This girl I know is fairly attracted to me and has told me a few times and used various other ways of communicating it to me. Now this comes as a shock to me, because she is incredibly good looking, and as much as I would like to be with her she seems "out of my league." Ive just never had a hot girl more interested in me than i am with her...and I don't know how to react. Not sure to respond to her messages, I dont know what to say....any suggestions for someone who feels intimidated due to a girls good looks.
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easyjim
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Eat several hits, wait 2 hours, call and tell her that the blood you are watching flow through your veins is flowing for her and that you just spoke with some rocks who said you were meant to be together forever......
Ok, enough reminising......
Really, don't do this......
If you let yourself be intimadated with this girl's looks, you are going to lose. The way to get this girl is to show you aren't intimidated by her whatsoever.
I don't really like the word, but "chuckle" at her signals as if they're cute. Notice them, but dont let them send you head over heels.
Lean back and remember that the attraction this girls feels for you will vanish in the same second you start acting like an excited dog that knows its going for a walk.
Also, with hot girls such as this one, they only DESERVE 1 call for everytime they call you.
Your already giving her too much power.
Relax and show that while you may be interested, you certainly dont need her.
Goodluck
Ok, enough reminising......
Really, don't do this......
If you let yourself be intimadated with this girl's looks, you are going to lose. The way to get this girl is to show you aren't intimidated by her whatsoever.
I don't really like the word, but "chuckle" at her signals as if they're cute. Notice them, but dont let them send you head over heels.
Lean back and remember that the attraction this girls feels for you will vanish in the same second you start acting like an excited dog that knows its going for a walk.
Also, with hot girls such as this one, they only DESERVE 1 call for everytime they call you.
Your already giving her too much power.
Relax and show that while you may be interested, you certainly dont need her.
Goodluck
PuertoRican_Lover
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Be a man and quit being so scaaaaaaaaaaaaaared! Women are suppose to be prettier than men, and you are suppose to go after women that are attractive to you.
What you see as a hb9.5, I might see as a hb6, and she might put herself as a hb7.5 - so which one of us is right??? She may see you as a 8 and you see yourself as a 5 - but beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so your perception of yourself doesn' really matter, does it?. Nor does it change the fact that she is attracted to you. So I don't understand what pains you to proceed, except your wrongful thinking!!!
Don't be your worst enemy!! Also, you don't have her yet, it'll take some work on your part to keep her interest...you should be focusing on that and not a non-issue.
Women are attracted to men for more than their looks alone - many factors involved that have been mentioned on many threads. The number one factor and the most elementary is our masculinity! Cling to this above all else!!
What you see as a hb9.5, I might see as a hb6, and she might put herself as a hb7.5 - so which one of us is right??? She may see you as a 8 and you see yourself as a 5 - but beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so your perception of yourself doesn' really matter, does it?. Nor does it change the fact that she is attracted to you. So I don't understand what pains you to proceed, except your wrongful thinking!!!
Don't be your worst enemy!! Also, you don't have her yet, it'll take some work on your part to keep her interest...you should be focusing on that and not a non-issue.
Women are attracted to men for more than their looks alone - many factors involved that have been mentioned on many threads. The number one factor and the most elementary is our masculinity! Cling to this above all else!!
TheNonPedant
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Here's what I did to get over my fear of people. Realize that in this world, people are killing, dying, raping, starving, stealing, etc...many real issues and problems.
in the real world worrying about what anyone thinks about you (positive or negative) is so insignificant....its not even a real problem...its all in your head and not in the real world.
Really....Think about it...with all the actual problems in this world, and you worry about a girl's opinion? It's weak. Ask her out or don't....just don't make a big problem out of what in this world is so insignificant
in the real world worrying about what anyone thinks about you (positive or negative) is so insignificant....its not even a real problem...its all in your head and not in the real world.
Really....Think about it...with all the actual problems in this world, and you worry about a girl's opinion? It's weak. Ask her out or don't....just don't make a big problem out of what in this world is so insignificant
