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Losing a girl's interest after kissing her on the first date/meet

wifehunter

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Someone needs to clarify this for me... All over the site and forum, its taught that you need to escalate, escalate, escalate or am I missing something here....?
It's PUA crap. Chicks will escalate if we let them. Better to busy yourself with screening before that happens.
 
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R.U.G.

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Someone needs to clarify this for me... All over the site and forum, its taught that you need to escalate, escalate, escalate or am I missing something here....?
Escalate with touching, not shoving your tongue into some woman's mouth when she doesn't want it. You start to caress her thighs, small of her back while walking, arms, neck. When you go into for a kiss, test the waters.. See if her face meets you half way. If not, go for a hug and call it a night. However, I still believe it's best to go for a kiss on the second date. Builds tension and frustration in her head which can actually building favor for you as she's thinking either A, she wasn't good enough. B, he's not interested. C, he has other options.
 

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Escalate, escalate ... that’s the only way you’ll get the message accross that you’re interested, unless you want to end in the friendzone
 

wifehunter

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Escalate, escalate ... that’s the only way you’ll get the message accross that you’re interested, unless you want to end in the friendzone
it's an illusion...just letting her know in one instance is fine. No need to go overboard.
 
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