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ReTiCuLeX

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Hey all. It's been quite some time since I've actually visited the forum. I'm in search of some advice and I know most of you can help if anyone can in a positive respect.

I've met a girl on myspace. Yeah I know it's not the place to meet woman. But here I'am asking ya'll with mercy for help. Lately I've been depriving myself of going out in the real world meeting chicks, living a inactive social active life due to financial issues ( which this girl I may add know's I'm currently not working ), and school. I've been unemployed now 3months, buming it out and just studying for this HVAC license I'm going for.

To sum it up, I met this girl I'm very interested in on Myspace. A very intelligent, pleasent, non-clubbing, good girl, who's in her last year of Catholic school that's 18 years old that has very high ambition to become someone ( an accountant ). From her pictures I'd say she's atleast a 7. I've been talking to this girl now about two weeks. At first she told me I was mysterious, using my don-juan tactics, but this didn't last for long. After she gained my confidence, and I felt relativly comfortable with her talking over AIM messenger and the phone I let out of true feelings.

I became very infatuated with this girl, and I HAVENT even met her yet. I feel like I could be very honest with her at all times ( Telling my feelings about her ), and she asks me to do so; yet it's wrong. I'm starting to overdo it, and I want to slowly shy away from it to always keep her interest level up, even though she still seems sincere and interested. I've been desperate for someone to love it seems. How may I stop being an AFC and continue to have a possible romantic interest with this girl?

I've tried to meet her, but I've overdone it at times with my persistance. She want's to bring a friend along, because supposidley it's her first internet date and doesn't feel comfortable alone, and she really doesn't like the whole internet meeting thing. She invited me to lunch saturday with her friend I kind of felt like she stood me up " her car wouldn't start on april fools " and she had it jumped by her dad or w/e, thus she didnt' go to lunch with her friend and invite me to join; though she did make an atempt by texting me early in the morning before I was supposed to call her, to warn me that her car was broken. Well ok, I bought the story because she seems very sincere. I really don't know what to do from here other then hopefully meet her friday with her friend for lunch. Kind of makes me feel a little awkward, but I have to show my confidence to two people, not one.

Thanks in advance fellas,
- ReT
 

spider_007

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ReTiCuLeX said:
......and the phone I let out of true feelings.
- ReT
this is never good, not even with friends (guy or gurl). Bolive it or not it's NOT EVEN A GOOD IDEA WITH FAMILY. It's a relationship killer.
 

DJ Alejandro

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you have to understand that she is right. she may need a friend for her safety. and for yours as well. why dont you bring your wingman along? it could help a lot. cuz if its quality time you want with her, get some help.
 

ReTiCuLeX

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Thanks guys for the tips! I think a wingman would be a great idea. I'll see who I can bring along.
 
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