Looks fvcking matter!!!!

[goundra]

I've had a score of truly beautiful Filipinas want to marry me without ever seeing pic of me. Just what I have to offer as a teacher, employer, partner, and possessor of a US citizenship, along with a good line of gab in emails, has been enough! You can HAVE these silly US *****es, man. I've been screwed over by enough of them that I don't bother to do more than look anymore. Maybe my Filipina wife will desert me when she gets US citizenship at 5 years, but how could i blame her, anyway? She will be 30, I will be 65! There's so many more where she came from that the prospect of losing her doesn't scare me a bit. I can get such women to pay me $100,000, spread over 5 years, and also pay her half of our expenses. So I feel ok with being "used" by them, while I get top of the line pvvsy.

 

[floydb25]

Guys ofcourse things like status, personality, overall game and ethnicity matters but I made this thread to say that say if you don't have anything else but good looks and you're after sex plain and simple, it doesn't matter what you say you're going to get hundreds of bangs every year. I woke up with 20 messages from girls about 15 who were definitely fvckable. They all sound like men picking up women - Hey sexy boy, hey what is somebody drop dead gorgeous like you doing on here, hey my names blah nice to meet you hope you find time to reply, hey hottie your pics turned me on etc.

I had a pof account a year ago and got none of this treatment. I was constantly being messaged by absolute whales and had no idea many of these decent looking girls were on pof. Another thing - women with no pic whatsoever are messaging me then I say piss off you don't have a pic you creep then they immediately send pics in their bikinis and dresses looking their best apologizing to me. I KNOW if I looked average to ok looking firstly, these women wouldnt be messaging me like they are and secondly, if I said piss off you creep that's the last Id hear from them.

Men who get this much attention even online can easily become djs. Forget the whole wait three days then call, act indifferent etc when this much pvssy falls on your lap you will naturally act how you're supposed to because you really are that busy, plentiful and wanted man.

Im now telling ho3s on pof that I don't talk to girls unless they send me g string pics. Because I claim that I have no idea how you look and don't want to get freaked out before we fvck. Have got 6 pics from different girls so far.

It's amusing because some girls I remember from last year when I had an account. They are begging for my attention and compliment me when I say Ima destroy your pvssy yet when I hit them up using my real me, many acted so un interested even though I know in real life face to face Id have a good chance at scoring a number and date.

This is how it works in real life, too. Women act the same way around good looking guys. They say "hey sexy, cutie, hottie", whistle and scream at you, stare constantly, come into your space, push for sex - among other things. But, there are still downfalls to being good looking. Nobody has it easy; everyone has different kinds of struggles. Just because someone wants to **** you, for instance, doesnt mean they care about you. All those snobby, shallow, stuck up *****es who use, belittle, and avoid average guys? They treat good looking guys like ****, and use them all the same.

The main thing is, people who focus solely on things like looks, are GARBAGE. Oh, they like you because youre hot, drive a nice car, have nice clothes, wear expensive jewelry, etc - but thats the ONLY reason they like you. Its all they ever talk about, and want you for. This is clear as day.

Most people are simply crap - no matter what you have going for you. Not a llot of them are genuine or decent. Especially so when you stand out - then you got all the fake people coming to you, and wanting a piece of whatever you have.

 

[HalfAddict]

Blah blah blah not this **** again. I'm a big fat ****er with a beard and last night I had 3 cute chicks sitting around me fighting one another over me. The only looks that matter are your ****ing shoes and the ones she is giving you. **** POF.

 

[Asterisk]

Hmmmm.....
I once made an account with AdultFriendFinder. I used my real age, height, build, said I smoked and drink, etc. etc., gave myself a pot head screenname,
didn't even put a picture up, and just let it sit there for a few days, didn't get any hits. At all. Then I decided to put up a headline. What it said was "We'll get to know each other as we move along..... " NOT 1 AND 1/2 HOURS LATER I get 15 or 20 messages in my inbox. (still no pic on my profile mind you).
So tell me, do looks really, really matter?

 

[Huffman]

I used to look like a rocker dude and some time ago I cut my hair nice and trendy. Now I get a new girl messaging me every couple of days, but when I meet up with them they are horribly bland and boring.

Believe it or not, girls are just as superficial. So yeah, improving your looks is good, but don't sell your identity for trendy looks.

Plus: my game outside online dating has stayed more or less the same. It's only on the internet where that killer picture makes the big difference.

 

[HalfAddict]

Yeah Huffman, I used to rock a badass pompadour... then I cut my hair nice and trendy and get more attention from it however I am by no means a sex symbol.

Your looks have nothing to do with your appearance and everything to do with the signals you are sending. What does your body language look like?

Of course looks matter on the ****in internet that's the game you are playing, why are people crying about it.

 

[zekko]

I woke up with 20 messages from girls about 15 who were definitely fvckable. They all sound like men picking up women - Hey sexy boy, hey what is somebody drop dead gorgeous like you doing on here, hey my names blah nice to meet you hope you find time to reply, hey hottie your pics turned me on etc.

There are SO many guys that make up fake profiles, I wonder if women do the same? Anyway, it's been firmly established that good looks will get you a lot of attention online. I think I've also seen stats that an average looking girl will get as many messages (or more) as a top shelf good looking guy.

Why waste your time with these fake profiles? Why don't you spend your time finding women who will actually be interested in YOU instead of your fake pictures?

I've had a score of truly beautiful Filipinas want to marry me without ever seeing pic of me. Just what I have to offer as a teacher, employer, partner, and possessor of a US citizenship, along with a good line of gab in emails, has been enough! You can HAVE these silly US *****es, man. I've been screwed over by enough of them that I don't bother to do more than look anymore. Maybe my Filipina wife will desert me when she gets US citizenship at 5 years, but how could i blame her, anyway?

I've known a number of Filipina girls and I've been physically attracted to every one of them. Every single one of them was married though - I'm not sure where the single ones are hiding, or if there even are any around here. You've talked about Filipinas a lot, what is this website you're using, just out of curiousity? I have no interest whatsoever in getting married however, so even if I didn't have a girlfriend I doubt that I would use it.

 

[The Gambler]

Hopefully this isn't too shallow of a reply, but it's late and this seems really simple, so let me ask the obvious question:

Why wouldn't you choose to look your best (within reason?)

You can write a thesis on how looks don't matter, and thoroughly detail each and every point. But I have seen too many real-world examples to believe it. For example, I'm sure we all know people, male or female, who have lost quite a bit of weight. Can you honestly say they didn't look better? And didn't you notice the rise in their confidence level, and how they felt so much better about themselves?

Just for fun (and maybe a touch of mid-life crisis), about a year ago I decided to start dressing nicer. Frankly, it doesn't take any more effort to put on a pair of nice-fitting designer jeans and a Hilfiger shirt than it does to put on the worn out jeans and your favorite stained t-shirt. I'm telling you, the difference with the way people act towards me isn't even up for debate. There's a world of difference, and it's all positive.

I wear nicer clothing than I used to, but nothing over the top. I work out on a weight bench in my garage about 30 minutes every evening. I constantly work on my interaction skills with men and women alike, regardless of who they are or how they look. I can guarantee that anyone who does these three simple things will start to see changes in the people around them. I'm not just talking about strangers... I'm talking about people you already know. Your level of respect will rise greatly, as will your confidence. Other benefits will follow.

The Gambler

 

[backbreaker]

Hmmmm.....
I once made an account with AdultFriendFinder. I used my real age, height, build, said I smoked and drink, etc. etc., gave myself a pot head screenname,
didn't even put a picture up, and just let it sit there for a few days, didn't get any hits. At all. Then I decided to put up a headline. What it said was "We'll get to know each other as we move along..... " NOT 1 AND 1/2 HOURS LATER I get 15 or 20 messages in my inbox. (still no pic on my profile mind you).
So tell me, do looks really, really matter?

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lol get this
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i can't stop laughing even thinkig about it


gang bang finder.

i mean, we've all been there. it's a Saturday night, football is done, the club scene is worn out and you are saying to yourself.. you know what i really want to do.. i want to find in and join a gangbang. i wonder is there a way i can find a local gang bang...

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the reason i posted this is your adultfriendfinder post made me think of it because that's what the site is somewhat modeled after. it's not done yet we are still building it. i don't know what's funnier the site or the fact that i actually think the site is going be successful..

lol notice i had to use some of the backbreaker humor and put an interracial gangbang picture on the home page lol that was my doing. just brings more flavor

One lesson of the world is that Not. Everyone. Is. Born. Equal. Some people WILL have to work harder than others. Some people won't have the same mental aptitude. Some people won't be as strong or big physically. Some people will be handsome, others won't.

But just because the guy to the left of me is smarter than I ever will be, should I quit studying all together? Of course not, studying will still give me many benefits later on in life. Or if the guy on my right side is bigger than me, should I quit working out? Once again of course not, working out still gives me health benefits and I get relatively more attractive than my old self.

Likewise if the person across from you is handsomer than you should you quit the dating game? No of course not, while you can't completely mitigate bad looks there are still things you can do to help yourself, some of which Naughty Ninja listed.

at 21 years old,k you have made more sense than people on this forum twice your age

look, the ****ing looks matter.. anyone who starts a topic about this bull**** i already know is an idiot.. is there really, seriously anyone out there that thinks looks don't matter? do you give a **** about how a female looks? what the **** makes you think a woman doesn't give a **** about how a man looks? of course it ****ing matters.

with that said, just beucase you aren't born with Shamar moore good looks doesn't mean that you can't get laid, doesn't' even mean you can't get laid by hot ass women. it just means you have to try harder and put more work in than the guy who was born 6'1, 210 and rock hard abs with a chizzled face.

and on to of that, it really isn't all that hard for 9 out of 10 guys to at least by a solid 7. **** hit the gym, learn how to eat/ work out, visit styleforum.net figure out how to throw some half decent clothes together, **** you are in. mother****ers would rather beat this topic to death then crank out some situps.

I'm a pretty good looking guy. I'm black, technically i'm mixed but for all intents and purposes i'm black, but i have pretty light skin, i have a baby face and i have natural light brown eyes which girls tend to dig. but you know what? i'm short as **** lol. i'm just 5'7 and a half. my wife calls me david the gnome. not only that, i have an extremely high pitched voice to be a male, i honestly dont' give a **** about it but girls poke fun at it at times. i was born with above avg looks, my mom is very pretty my dad is 52 and looks like my brother not a spec of gray hair anywhere and is just one size pants bigger than me (34). but i max my looks by living in the gym, and watching what i eat, and being an extremely spiffy dresser. even with the opposite races, honesty i don't have a hard time getting girls to look at me. but you know what.. **** i live in LA, I see 10-20-30 guys a day that look just as good as I do on a daily basis if not better. hell i got a cousin that literally is a model. i never had a problem getting girls to look at me, even as an aFC. i didn't' want girls looking at me, I wanted elite class women to look at me... and i would be lying if i said, hb 8.5's (on my scale) and 9's are just lining up at the idea of dating me, but yo know.. i don't fail the eye test, and once i get past the eye test, i can game any woman i meet.

i have to work harder than the brag pitts and George clooneys but dammit when my wife walks in a room she's a head turner, regardless of what room she walks in.

just beucase you aren't born rich doesn't mean you can't get money. just have to work harder. just because you aren't born brilliant doesn't mean you can't be smart. just have to work harder. just beucase you aren't born super duper handsome doesn't mean you can't get super hot women, you just have to work harder.

and it works both ways. I'm good but not awesome looking but you know what, i got **** that works in my favor that those dudes don't. I'm one of the most naturally funny guys (when i wanna be0 that you will ever meet, comes 100% naturally. i don't have to try and i can make just about anyone laugh and not even like corny bad joke funny just my demeanor and the my natural conversation, i'm funny. I've always been funny. I'm extremely creative. probably my biggest strength. to the Japanese styled decor in my bedroom to the way i dress, i can give just about everyone who runs into me something to think about beucase i don't fit a mode. i always look for ways to express my creativity.

you got something. you got to figure out what your something is and max it.

it's that simple. if you make it any more difficult trhan that,g you are trolling yourself or getting off on mentally masturbating to the subject.

 

[Trump]

Guys ofcourse things like status, personality, overall game and ethnicity matters but I made this thread to say that say if you don't have anything else but good looks and you're after sex plain and simple, it doesn't matter what you say you're going to get hundreds of bangs every year. I woke up with 20 messages from girls about 15 who were definitely fvckable. They all sound like men picking up women - Hey sexy boy, hey what is somebody drop dead gorgeous like you doing on here, hey my names blah nice to meet you hope you find time to reply, hey hottie your pics turned me on etc.
.

Really bro, you had to create a fake online profile to realize girls care about looks and bodies? What did you think they cared about - an average nice guy with an average car and average body and average job?

You have to be different online, otherwise girls think you are a sucker who can't get laid. You have to be as if you get 100 girls and just want to get a few more because you are bored. But if you think a simple guy with regular profile and regular height and regular opener is going to attract a normal ok looking woman, no way, odds are 100 to 1. Immediately her thinking is "this guy can't any in the real world and he wants me to give it up? He can go to hell. My reputation wont take that hit!"

Girls don't care you are good for them, stable, solid income, decent man. They care what other people think of you and if they think highly, you can treat them badly and still get sex. It's kind of like that show Shark Tank, you don't care what the product is to invest, you care how many sales it has and what people think about it with their wallets. Could be the most worthless, dumbest product, but if people buy in, that all that matters. Same thing for girls, tell them other girls are after you, they will be too. Tell them they are the only one for you, they head for the hills even though they may be in love.

All a game, all about status, money and sex for girls. Kindness, love, tenderness, save that Hollywood producers.

 

[Leopold]

I'm curious to see what does the profile looks like. The pictures and all.

Let me see it, lets see if these "standards" are even attainable for me.

I'm really fvcking tired to tell you the truth. I work extremely hard for over a year improving myself mentally and physically (literally from piggy to ripped dude) and still waiting to swipe my v card. And this is happening while the most ugliest and whales out there have plenty of options to choose.

Seriously, If its a God-like body they want they'll get it. I'll workout and eat extremely harder. I'll play by their rules, fine... but I swear to you, I'm going to have them wrapped around my finger; I'll drain out all of their energy resources and then I'm going to be MERCILESS EXECUTOR and will dump and shame these skanks after I'm done with them.

I'm EXACTLY going to aim for that. Just show me that profile.

 

[For_F]

I didn't make the profile to see whether looks matter so those who are saying that shut the fvck up. I just wanted to see how much looks matter and the behavior women display to a guy they deem very attractive. I've never done anything like this before and it just amazed me to see how I could say anything and deliberately act how girls always claim they hate guys acting like yet still have them begging.

We talk about afc behavior for us, most of these women are acting exactly how male afcs act. Desperate, clingy, way too much communication and overall not attractive.

 

[NobodyCares1]

I didn't make the profile to see whether looks matter so those who are saying that shut the fvck up. I just wanted to see how much looks matter and the behavior women display to a guy they deem very attractive. I've never done anything like this before and it just amazed me to see how I could say anything and deliberately act how girls always claim they hate guys acting like yet still have them begging.

We talk about afc behavior for us, most of these women are acting exactly how male afcs act. Desperate, clingy, way too much communication and overall not attractive.

Have you tried confessing how much you like them after 10 messages? Acting like a total AFC etc.?

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Hmmmm.....
I once made an account with AdultFriendFinder. I used my real age, height, build, said I smoked and drink, etc. etc., gave myself a pot head screenname,
didn't even put a picture up, and just let it sit there for a few days, didn't get any hits. At all. Then I decided to put up a headline. What it said was "We'll get to know each other as we move along..... " NOT 1 AND 1/2 HOURS LATER I get 15 or 20 messages in my inbox. (still no pic on my profile mind you).
So tell me, do looks really, really matter?

Bullsh1t. Simply bullsh1t. The ratio of male:female is about 6:1 on sites like that. Even on sites for cougars, there are STILL more men than women. You'd think there would be more women, NOPE. DEAD WRONG. Even not-in-demand women have all the power online. They have absolutely no reason to message ANY guy who isn't much better looking than they are.

Stop trolling. It is painfully obvious that you're trolling.

 

[floydb25]

Have you tried confessing how much you like them after 10 messages? Acting like a total AFC etc.?

Yea... This doesnt work... One of the many hypocrisies and double standards. They'll even turn around and fault YOU for doing the same exact things they were doing up until you reciprocated. Oh, youre too clingy, blah blah. But when you dont like it - youre an insensitive jerk who doesnt understand them. You cant win with people who only care about themselves, and their feelings. Most women are just that. Everything they do is in direct relation to how they feel, and how it benefits them (ie, whether its attracting them). When they ***** about bad boys - its because they cant get what they want - not because they care about the person. Thats why they do the same things to others. Its all about them. Being fair isnt in their interests. Thats also why they play games to see what they can get away with - then do just that.

This is why I always say, never assume or believe anything, or sympathize with anyone. Also, always keep the game where its supposed to be - no matter what THEY are doing. I think too many of us assume the best out of people - especially when they claim to be rhe victim, talk about how unfair and selfish everyone ELSE is, and basically play the damsel. Certainly, they may view things this way, but that doesnt make it true. Nor are they owed or entitled to anything.

Its interesting, because when you weed through the BS and look at the whole picture and dont fall for their crap (ie, making everything about them) - most people are *****ing about the same things they are, and doing to others. They only care about themselves all the same.

In conclusion:

Sympathizing = Bad
Paying attention = Good

 

[Droz88]

I propose a question regarding the quality of women on there.

So the concesus is that all/most women online are c0ck riding cvm dumpster wh0res. At the same time you guys are spamming hundreds of women a week and maybe 15% of them respond to you and ultimately maybe 5% end up screwing you. So what do you make of the other 80-90% of women on there? Do you think they are just responding to other guys who are using the same tactics as you? Or could it be possible that a large chunk of women on there are not slutty? Maybe some of them are painfully shy IRL and online is their best option for meeting someone.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

I propose a question regarding the quality of women on there.

So the concesus is that all/most women online are c0ck riding cvm dumpster wh0res. At the same time you guys are spamming hundreds of women a week and maybe 15% of them respond to you and ultimately maybe 5% end up screwing you. So what do you make of the other 80-90% of women on there? Do you think they are just responding to other guys who are using the same tactics as you? Or could it be possible that a large chunk of women on there are not slutty? Maybe some of them are painfully shy IRL and online is their best option for meeting someone.

The truth about online dating. 80% of female members only respond to the top 20% of good looking men according to this study. http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/

Women online tend to be ultra hypergamous and only display interest in men out of their league. They only respond to the hot guys and then whine on online forums like loveshack when the hot guy pumps and dumps them. If you're average looking guy average looking women in your league won't respond to you for the most part.

 

[Mr. Suave]

Online dating is a JOKE and NOBODY, least of all any "player" should be dabbling in that stuff. Why do you need online dating if you're already able to go out and meet a handful of new chicks on any given night? You don't. Only for validation reasons.

 

[floydb25]

Maybe I just associated with, and dated online-esque people in real life (actually, I know this for a fact, lol), but everything you guys say about online women also applies to those elsewhere. They only care about looks, everyone wants the hot guys, 20% to 80%, etc. The same **** applies in the real world - including their treatment and behavior. Theyre all over the hotties, and avoid everyone else. But, I hung out with some serious losers - much like you find online - so that could be why. But a lot of these girls you find at bars, parties, clubs, on campuses, in malls, and other BAD places to find women, are just like this: shallow, conceited, high class, all about the looks and status, etc. This is especially true of the fake-hot types you find frequenting these places. They are also major *****s.

Living in the rural south has been a nice change, though. Everyone's too poor to brag or compete or have standards. Bwahahahaaaa!!!

**** off.

 

[Mr. Suave]

Maybe I just associated with, and dated online-esque people in real life (actually, I know this for a fact, lol), but everything you guys say about online women also applies to those elsewhere. They only care about looks, everyone wants the hot guys, 20% to 80%, etc. The same **** applies in the real world - including their treatment and behavior. Theyre all over the hotties, and avoid everyone else. But, I hung out with some serious losers - much like you find online - so that could be why. But a lot of these girls you find at bars, parties, clubs, on campuses, in malls, and other BAD places to find women, are just like this: shallow, conceited, high class, all about the looks and status, etc. This is especially true of the fake-hot types you find frequenting these places. They are also major *****s.

Living in the rural south has been a nice change, though. Everyone's too poor to brag or compete or have standards. Bwahahahaaaa!!!

**** off.

It's about finding the right venues. In time you begin to learn which clubs are for stuck-up posers and which clubs provide a good atmosphere for meeting people.