Lost my virginity.... Not as cool as you might think.

[SPEAK]

Ok yeeeha!!! i finally did it...

My life is forever changed and I am a totally different person.... NOT! I am the same person I was before but a little more experienced with a lot more stress. I had sex with a trashy girl and the condom broke. I have no idea if I have an STD but I will go get checked out, but more importantly there is the possibility of a child...

Honestly if I could take it back I would, it just wasn't worth it. It wasn't that great and I hope that it will be way better with someone I actually care for (sounding like a girl here haha.)

But anyway it was a good experience for me because it opened my eyes to the fact that my main goal should not be sex. I am now looking for a relationship and for the first time in my life I feel like I am ready for one.

I don't know what the point of this post is, but hopefully someone will not make the same mistake I did.

 

[eaglez1177]

Ok yeeeha!!! i finally did it...

My life is forever changed and I am a totally different person.... NOT! I am the same person I was before but a little more experienced with a lot more stress. I had sex with a trashy girl and the condom broke. I have no idea if I have an STD but I will go get checked out, but more importantly there is the possibility of a child...

Honestly if I could take it back I would, it just wasn't worth it. It wasn't that great and I hope that it will be way better with someone I actually care for (sounding like a girl here haha.)

But anyway it was a good experience for me because it opened my eyes to the fact that my main goal should not be sex. I am now looking for a relationship and for the first time in my life I feel like I am ready for one.

I don't know what the point of this post is, but hopefully someone will not make the same mistake I did.

1. Nobody ever said you're life was going to be completely changed and that you were going to be a totally different person. Idk where you got that notion from, but its totally wrong.

2. Just because the condom broke doesnt mean theres automatically the possibility of a child. If you didnt cvm at all, then I highly doubt shes going to get pregnant.

3. Some of the best sex you will ever have in your life will be with girls you don't give a sh*t about. Thats plain and simple fact. I never understood why guys assumed that just because they really cared about someone, that automatically the sex would be amazing. That is not true AT ALL.

4. Why view this as a mistake? Almost everyone goes through the same thing. Its just part of life. A LOT of people have bad sex their first time (which is totally understandable). But, that doesnt mean you have to add a negative connotation to it and call it a "mistake". Its just a learning experience thats all.

 

[SPEAK]

ok thanks guys but I never had the notion that I would change I was just being sarcastic because thats the way I know a lot of guys think. And yes I did cvm but the possibility is still small and maybe it wasnt that good cus I was really drunk,

 

[Groovy]

3. Some of the best sex you will ever have in your life will be with girls you don't give a sh*t about. Thats plain and simple fact. I never understood why guys assumed that just because they really cared about someone, that automatically the sex would be amazing. That is not true AT ALL.

I don't get it... Why do you say this, can you please elaborate?

 

[eaglez1177]

I don't get it... Why do you say this, can you please elaborate?

Well because I know from experience that it is true. The first time I ever had sex was with someone I really cared about, my gf (now ex gf). Needless to say, it wasnt that great at all. I was bad, she was bad, and the sex was bad. Simple as that. We were both just very inexperienced.

That being said, I did get laid by a different girl after I broke up with my gf, and that was AWESOME. Really was a TON of fun. We were both experienced, had no strings attached, and just had a lot of fun fvcking. Best part about it was that neither of us had any emotional attachment to each other, and we never let it bring the sex down. Just havin sex cuz it felt good and was fun haha.

Bottom line is that you dont need to care about someone or have an emotional attachment for the sex to be good. Just because you and a girl care about each other doesnt mean the sex is gonna be amazing (for example, you could both be very inexperienced and it may suck, like what happened my first time).

 

[MrP]

Man... I gotta fvck some sluts!

 

[Poonani Maker]

I'd Rather fvck girls who just love to fvck. I only seek out these kinds. Even these kinds get clingy after a great fvck, rubbing my arm and holding my hand telling me that I'm the best she ever had blah blah blah. That's when I grab my clothes and head out the door. If she tries to kiss me goodbye, I turn so that it lands on my cheek.

 

[Ice882]

This is also a moron section of your post. I don't care if you have a lot of green dots by your name, you are really foolish, and I'm not afraid of you red-dotting me (OHHH NOOO). You simply want people to follow your path, and that's all it is. I have a friend who lost his virginity to a hooker (and banged a few more hookers after that), then he got an ugly girlfriend. His girlfriend is also really stupid if that makes a difference. Recently he told me that sex with his gf was better than the hooker, and the reason he kept banging hookers in the past was cuz he didn't know what sex was like when he FELT something (referring to sex with his gf).
Let me also point out that due to common sense, his ugly gf is obviously LESS EXPERIENCED than the hookers.


So there you have it, a guy that admits that his ugly inexperienced gf was a better lay than a hot experienced hooker.

1. hookers aren't hot, they're disgusting
2. maybe the gf's a good fvck. her being ugly doesn't make her bad in the sack.

Sorry bud.

 

[boomerick]

Read Eaglez1177 reply over and over again gentlemen.......

It's full of truth.....

You've been brought up on a lot of Disneyland nonsense as far as "finding a relationship" and sex=good but sex+relationship=better.......

Hahahahahahahah.....don't count on it .....

Go out and have fun and realize the sex and relationships will come....

Usually when you least expect it ......for f*cks sake play the field .....

Chicks are supposed to be fun not a life task that must be overcome or conquered.....

Also don't define yourself by your success with women....

Manson and Bundy were both sucessful with women.... but...what kind of men were they????....

Lighten up and enjoy the chicks...have fun with em....

Over and Out.

 

[Ice882]

the girl only had one boyfriend in her past sorry

You say that like its definitive....

You can be good in bed from the very first time you have sex. You can also be terrible after years and years and hundreds of fvcks. Experience isn't everything. Also, having 1 boyfriend...means you can fvck him 50 times, 100 times, 150 times.... plenty of experience even if she was terrible to start.

 

[CuriousGirl]

Well because I know from experience that it is true. The first time I ever had sex was with someone I really cared about, my gf (now ex gf). Needless to say, it wasnt that great at all. I was bad, she was bad, and the sex was bad. Simple as that. We were both just very inexperienced.

That being said, I did get laid by a different girl after I broke up with my gf, and that was AWESOME. Really was a TON of fun. We were both experienced, had no strings attached, and just had a lot of fun fvcking. Best part about it was that neither of us had any emotional attachment to each other, and we never let it bring the sex down. Just havin sex cuz it felt good and was fun haha.

Bottom line is that you dont need to care about someone or have an emotional attachment for the sex to be good. Just because you and a girl care about each other doesnt mean the sex is gonna be amazing (for example, you could both be very inexperienced and it may suck, like what happened my first time).

Yeah but it definitely makes it better. I've had incredible sex with someone I didn't care for and the situation got messed up, and even though the sex was amazing it had a bad after-taste. It's better when sex doesn't have that, and I think when you feel more passionately for someone you get even more fired up and also the post-sex cooling off and catching your breath is more intimate when you feel something for them.

 

[Sir Psycho Sexy]

when you feel more passionately for someone you get even more fired up and also the post-sex cooling off and catching your breath is more intimate when you feel something for them.

Agree

Sex in a relationship is relaxing and more fulfilling. ONS have their place, it is a rush to be with someone new, but definitely not better for me.


Congrats
I have a habit of giving rep whenever someone loses their virginity. Its a big step toward becoming good with women.
+1

 

[eaglez1177]

what do you live under a rock, try all of society

Hahah huh!? Not ONCE in my life have I ever gotten any sort of notion that once I lost my virginity I would become "forever changed" and "a totally different person".

Claiming that all of society drills this false notion into our heads is just being ignorant and stupid. In my opinion, its just the super-afc chumps that believe sh*t like this. Since they have never gottten laid before, they believe that the aspect of losing their virginity is amazing, will change their life forever, and all that stupid crap. Almost like putting the aspect of losing your virginity on a bigtime pedestal. And then, when they do lose their virginity (like the OP here), they realize how utterly stupid and pointless those false beliefs were.

K lets see what else this genius has to say...

This is also a moron section of your post. I don't care if you have a lot of green dots by your name, you are really foolish, and I'm not afraid of you red-dotting me. You simply want people to follow your path, and that's all it is. I have a friend who lost his virginity to a hooker (and banged a few more hookers after that), then he got an ugly girlfriend. His girlfriend is also really stupid if that makes a difference. Recently he told me that sex with his gf was better than the hooker, and the reason he kept banging hookers in the past was cuz he didn't know what sex was like when he FELT something (referring to sex with his gf).
Let me also point out that due to common sense, his ugly gf is obviously LESS EXPERIENCED than the hookers.


So there you have it, a guy that admits that his ugly inexperienced gf was a better lay than a hot experienced hooker

Wow. I could go on forever about this one. You seriously believe just because I have one more stupid green dot than you next to my name that im "above" you or "more experienced"? Grow up moron.

But wait!! Oh no!! What if he red dots me!?! What will I ever do!? Hahahaha

And again, do you honestly believe that I'm going out of my way just to have people behind a fvcking computer screen "follow my path"? WOW.

And your foolish example proves absolutely nothing. It doesnt matter if that kids gf is ugly or super hot, she could still be horrible at sex simply due to a lack of experience. I personally believe that the more and more experience you have with something, eventually you will become better at it. For all we know that girl couldve fvcked her boyfriend in a ton of different positions many, many times.

Yeah but it definitely makes it better. I've had incredible sex with someone I didn't care for and the situation got messed up, and even though the sex was amazing it had a bad after-taste. It's better when sex doesn't have that, and I think when you feel more passionately for someone you get even more fired up and also the post-sex cooling off and catching your breath is more intimate when you feel something for them.

Ok, but I was referring to the actual sex, not the post-sex cooling off phase. Still though, even if you do really really care for someone, the sex can still be horrible. Theres a bunch of things that can go wrong that are related to inexperience. Condom isnt fitting on right, maybe its inside out, youre not familiar with a variety of positions, it may be tough to last long, etc.

 

[SPEAK]

Hey thanks for the rep sir psycho sexy. Now as for my OP the opening lines were meant to be ironic and tongue and cheek, I have never believed that losing it would change me and I knew that things would be exactly the same. I just posted that because I know there are people out there, like some friends of mine, that are convinced it will change things. Sorry for the confusion, and always I appreciate everyones replies, and I feel that this is one of those topics that will be different for everyone.

SPEAK

 

[Poonani Maker]

It's been a while since I lost my virginity, but IT MAY take you 2 or 3 times to lose your virginity, as a male. Females have to get that hymen broke. Losing your virginity, to me, is when you shift from the mindset of "it's hard to get sexual with a woman" to it's easy as H3ll to just start feeling her up making out, foreplay, and just, fvcking. When you're a virgin it's just awkward, and you don't know what a woman wants to feel, or where she wants to feel you.

 

[Ice882]

I don't care what you say about experience. Sex is better when you know the person regardless how experienced she is. All I'm trying to say, and lmao at the guy writing a 2 page angry response back to me which I didn't even read.

??? lmao what are you on...

 

[eaglez1177]

I don't care what you say about experience. Sex is better when you know the person regardless how experienced she is. All I'm trying to say, and lmao at the guy writing a 2 page angry response back to me which I didn't even read.

Lol yea okay im sure you never read it :crackup:

I love your logic btw hahaha