Losing Patience & Getting Pissed of with a young Girl's **** Tests

[BornStunner]

I have been laying about 2 girls regularly, and I alternate them on different weekends or weekdays and weekends. One is (31 years, 7.5) the other is (25yrs, 8). They wash my clothes, cook and clean and we have good sex. This pattern has made me comfortable and I stopped going to get new girls. The first one is coming to my place on Saturday.

I recently last weekend ended things with the other. Thus, I'm looking for a replacement.

Right now, a girl left my house (23yrs, 8.5). I got her number about 7 weeks back and because she was way too late for the for the first date, I cancelled it and didn't bother. From the phone conversation then, I realized she was assertive and wanted to do things her way. I called her yesterday morning (working from home) for a date in the afternoon (12 noon). She didn't show and I didn't hear from her, but I didn't mind because I was busy and out. She called later last night (7.50pm) and said she tried my number, around the time for the date, but it was didn't go through. I had a way to verify this. I found she called by 1:26pm.

I decided to give her another shot. Called her this morning and asked when she would be available to meet up. She told me 1pm. I set a date for 1:30pm at a mall nearby. I called her by 1pm and changed the location to my house. She arrived by house by 2.26pm.

In my usual style, I was physically playful with her, putting her on my shoulders and walking around the house. In minutes, my hands were on her tits, through her top. She didn't flinch at this. I grabbed her but a couple of times. Kissed her neck a couple of times, tried to put my hand into her bra, but she stopped me. I kept the play, tried again later. She stopped me.

We we having casual conversation about her family, the place she grew up, her career. She recently left her job as a shop attendant and wants to become a waitress at a bar or club.

I got her to lie on the bed with me. Got her to rest her head on her hands on my chest, with my hand on her butt. I tried 3-4 times to get my hand under her panties to her bare butt. But she refused. I got tired and pissed at this point.

I got back to my laptop, worked for a few minutes and went to take a ****. When I got back, she said she wanted to leave.

I was fed-up already, but I kissed her forehead, both cheeks and both sides of her neck and bit both ears. When I bit the second ear, she felt some pain and pushed me away.

She left, but I was too pissed to see her off to my gate. She made a comment about that, to which I didn't reply.

I called her back, thinking I probably wasn't patient enough. I got her to sit on my lap. I then asked her why she had that pissed off look on her face. She threw the question back at me. I asked her a few more questions which she threw back at me again.

At this point, I had enough. I told her she could leave.

She left. But came back 2 minutes later, banging my window and asking that I help her open the gate, that I was too heavy. (This is a compound with 7 tenant flats and a house for the landlord).

I thought she probably changed her mind about going and I held her hand to bring her back to my flat and she pulled away.

I started walking back to my flat as I tried calling the security to open the gate for her, but he wasn't picking.

I walked in and closed the door. There was no way I would walk all the way to the gate to open for her.

I deleted the number, messages and call history.

I know I did somethings wrong here, but I don't know what exactly.

I have another date in about 35 minutes from now with a (24yrs, 9.1).

What could I have done better?

 

[Julian]

At least you got some balls bro cuz u sound like a fkin savage! With a little more patience you could have smashed her on your next meetup

 

[BornStunner]

You're not being sh*t tested.

You're getting frustrated with trying to make something happen when it's not progressing fast enough for you naturally. You're trying too hard and getting frustrated with the consequences when that turns women off.

That's not a sh*t test.

It's called being too thirsty.




And that should have been the end of it all. But it wasn't....




Would have never happened if you moved on after the first incident. But whatever. Surely after this, it certainly should have been the end of it.

But it wasn't!









OK. A lot of bad sh*t there. But finally...the end of it!

Oops. Nope. Hold on....




Thirsty.




Butt hurt.



Thirsty.




Butt hurt.



Stop being thirsty.

Stop acting butt hurt because you keep giving women chance after chance after chance because you're being so thirsty.

Stop getting angry and thinking the negative effects of being thirsty is a "sh*t test". Its not. it's declining attraction.

A little persistence is sometimes ok, but you're trying way too hard.

The only test being failed here is being applied by you on yourself against your own dignity and the abundance mentality, which you are failing hard.

Thank you. I didn't realise this.

 

[BornStunner]

No second chances unless they’re practically throwing themselves at you, and maybe not even then if you truly have enough options otherwise to keep you happy.

I'll remember this

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

There is little patience in the savage approach, IMO.

If I had to pick one member here who embodies the savage approach well, it would be @DEEZEDBRAH. Smash or next. Not many second, third, fourth, fifth chances being thrown around there.

Ironically enough, I was once a sweet guy. Being Savage is so much more fun IMHO. Its not pushed enough in pickup or dating. I would say, mode1 is the closest. I've gone full retard on pickup which i don't recommend. Pragmatism is GOAT STATUS. No ambiguity. I lead. She follows or next!

There's always taller, richer, better looking, etc. Dudes must play the hand they are dealt. The following is matched by, hotter girls are turning 18 everyday.

Every dog has his day.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Thank you. I didn't realise this.

Born mate, if you read the game, the story takes a Dark turn. You are warned of misogyny. What is declared and called misogyny today is actually the veil of female nature being debunked.

She's one cheese burger and or broken condom away from expired. Real talk. Act accordingly.

Do a cost analysis of output to game. In terms of ROI. Women rarely bring much outside sex. Forget pickup and a decade of it +/-, in my life, I can count a handful of women who are awesome. They are worthy. Not a wife, no playing house, and white picket fence. Just pointing out that the value they brought was abbreathe of fresh air.

Women have been weaponized. They are not feminine, *** dumpster, aborted fetuses and near bulking season before shifting their paradigm conveniently as SMV craters.

Read the red queen and sperm wars. Lean about the barbaric nature of women. Approach dating from a evolutionary perspective. It puts female nature in check. Behaviour is often the only indicator of interest level or lack thereof. Act accordingly.

 

[backseatjuan]

You haven't created any attachment with that girl and validated the fck out of her and she ran off, duh. Take them out on a date and give them an experience, show them your masculine frame, make them chase your validation.

She flakes 1st time you call. Validation.
She flakes 2nd time you call. Validation.
You invite her straight to your house. Validation.
You go all sexual on her and sht. Validation.

 

[17 shots]

If I'm reading this correctly, then this was your first time meeting up with her in person since you pulled her number. If it was just the first time, then it's not really that big of a deal that she didn't let you have sex with her. She let you kiss her and grab her butt, that's good enough for a first meet up. You just need to be more patient, and realistic. I mean sure there are some hos out here who will smash the first time they come to your house, but it's not going to go that way most of the time

She asked why you had a mad look on your face, which means you let it be visibly known that you were upset by her denying your sexual advances. You can never do that, you have to come off like your unfazed. I've had women sit on my bed and deny me touching their butt the first time they came over. I had sex with them the second or third time they came over though, sometimes you have to play chess