Looks: How do you know where you stand?

[brucevangeorge]

Seriously now,

Wake up you girly men!

 

[Le Parisien]

As I said earlier, this is NOT a "smart" thread.

But still people have the right to ask this kind of questions.
Some people create threads about looks, some about height, some about money, some about how to be ****y and funny, some about how to bulk up etc etc...

There are many topics that I will never post here myself, because they are too "lame" for my taste. But I still respect other people's rights to do so, and if I feel fit, I will try to contribute to it in a constructive way.

Calling others gay, posting things like "you fvcking idiots don't know sh*t", "be a man", "I'm so much better/smarter than you" "STFU" and yada yada and other smartazz comments is totally unnecessary.
Playing the tough guy on the internet is easy.
ethnomethodologist, just look at what you wrote, you called DrBeard the pigeon boy a DJ ... come on...

 

[S1NN3R]

I'm sick of the twenty *trim* not very confident with his looks though...

He's not sitting there asking if we think he's pretty, he's not asking how to be prettier, he's not asking if his eyeshadow matches his shirt. He's asking how people rate themselves. Admittedly, not the most DJish question, as DJing is always about "you're the catch", but that doesn't mean the thread should be deleted. It's human nature to quantify things, Coke is better than Pepsi, Italy is way cooler than France, my car is so much faster than yours, blah blah blah.

 

[brucevangeorge]

This forum is not for pretty boys. It's for girlie men who want to become.....

Wait, lemme start over,

All of you share good points. But the real question is... do you feel pretty?

Cause I feel pretty, Oh so pretty..... (see the song)

 

[Hanzo]

I'm sick of the twenty or so threads that have come up this week about guys crying about their looks...

Then don't read them... there, solved that little problem for you, thank me later.

 

[ethnomethodologist]

He's not sitting there asking if we think he's pretty, he's not asking how to be prettier, he's not asking if his eyeshadow matches his shirt. He's asking how people rate themselves. Admittedly, not the most DJish question, as DJing is always about "you're the catch", but that doesn't mean the thread should be deleted. It's human nature to quantify things, Coke is better than Pepsi, Italy is way cooler than France, my car is so much faster than yours, blah blah blah.

Exactly, choosing between what should be deleted, and what shouldn't be.

Women compete between who looks better, and what they can get from it. Than they take the guy who isn't bothered.

Men who want to know how good other men look, it's not even comparing, it's just wanting to know if you worry about what other people see you as. Of course, without going out and staring in the mirror and judging yourself, you are getting no feedback except your own, and one negative remark is going to ruin you...

Be a freaking man, and realize that this thread should not be here...

We should really have a newbie thread, but that would scare away guys who still ask... "should I hold her hand?"

 

[Hanzo]

just trying to be helpful but... why don't u spend less time on this forum and more time going out and actually meeting/being with females? It'd probably help you out more with getting women more than complaining about which threads to delete...

 

[ethnomethodologist]

I can probably put money on the fact I get more women than you...

I just have a job... and I have a duty to fulfill... When I am free, so are you

 

[MindOverMatter]

It's simple.

If girls apparoach you, try to pick you up, flirt with you when you don't flirt with them first (or they laugh when you tell a bad joke and you know the joke sucks), give you their number without you asking for it, or ask you for your number - they think you are hot.

If they don't do this, you are probably average or ugly. If that's the case, fix you apperance (work out, get better clothes, better haircut, clear your skin), and become more social.

 

[bbestar]

Whats wrong with being an average joe.

If you consider yourself hot, more likely you will be infatiated with yourself. You can't see yourself with other average people but will hang out with other hot people which you will consider better than the average folk.

I pay attention to people who no one ever pays attention to, the old folk, elders, or in the 50's. Life has passed them by and nobody wants them. But I consider them as friends, and so does God. The Lord Jesus Christ walked with the average and the nobody's.

 

[brucevangeorge]

It's simple.

If girls apparoach you, try to pick you up, flirt with you when you don't flirt with them first (or they laugh when you tell a bad joke and you know the joke sucks), give you their number without you asking for it, or ask you for your number - they think you are hot.

If they don't do this, you are probably average or ugly. If that's the case, fix you apperance (work out, get better clothes, better haircut, clear your skin), and become more social.

 

[skeeloo]

you judge your looks based on the girls that have shown intentional interest in you because of your looks

do hot girls smile at you or make it completely obvious that they want you to approach them? if yes than you probably are really good looking

do fatties and ugly girls make it completly obvious that they like you or want you to ask them out? if yes than you are most likely average at best

most girls know where they stand a fat chick for the most part will not hit on brad pitt unless she is drunk

this is the sure way to determine your attractiveness i agree with this except the part about the fat girls fat, girls are girls too an attractive guy is attractive to anyone weather the girl is fat or not and fat girls are bolder and seem to go for what they want they have nothing to loose it depends on how bold the girl is.

 

[Dark Haired Alpha]

Those are the three guys closest to being DJ's that responded.

:crackup:

LOL, are you kidding me? Those guys aren't the closest to being DJ's, they're just closest to your opinion.

BTW did you even realize you called the board's biggest jacka$$ DrBeard a DJ? You must have been smoking a really good stuff.

 

[Holland]

Anyone who makes looks a limitation should watch David D.'s advanced series

There is a guest speaker who has a bone disease since birth. He is only a few feet tall and in a wheelchair and in my opinion BUTT UGLY! No offense.
But he is still great women. So shut the F*ck up about having no chance with women because you're average looking or ugly. Women don't rate us the way we rate them. Sure men also consider personality, but there is NO WAY that an ugly woman with a great personality is going to turn me on. It's just not going to happen, not yesterday, not today and not tomorrow.

Women on the other hand feel attraction for men who are confident, make the best of what they got, make them feel a variety of emotions and are just fun to be around.
So YES, good looks do spark interest in a girl, but if you develop a great personality you can outweigh you're bad looks.

Now stop complaining and giving excuses why a woman wouldn't want you and develop the confidence and fun personality woman want you to have.



BTW. Thanks for the compliment.

 

[white cloud 8]

Le Parisien had a few good points, your appearance may attract (and not) certain types of women. *REMEMBER* attraction is a natural process, if a women notices you, smiles at you, then these can be signs that she is interested (or the opposite, she is just a flirt). The only way you can find out is if you go over and talk to her. Telling yourself you are good looking, or even worse telling others outloud just shows how insecure you really are (thats not being honest with yourself).

**If you began to be honest with yourself, thats when you can change**

 

[ethnomethodologist]

:crackup:

LOL, are you kidding me? Those guys aren't the closest to being DJ's, they're just closest to your opinion.

BTW did you even realize you called the board's biggest jacka$$ DrBeard a DJ? You must have been smoking a really good stuff.

LOL, your not very keen are you?

 

[Dark Haired Alpha]

But he is still great women.

Don't exaggerate. He's not great with women. He only got a few UG's, but yeah that's success in his situation and he is a great inspiration.

 

[Dark Haired Alpha]

LOL, your not very keen are you?

I am, just try to get the meaning that my post carries.

I said you were wrong and proved it by pointing at the fact that you called the jacka$$ (or hopefully a troll) DrBeard a DJ.

Get it now?

 

[ethnomethodologist]

I am, just try to get the meaning that my post carries.

I said you were wrong and proved it by pointing at the fact that you called the jacka$$ (or hopefully a troll) DrBeard a DJ.

Get it now?

DrBeard and his buddies are trolls numbnuts, admitted, and revered.

 

[Archaxis]

HBs who have a youthful look with "innocent" angelic faces. I've noticed (I can be wrong though) that this kind of hot girls also tend to prefer the pretty boy type of guys. Personally, I have a very young boyish face. So let's say if I'm a 6 based on these young looking girls, I may be a lousy 2 with the type of hot girls who look older than their age (like they look 23 when being actually 18), and who in my humble opinion prefer guys who look rather big and "rough", who look also older than their actual age.
Hope this helps.

Hmmm... your theory may not bode well for me, while I look rather young for my age, and have been often called very attractive, I wouldn't concider my face to be "boy-ish" at all. I have stronger, more defined features... but deffinitely prefer girls with more youthful, soft features. Guess this is another thing I'm in the dark on...