Lost's PU Journey/Journal

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Hey guys. I don't really post here much anymore, but I figure I'll sorta start back again.

Wanted to start a PU journal to track my progress and get advice.

I've done one of these in the past.

Past History:
Found this board a long time ago. Was like year and half or something before I did my first approach. I was a big ***** back then, still kinda am.

My Recent History:
Studied some mystery method. Did about 60 approaches with that.

Currently:
Studying Juggler Method. This one seems a lot more genuine so I really wanna try this out. I should become a good conversationalist this way, rather than just using memorized material.

I still have a bad approach anxiety/fear and it gets worse the longer time I put between approaches.
Even eye contact, which I had become really comfortable with before from doing the bootcamp week1 exercise is hard again.

What I want from this journal:
Anyways, like I said, im just gonna work on different things, and hopefully people here can give advice and encouragement, especially when it comes to the point where im doing real approaches again, and trying to become a really good conversationalist/seductionist.
If anyone knows about Juggler Method, it would be REALLY helpful if they could give me advice, as I post field reports (I will post how a pick-up I did on a chick was, like what was said and what not, and I would like advice from people on how I could have done it better. Please no blind leading the blind though).


Thoughts/Goal Setting:
Anyways, right now im gonna go out and work on eye contact.
I'll also want to work on smiling, saying Hi.
Talking to store clerks/etc.
Talking to everyone.
Approaching chicks and trying to get good at it and get a good skillset where i can consistently lay really hot chicks.

My first actual approaches will probly be Jugglers Delayed Excuse Approach:
"Hi. How are you" *notice something they are wearing "thats a nice ___" And try to keep conversation going... then eject when you don't have anything left to say with "oh yeah, I almost forgot, do you have the time?"

Then after that, ill cut out the excuse and just "Hi, how are you?" and launch into a story about my day.
Not sure how to do this stuff on MOVING sets though. It's much more simple at a venue like a bookstore, starbucks, or a bar. Although I am only 19 and go to college so I can't go to clubs and most bars. But I am going to one bar/concert thingy tomorrow night, so we'll see.

Anyways those won't be for a little while, tonight im gonna just do eye contact.
 

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Did some work on eye contact. Eye contact when facing people isn't too hard, when i conciously force myself (although if unconcious I probly might brake off). But eye contact with your head turned 90 degrees is pretty hard. Gotta work on that.

Also for smile, you should smile BEFORE you make Eye Contact, right? I believe Juggler says if you do it after it looks forced.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Ok, im still not sure about the smiling thing, lol. Should I not smile at ALL before/during approach until she tells me her name/ I reward her?

Did a few Hi's yesterday.
Met up with wing but didn't sarge LOL. Thing was, we went to eat, then it was time to go to the concert.
We went to different ones, he went to a ska one, i went to 80s rock one(including a mother ****ing MetallicA cover band, hell yeah!).
We were supposed to sarge after, but it was pretty late and he had to get up early for work.
Didn't do much conversing in the concert area. Talked to one guy up front. I tried to initiate a chat with this chick at the front too but she didn't hear me too well and just pointed, lol. I tried "Do you know who the next band is?" and was gonna try to go off that, but I guess maybe she thought I said "where is the next band." I dont' know?
Wing and I are supposed to meet tomorrow.


EDIT: Ok dude, I Really think you are supposed to smile BEFORE you even see the chick, or atleast BEFORE she sees you. That's what Juggler says in his ebook.
 
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Ill stick with that guideline for smiling. Its good to walk around with a smirk on. If i dont have one, oh well, but i dont smile just because I see a chick.

Anyways, I decided I'm going back to Mystery Method. I had switched over for false reasons. I really need to do MM for a while till I see some success and see how IT REALLY IS. You can't judge a method until you get good at it.

So Goals:
Reach Social Hook Point in A1 (this includes a LOT)
Run A2 Attraction Material
Work on Expressiveness
Work on Bodylanguage
I'll still keep doing EC stuff everyday
Vibe between routines

Right now I just want to get really good at A1 and do a bit of A2.

Got tests tomorrow and friday. So I probly wont sarge today or tomorrow, but definately will Friday.
 
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