Don Rooster
Don Juan
As you can see I'm fairly new here but I'd just like to say thank you to everyone that has helped me out so far.
I'm a recovering AFC and having experienced all this stuff first hand has helped me immensely.
However, I have recently stumbled upon a consequence of my recovery. Because I'm now a guy that doesn't take cr*p from anyone and won't stand for being disrespected, I've kinda fallen out with a lot of my best friends. Maybe not fallen out but I don't hang out or contact them much if at all.
Now these 10 or so people were my best friends, I'd do something with one of them every weekend. But now I'm having weekends where I have no offers at all and truth be told, whilst I feel I'm much more of a man than I was, I'm not having nearly as much fun.
A few of them are girls who I acted totally AFC with *cringe* and let them disrespect me, the rest are guys, and whilst I do enjoy their company, they have disappointed me in some way.
My problem is what to do. Do I act like everything is like it was before and get in touch and hang out? Or do I forget about them, and whilst my social life may suffer in the short run, risk it and hope that I will make new better friends? I don't know if I'm being too harsh on them. Let me know anyway. Thanks guys.
I'm a recovering AFC and having experienced all this stuff first hand has helped me immensely.
However, I have recently stumbled upon a consequence of my recovery. Because I'm now a guy that doesn't take cr*p from anyone and won't stand for being disrespected, I've kinda fallen out with a lot of my best friends. Maybe not fallen out but I don't hang out or contact them much if at all.
Now these 10 or so people were my best friends, I'd do something with one of them every weekend. But now I'm having weekends where I have no offers at all and truth be told, whilst I feel I'm much more of a man than I was, I'm not having nearly as much fun.
A few of them are girls who I acted totally AFC with *cringe* and let them disrespect me, the rest are guys, and whilst I do enjoy their company, they have disappointed me in some way.
My problem is what to do. Do I act like everything is like it was before and get in touch and hang out? Or do I forget about them, and whilst my social life may suffer in the short run, risk it and hope that I will make new better friends? I don't know if I'm being too harsh on them. Let me know anyway. Thanks guys.