The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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Losing your "TENS" obsession, and dating SEVENS. The PROCESS explained.

NeverFear

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Doc's article about "JOE AVERAGE" getting nines and tens was interesting, but I mainly liked the part about INNER qualities.

At this point, you're rolling your eyes. Why? Because chances are YOURE joe average. You wouldnt need this site if you werent.

And chances are also good that YOU WANT a nine. Or higher.

Because youve never dated one, and feel an obsession to be with the model.

But I've successfully gotten over that obsession, and you can too. Here's how.(by the way, ive dated several nines and tens so i know exactly what im talking about).

1. Think. After watching some of those reality shows, ask yourself a question. Why would you WANT one of those women? Here's a list of their qualties: self absorbed, shallow, dumb, expensive, high maintenance, manipulative. Generally, theyve never had to be a "giver".

A. Trust me. These qualities are NOT attractive. In fact, you'll come to HATE them. And her. In a few months. Or after you're married. Then divorced. Or cheated on after married. After she begins complaining about your salary.

2. Attractiveness. See, theres plenty of six through eights out there. They make better wives. Theyre more likely to have developed mature qualities. But theyre also attractive. Not stunning, but attractive. And doc is right. They become MORE attractive later.

A. Begin dating the six through eights. DO NOT chase tens. Make it a habit. See how much better your life is.

3. HYPOCRITE. You are one. See? You denigrate tens because they dont want to date you, but YOURE a seven and you want to date a ten. See? Youre the hypocrite. Not her.

She only wants to date her equal, but youre obsessed with her looks. That makes you a loser.

Doc Love is right. The real problem on joe average is the GUYS, not the girls. The girls are only being who they are. They guys are trying to be something else, and on top of it, are offering unchallenging behavior.

A. Now that youre in your right mind, begin dating viable women. Not fantasies. Not obsessions.
 

Ice Cold

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Here's a list of their qualties: self absorbed, shallow, dumb, expensive, high maintenance, manipulative. Generally, theyve never had to be a "giver".
If you make this an axiom, then your post is correct.

There are different "tens" out there. I think you define a 10 just by her looks. It's not the looks, it's a pattern of b1tchy behaviour with flakes and games. Doesn't mean she's hot.
 

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If a gorgeous girl you met is a b1tch, by all means dump her. But don't dismiss every gorgeous girl just because you think there's a b1tchy attitude behind the pretty face. True success is reserved only for those who keep on trying no matter how many times they fail. If your idea of true success with women is finding one who's gorgeous both inside and out, simply keep on trying. That or do what you just said, which is admit your defeat and give up.

P.S. Ice, my car is still in the shop for an engine swap. We'll chill soon!
 

Ice Cold

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Originally posted by Krassus
P.S. Ice, my car is still in the shop for an engine swap. We'll chill soon!
WOW How long does it take to change the engine? ROFL

Gimme a call when you're done
 
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