looks, money, personality, and social status DO NOT MATTER AT ALL

[AFC Savior]

depression is the #1 killer of anything positive, whether its money looks or "natural personality"

and most guys here who are AFCS suffer from depression, no matter what the situation is, the depression is there, and that creates a negative energy about them and its no wonder that girls don't wanna **** these depressed AFCs - its the energy!!!!

energy comes from how you feel in the pit of your stomach!!!

 

[Dongfu]

This is great, but it is still trying to make a "one solution fit's all" statement. There are opportunities for evey guy, depressed ugly or whatever. You may not always be able to get the highest quality girls, but if you nitch yourself and target the appropriate market for your curent situation, you will have success. The problem for most guys is that they try either want women who are out of thei current range, or they use thei current situation to justify why they arent having any results.

 

[Remulak]

Deus, do you have a beeper that tells you when a discussion about looks starts up?

 

[AFC Savior]

confidence does not matter either, you can't fake a solid confidence if you are feeling down on yourself in your currect state of mind

you guys keep missing the point that everything is about how you FEEL in the moment, and the key is to always feel on top of the world, 24/7!

 

[AFC Savior]

a guy who is naturally confident will not feel confident when he feels like **** on the inside, and because of that, in that moment, he would not be able to attract any girl, because girls HATE negativity more than anything else

with experience, you'd know this, but those who have not been there and done that will have no way to relate to what i'm talking about

im not talking about THEORY over here, i am talking about what ACTUALLY HAPPENS in situations, so don't be throwing your theory bullshyt my way, i don't base my statements off of theories, i base them off of my own life experience

 

[L777]

I'm of the opinion now that looks matter very little. I know of a person (his material is available free on the internet - absolutely mindblowing, life-changing stuff) who is overweight, balding and very average looking.

He's slept with several thousand, yes I said thousand women, and he has many g/f's that know about each other and often sleep with him at the same time....we're talking pornstars and models.

Seriously guys, all this debating of lines, kino techniques, etc etc is futile...there's a bigger picture to be seen.

I don't know if I'm allowed to say who without permission but I'll certainly ask. I'm seriously so glad I found this guy.

 

[ketostix]

I'm of the opinion now that looks matter very little. I know of a person (his material is available free on the internet - absolutely mindblowing, life-changing stuff) who is overweight, balding and very average looking.

He's slept with several thousand, yes I said thousand women, and he has many g/f's that know about each other and often sleep with him at the same time....we're talking pornstars and models.

Seriously guys, all this debating of lines, kino techniques, etc etc is futile...there's a bigger picture to be seen.

I don't know if I'm allowed to say who without permission but I'll certainly ask. I'm seriously so glad I found this guy.

Proof? You went to the bar with him and saw him pull all these girls and go back to his place and they went into the bedroom right?

 

[Last Man Standing]

The projected self relates to the actual self! If I am not happy with my self can I contribute positively to a another's self - which is why they decide to be with me? Is this what you're saying, AFC Savior?

By definition, doesn't our "personality" define our person, and thus our "self"? And don't others value us because of our personal unique self? So our personality does matter!! By this logic, you are wrong!

 

[DJVladdy]

haha molodets Skip, moy ******!

Seriously, best post from you ive read, hands down.
I agree with everything u said, i can tell ur fammiliar with metaphysics or law of attraction. Playersupreme helped u here also

I like this example:
"there is a HUGE difference between the way you say hi when you are feeling depressed and the way that you say hi when you are feeling "right" ("right' meaning the proper good feeling mindset)"
- very true in real life situations

Only thing is to stop being asexual u have to stop wackin off???
Dude wats up with that lol?

 

[DJVladdy]

hm, the N-word got censored o well

Oh and Maxtro, the quick solution to ur problem is 7.5mg of hydrocodone, but thats of course only temporary and ull get addicted. Otherwise great confidence booster and gives u that "warm feeling" about yourself lol.

 

[Maxfarsigth]

I think Savior is right in some way.
Having what I have started to call "The DJ/pook/Man state of mind" is not only gonna make you feel good about yourself, its also gonna atract the people near you.
Im sure ive read (maybe DJ bibble or bookofpook) that this aura you radiate is very powerfull. Woman are always searching for real Man like this: who can take strong decision, dont over-care about themselves, and dont let others interfere with their mood.

Myself: I started dating a girl a month ago. I identified a negative feeling in my stomach, then I found out what it was: I was not sexual enoguh. When we kissed she has the control. I dont like that so much. What em I doin?
1. Learn and gain experience about sexuality with her.
2. Askin advice to a friend or SS and APLYING them.
3. Try to improve.
Even she has noticed the diference and shes lovin it. But more importantly: im gettin the good vibe in my stomach, getting some XP and having fun!

NOW.. i think that when it comes to aproaching and seducing:
looks, money, personality and soc status will help! maybe just a bit. but they will.
In some way all those aspects are conected to this good vibe in the stomache.
At least I feel good if:
I look at the mirror and find a good lookin guy.
Manage to get some good money out of a deal.
See myself being C&F with any girl
Get calls, txts form people who apreciate me.
- Those thing will have mi stomache feling happy -

Well.. those are my thoughts.. But remember: im just a
Low sexualy experienced recovering average frustrated chump
LSERAFC
hahahah !
And guess what: i dont care as long as im actually doing something about it!
Not easy, not fast: but lets go !

 

[L777]

Proof? You went to the bar with him and saw him pull all these girls and go back to his place and they went into the bedroom right?

Mate if you watched the videos you'd know. Trust me.

Like I said I'm gonna see if its OK to post links and then you can see for yourself.