah well, its always a work in progress..

 

[PokerStar]

just the thread i am looking for.

I took a year off of work last year, just to re charge my batteries. Within that time period, I was going out and gaming all types of women. number closing, kiss closing, fclosing.

About 3 months ago I had taken up a new job which is best suited to my experience and skill set. Its a great company that helps develop its employess from within, so lots of courses and stuff to learn

But, since my focus has been on work and making the cheddar, my plethora of women has been dropping. It might be the winter season thats keeping all the hotties inside or maybe I have been concentrating more on work. Either way it kinda got me blue going from a crap load of girls to hardly none at all.

I am looking for some inspiration, something to get my head out of the winter blues. I know it only comes from within, but a little outside influence wont hurt.

Thanks guys!! without you, I wouldnt be the (semi)player pimp i am today!

 

[radiodude]

Currently working on turning up the heat in the bedroom with my wife.

Getting her into a more sexy vibe. Recovering what went away when we had our son in '08. It's going along pretty good. She is more into it and responsive lately. Making her feel sexy. More teasing and flirting with her too. It's fun.

Also working on a new job with much better promotion potential, in a much more attractive town. I have an interview on Monday and I'm told I am the top candidate out of 3.

Goal for this summer is going to be to lose about 20-25 pounds and tone up. Get that 'notch' back on my stomach I used to have.
(I'm 6'1 220ish so I've got some to work with)

 

[Jitterbug]

Those things got brutal as soon as two plates were used. I wouldn't have been able to pull those off if I was playing puck this year. Working out builds you up, sports tears you down..

Yeah the last 2 reps of 105kg I thought I died and the Flying Spaghetti Monster was welcoming me with the you're-my-b!tch-now grin.

I just started soccer again, but am taking a break from 20-reppers for a few weeks to work on heavy low reps.

20-rep squats seem to have increased my T-level and put even more hair on my chest though. There's a quiet confidence you get after suffering them that's very DJ-like.

Gotta ask, regarding your other post, how are you wheeling cougars like that? When I go out, its mostly folks younger than I am. The women my age or older all have rocks on their fingers. Not doing the home-wrecker game, but I want to get a cougar under my belt before long!

When I go out, it's primary early 20s to early 40s crowd. With the older ones, it's the early-mid 30s that are often husband hunting and I've only ever hit one one those. They are very picky (for good reasons I guess) and a 20-something like me with bugger all money isn't an attractive prospect. But late 30s and early 40s are done with that and are out in numbers, going nuts. I've always found it easy to chat up women that age and make them feel good. They're not manly aggressive, but compared to younger women, they're as subtle as a sledge hammer and very little initiative is needed from me. Tbh I don't dig cougars other than it's fun to chat them up, but having something is better than nothing, and they're very enthusiastic in bed. They're in very good shape (from dancing & yoga/pilates) but the rest need good lighting...

The whole passive thing worked great where I used to live, but I am finding its more difficult down here. There is a fine line between letting things happen, and taking some initiative. If you don't take initiative in some situations, nothing will happen! I found that my friends who were aggressive got what they wanted, but sometimes they did not. One of my boys was trying like nothing else to get with one chick at a bar we were at back in the summer, and she ended up approaching me ( had a g/f at the time so nothing was going to happen).

I didn't mean that I should be passive and not take any initiative. I meant that I'm increasing my passive values - things that can be observed without me having to do anything e.g looks, style, social proof.

Last time I was out, I was the best dressed guy in the place easily, am getting more in good shape, knew everyone in the band playing on stage, knew certain attractive women there. Three attractive women gave me the eyes then opened me up that night without me having to do any leg work, but I did take the lead from there. I have dates with two of them next week and just from the texts, they're acting with much more eagerness and responding very quickly whenever I contact them. I'm not used to women of this level of attractiveness (7~8) acting this way. Usually it's the 6s for me, and sometimes I'd get a 7 and occasionally an 8.

My Game is exactly the same as before but my values have gone higher. That works everywhere.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Some things around here will never change. Everyone has advice and suggestions but to put them into action is another thing entirely.

I've seen guys come and guys go who write furtively about their hypotheses and their successes with women.

What these guys don't tell you is what impact all of that rhetoric has in the actual world. In reality where his fellow man and brother also benefits.

They don't because they sit there and spout bile and bullsh!t without any actual experience.

I'm not lumping all guys into this cesspool just the one's who keep asking," why isn't everyone else out there winning?"

Try logging off SoSuave, make a plan to help another brother in need and then put those thoughts into action.

That's growth. Writing posts charging each other with being a pessimist and a troll isn't.

Back in another six months or later girls.