Looks matter/they don't matter....explain this picture

[DaddyLongShanks]

Couldn't she get a better looking guy with money? How do you even know he has money?

I guess it can't be possible that she actually likes the dude. I work with a chick who's engaged to a dude who looks like sh!t. People ask her why she chose him. Her answer? He treats me well and I'm tried of being treated like crap.

I'm seeing more mismatched couples around for that reason. Guys with plain looking chicks and girls with men less in looks.

Sometimes the less good looking one will treat them a lot better and it feels a lot better than being with someone more competitive in that space with them. It's not a lack of esteem or anything either, some people do like dealing with "nicer" people and understand that folks are attracted to things that are "harder". She may have had her fill of it, and just wants a nice guy.

But then again it was mentioned the guy has the 9" c0ck and 2.6 Mils. A 9" c0ck is in the .1% range, they are not common at all. And 2.6 Mils, that too is a fraction of a fraction of a percent of people endowed like this financially.

 

[GS750]

Sometimes the less good looking one will treat them a lot better and it feels a lot better than being with someone more competitive in that space with them. It's not a lack of esteem or anything either, some people do like dealing with "nicer" people and understand that folks are attracted to things that are "harder". She may have had her fill of it, and just wants a nice guy.

But then again it was mentioned the guy has the 9" c0ck and 2.6 Mils. A 9" c0ck is in the .1% range, they are not common at all. And 2.6 Mils, that too is a fraction of a fraction of a percent of people endowed like this financially.

Yeah...he will treat her way better because for him she's a catch. She's dating down, he's dating up. They both know this. Good for them, but I hope she's given some serious consideration to what her kids are going to look like.


Edit...she says something along the lines of "once I gave my life to Christ...". So these two are religious fanatics. Explains a lot.

 

[Yewki]

So... a mildly attractive girl marries a fat interesting dude who makes silly faces in his wedding pics.

This changes everything.

 

[Suspens]

He treats me well and I'm tried of being treated like crap.

And she will eventually get tired of being treated well and leave.


What's wrong with the guy though aside from being fat. He looks like duke nukem.

 

[MAYALL]

And she will eventually get tired of being treated well and leave.

I guess you assume she would rather be treated like dog sh!t instead?

 

[Stagger Lee]

The girl's not fat, so these days that might be good for a 6.

You know, I really think that back when I was growing up, this picture wouldn't have caused any stir. The reason being, men were more valued back then. If a girl was able to catch a husband, that was her good fortune. It didn't matter what he looked like, as long as he was gainfully employed. A woman was expected to look good, a man was expected to be able to provide.

Now, with feminism, people are seeing a guy's looks more and judging them. Like he's some kind of chick. Now they're saying the guy isn't good enough for the girl. The guy has to be the whole package, with the looks, the money, the status, and everything.

I completely agree and think that is the real take away message here. That people are saying that he's not good enough for her based on seeing a pic, proves that guys' looks matter now whether for physiological or sociological reasons.

She is a about a 6 and he would be looks and age matched with her but for being a fat ass, so maybe he's a ~4.5. He does have good hair and she does not and she's female! I still say this is the exception more than the rule. And as in the case and in most cases where the girl looks better than the guy, there are usually certain factors at play. The couple is usually young and no older than early 20's and religious faith. They've been together since age 18 and religious.

I've had a long standing theory that you can "relationship game", date for some time, possibly marry a more attractive girl until she reaches about age 20-21. Problem is you have to be within a couple years of that age too to be in that dating pool nowadays. Any attractive girl still single over age 21 seems to be very hypergamous about looks and less willing to bond with any one guy. At least until she's over age 24 or 25 and decides to marry some "beta" in her social circle lol.


Along the lines of what guru said, do some girls like balding guys, fat guys, older guys, "uglier" guys etc? I'm sure some do, but there are way more balding, fat, older and ugly guys than there are the women that want them. And I'm pretty sure even still these type of guys aren't the first pick for these types of girls for a hook up as opposed to a beta provider.

 

[WanderingMan]

I'm not sure about him necessary treating her "better", however, he's probably a better man.

 

[gravityeyelids]

Looks don't matter as much for guys.

And she's not hot. Cute, but not hot IMO

And he's not ugly. He's got a bigger/strong body type (even if he is overweight) and a friendly/likable face

 

[zinc4]

Not sure why people are hating calling this guy a chump. I've seen plenty of naturals in Georgia that look just as bad as him that clean up with the women. In rural areas of Georgia, status and social connections reign supreme over looks every time. If you live in a small town in Georgia and aren't socially connected then good luck...no matter how good looming you are.

Like I said I knew guys just as fat and ugly as him banging multiple girls every week while I was getting very little despite being much better looking but not as socially connected.

Also, the girl in the pic isn't even anything special at all...not sure why this surprises anyone...its Georgia man.

If the guy is naturally ****y funny and has a lot of friends, he probably has others at least as good looking as her on tap.

One of my best friends back home in Georgia is fatter than this dude and around the same looks level but is naturally funny as hell and very sexually aggressive and shameless...

He is married to a fat girl...highschool sweetheart type deal but cheats on her left and right with chicks much better looking than this girl on a regular basis and even hooks up threesomes with his wife and some of them from time to time.

Status and game will trump looks every time in rurual Georgia and most other places for that matter.

 

[zinc4]

Not sure why people are hating calling this guy a chump. I've seen plenty of naturals in Georgia that look just as bad as him that clean up with the women. In rural areas of Georgia, status and social connections reign supreme over looks every time. If you live in a small town in Georgia and aren't socially connected then good luck...no matter how good looming you are.

Like I said I knew guys just as fat and ugly as him banging multiple girls every week while I was getting very little despite being much better looking but not as socially connected.

Also, the girl in the pic isn't even anything special at all...not sure why this surprises anyone...its Georgia man.

If the guy is naturally ****y funny and has a lot of friends, he probably has others at least as good looking as her on tap.

One of my best friends back home in Georgia is fatter than this dude and around the same looks level but is naturally funny as hell and very sexually aggressive and shameless...

He is married to a fat girl and has kids...highschool sweetheart type deal but cheats on her left and right with chicks much better looking than this girl in the pic on a regular basis and even hooks up threesomes with his wife and some of them from time to time. Why because he doesnt give a **** and says whatever he wants and shamelessly flirts in front of his wife and behind her back and is always the life of the party where ever he is.

Status and game will trump looks every time in rurual Georgia and most other places for that matter.

 

[skinnyguy]

Not sure why people are hating calling this guy a chump. I've seen plenty of naturals in Georgia that look just as bad as him that clean up with the women. In rural areas of Georgia, status and social connections reign supreme over looks every time. If you live in a small town in Georgia and aren't socially connected then good luck...no matter how good looming you are.

Like I said I knew guys just as fat and ugly as him banging multiple girls every week while I was getting very little despite being much better looking but not as socially connected.

Also, the girl in the pic isn't even anything special at all...not sure why this surprises anyone...its Georgia man.

If the guy is naturally ****y funny and has a lot of friends, he probably has others at least as good looking as her on tap.

One of my best friends back home in Georgia is fatter than this dude and around the same looks level but is naturally funny as hell and very sexually aggressive and shameless...

He is married to a fat girl...highschool sweetheart type deal but cheats on her left and right with chicks much better looking than this girl on a regular basis and even hooks up threesomes with his wife and some of them from time to time.

Status and game will trump looks every time in rurual Georgia and most other places for that matter.

This is true. Georgia isn't like LA or Miami. Social status means more than looks.

Other places do care about social status but if she "met him through friends" she probably felt very comfortable with him from the beginning.

Also out there women don't have as many options. It's less of a sausagefest in small towns.

 

[Boxer00]

Couples get together for all sorts of reasons. Not sure why a big deal is being made over it. The main question is how long will it last?

 

[Mike32ct]

Stocky guys do well with women. I see it all the time. Women like the physical dominance associated with it and factor it into the guys "looks." In other words, being stocky or even fat can make a guy MORE good looking to some women.

Men like skinny and hate fat. Women are the opposite.

I'm 5'11" and 175 and I still get shyte from women about being "too skinny" lol. Skinny only works for tall guys.

 

[Mr_Maximus]

Look at the pictures carefully and try to see a slimmer version of him.

Look at their faces, pay attention to their features. They look similar in my opinion.

Yes he is fat and she could pass as cute but its a good pair bond.

Studies have been done and have shown that we are attracted to people of the opposite sex who look like us or our opposite sex parent. When you find the female / feminine version of you, you should be attracted to her and she should know very quickly that she has found her mate too.

This is my explanation of why I think these two are a couple.

 

[SmooveMooves]

That girl ugly af lol

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Shes a 3.

Women have looks. Men have other things.

I think theyre both equally fugly.

I think this made news cuz women r getting an easy ride nowadays.

She has no lips, nose is fvcked, no boobs, no tan, fvcked smile, plus when she hits 29 she'll be chubby just like the dude. Plus hormonal.

Poor guy will one day workout and regret this choice.

Oh well, more for us.

She is not that good looking, average at best on that is "dolled up"
Bad example. And cute chicks do dig ugly guys more then I remember for whatever the reason. I remember watching that show Blind Date and this really cute black chick was setup on a date with a good looking dude (no homo) halfway through the date she said dude was good looking and all, but she is attracted to ugly thug looking guys.