Losing interest in my gf because of sex/etc

[Dhoulmagus]

It was good when we first met, but she got lazier as time went by. It's to the point where it's not even worth it anymore. We don't have sex that much anymore because she will set dates to where we can't **** unless I want to be put on the public sex offenders list. Im lucky to get sex once a week and its not great at all. I miss having real sex with other girls lol, Her viewpoint of dating is very middle schoolish and it's getting on my nerves because im more independent. I was scared to go for other girls, but I said screw it and I am pursuing other girls right now lol. It would be really easy to cheat on her lol too. She would kill me if I broke up with her because she's obsessed with me.

 

[piranha45]

Don't let her set the time and place of a date, you set it. Stop asking for her opinions, stop asking for her input on anything. Dictate how things will be, and that they will be on your terms.

If she's truly obsessed, like you say she is, then she will submit to your demands and love the fact that her man is finally telling her what to do.

If she isnt obsessed, you are driving forth the wedge for a much-needed breakup so you can score quality girls. She'll get mad and stop talking to you, and you can formally tell her you're done with her.

Either way, you win.

The only challenge is accepting that you need to break your emotional bond with her, so you can man the **** up and make this happen.

 

[Lozboss]

OP

Piranha has it right. You drive the dates.

If she continues to not put out then walk away.

Don't be the arseh*le who cheats- if it's not for you then walk away and tell her why. Cheating is a cowards game. Be a MAN not a BOY.

 

[HeadLightsOn]

OP

Piranha has it right. You drive the dates.

If she continues to not put out then walk away.

Don't be the arseh*le who cheats- if it's not for you then walk away and tell her why. Cheating is a cowards game. Be a MAN not a BOY.

If she isnt putting out in the relationship and OP has called her on it, with no improvement, then cheating is ok. Fck the moral high ground in that situation.

 

[piranha45]

If the woman's no fun and the sex sucks and ur gonna actively look for other women anyway, then whats the point in maintaining the pretense of a relationship?

It'll just keep the guy emotionally entangled with the woman. He needs to see where she stands and end it if she doesn't submit, ASAP, so he can get over potential oneitis issues

 

[Dhoulmagus]

I can't just force her to go to my bedroom from a given place lol. Ive tried to be aggressive one day and she said it's not under her consent so it would be rape.

 

[piranha45]

Wow dude, shes got you whipped like that? Should've said something earlier.

Grab your balls out of her purse and look for better. The sooner you ditch her the sooner you can start breaking down your oneitis feels and be a man again.

 

[Lozboss]

OP move on if you want a better sex life. No other option. Dump her and walk away.

Thread Closed

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Lol do you want me hold a gun up to her head or something? Even if I do get sex, id rather just watch porn. Id rather just have a girl with no issues putting out and doesn't act like a spoiled 6th grader.

 

[blind_one]

Dhoulmagus, like previous posters have said, she is obviously not fulfilling so GET THE FFFFFFF out. You know it is and we are here to confirm it for you. You will feel lost at the begining but afterwards you will feel your unleashed energy rise as right now you are constrained in a relationsh!t. Tell her you need space to reconsider your relationship and go your own way ie. pursue other options. If she reaches out F her if its still bad / she declines its bye bye forever girl. Move on from her.

 

[skinnyguy]

You post something almost every day about how your gf sucks.

Either go to a relationship counselor or dump her. If you don't it will get worse.