Looks definately matter it just makes sense.

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I've been thinking about this and.... I mean if you're a really good looking guy and/or built shouldn't you have it alot easier than other guys? As far as getting sex is concerned? Girls definately love sex. They have too, since they get so much more pleasure than we do..., but even loving it, doesn't mean they would want to get it from someone who they considered physically unattractive, since the repulsion you'd get from that person would be enough to ruin the sexual experience (or basically even stop it from starting). Kind of like how most guys wouldn't fvck a 650lb 6'5 girl with yellowish brown stained crooked teeth, an ugly face, bad hair, body odor and etc. But.. if you're very high up on the looks scale to the girl shouldn't you be able to fvck her relatively easily, even if your game is very weak. Because seeing you she would be in a sexual mode already, and you wouldn't have to lead her into that sexual mode with words or whatever else?
 

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Popeyes said:
I've been thinking about this and.... I mean if you're a really good looking guy and/or built shouldn't you have it alot easier than other guys? As far as getting sex is concerned? Girls definately love sex. They have too, since they get so much more pleasure than we do...
I'm noticing a seemingly obsessive, recurring theme in your threads Popeye, what gives?
 

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Last time I'm ever posting in one of these threads. Next time do a search on "looks matter" or something along those lines.

Attraction is an emotional state of mind

Attractive is a physical feature

What PUAs do when they talk to women is engage her Attraction state of mind. There is no need to be attractive because "Attraction" is an emotion. (This is why Attraction isn't a choice is true)

Saying a girl can never feel "attraction towards you" is like saying "No one can get you angry" No matter how hard you try to hold it back at some point your going to get mad. Same with attraction no matter how ugly and how much logically she tries to resist, once you get "Attraction" working it doesn't matter how you look.
 

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Snow Plowman said:
Last time I'm ever posting in one of these threads. Next time do a search on "looks matter" or something along those lines.

Attraction is an emotional state of mind

Attractive is a physical feature

What PUAs do when they talk to women is engage her Attraction state of mind. There is no need to be attractive because "Attraction" is an emotion. (This is why Attraction isn't a choice is true)

Saying a girl can never feel "attraction towards you" is like saying "No one can get you angry" No matter how hard you try to hold it back at some point your going to get mad. Same with attraction no matter how ugly and how much logically she tries to resist, once you get "Attraction" working it doesn't matter how you look.
What you are saying here is true in a sence but don't always stick on the PUA communities paths, attraction can be an emotional state, it can also be a physical state, but charisma is by far the most important, if you have that getting hot babes isn't complex at all, it will just happen. :cool:
 

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Attraction is only emotional

Attractive is what your speaking about.

There two different things. When a girl sees a guy who is good looking and great body they think of him as attractive. They don't emotional feel Attraction, they just think he is physically attractive. The woman is thinking logical most of the time unless you are actually pumping her BT. (Notice many women will always talk about the good looking guys, thats because they find him attractive)

Now when your talking and pumping her BT she is starting to feel "ATTRACTION" this is why a girl will flake because once she is out that mindset then that attraction goes away. (Unless you vibe a bit, qualify a bit, move her around, etc)

If you ever wanted to pull a girl same night the best way would be to Attract so much that she feels such a strong Attraction that she doesn't care anymore. But you are also taking a risk, because if you do all that and don't get the same night lay, she will most likely flake because now she is backwards rationalizing all that stuff that happened.
 

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Snow Plowman said:
Attraction is only emotional

Attractive is what your speaking about.

There two different things. When a girl sees a guy who is good looking and great body they think of him as attractive. They don't emotional feel Attraction, they just think he is physically attractive. The woman is thinking logical most of the time unless you are actually pumping her BT. (Notice many women will always talk about the good looking guys, thats because they find him attractive)

Now when your talking and pumping her BT she is starting to feel "ATTRACTION" this is why a girl will flake because once she is out that mindset then that attraction goes away. (Unless you vibe a bit, qualify a bit, move her around, etc)

If you ever wanted to pull a girl same night the best way would be to Attract so much that she feels such a strong Attraction that she doesn't care anymore. But you are also taking a risk, because if you do all that and don't get the same night lay, she will most likely flake because now she is backwards rationalizing all that stuff that happened.
All that I know is that if I see a gorgeous girl I want to fvck her and if I see an ugly girl then I don't want to, emotions must have nothing to do with a dude being attracted to a babe then, it is all what the dudes eyes desire.
Some dudes can attract hot babes without talking to them, they can be on the other side of the room and pull them in, it is the vibe or energy of the dude which must be his charisma.
 
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so how many "looks matter" guys actually have sex and date good looking girls?

and, how many "looks dont matter" guys do the same?
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

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All The Answers said:
so how many "looks matter" guys actually have sex and date good looking girls?

and, how many "looks dont matter" guys do the same?
Looks don't matter dudes are really very worried about their own looks, that is why they hate these threads, in reality a thread like this isn't that terrible that the dudes respond so negatively to them, just ignore it if you don't like it I say.
Maybe the dudes who enjoy looks threads get to fvck more hotter babes, but I don't really know or care, it is impossible to find out the real answer.
 

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so how many "looks matter" guys actually have sex and date good looking girls?

and, how many "looks dont matter" guys do the same?
What the "looks matter" guys don't realize is that attractiveness is completely subjective. Attraction is made up of several aspects determined by the person him/herself.

Looks alone will only get you attention. Relying only on your looks will get you noticed until someone better looking passes by. That's why it's imperative that you have additional qualities to keep their attention.

I'll add a question to yours for the guys who depend mostly on their looks; why is it that you seldom (if ever) see any posts by these guys about keeping women interested? Are they capable of keeping a woman's attention? Do they even know how to?
 

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See, there's your problem right there. Sitting on your ass, rubbing your twig with one hand, and typing with your other free hand. In fact, that's the problem with sosuave, period. 99% keyboard jockeys. Sosuave is a joke among internet "seduction" boards, which is amazing *when you think about it* pun intended, since seduction boards in general are littered with newbies, virgins, and just all around socially inept individuals of all stripes.

Nothing anyone posts here has any credibility. None of you attempts to talk to women, none of you goes out to meet women, and the rare few who do, have little or no success, certainly not consistently. The few guys who do have success rarely post or just stop posting altogether.

In other words, the reason why these threads are so popular is because you losers don't leave the house, and remain forever trapped behind your keyboards. Aside from wanna_be, no one who posts in looks forums ever goes out to meet women.

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I've been thinking about this....
 

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Lol, stop these threads. :crackup:
LOL, dont read them if you dont like them @sshole! :crackup:
 

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Thickandcreamy, you deserve two beers for this responce

That shyt was so fvckin good, I'm about to re-post it...

"See, there's your problem right there. Sitting on your ass, rubbing your twig with one hand, and typing with your other free hand. In fact, that's the problem with sosuave, period. 99% keyboard jockeys. Sosuave is a joke among internet "seduction" boards, which is amazing *when you think about it* pun intended, since seduction boards in general are littered with newbies, virgins, and just all around socially inept individuals of all stripes.

Nothing anyone posts here has any credibility. None of you attempts to talk to women, none of you goes out to meet women, and the rare few who do, have little or no success, certainly not consistently. The few guys who do have success rarely post or just stop posting altogether.

In other words, the reason why these threads are so popular is because you losers don't leave the house, and remain forever trapped behind your keyboards. Aside from wanna_be, no one who posts in looks forums ever goes out to meet women."

Thick
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

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All of these damn theories that are being discussed, and notice NOBODY is posting a fvckin FIELD REPORT.

Nobody is posting their experiences from this date, that date, etc, etc.

Everybody just waits for the next, THEORY DISCUSSION, to log in and make 25 page threads on Why Looks Matter or Don't Matter.

How damn stupid, it all matters!

I can't look like the Hutchback of Notre Dame and dress like Urkel...but I also can't have NO sexaul flow, NO sexual chemistry.

It all matters! At the end of the day, all you NEED is a great physical presentation, a great dress, a great shave, a nice style. Having a 6 pack and a "cute" face is add-ons, if you don't have them, you will still be okay.

The rest is up to your sexual inner game, sexual flow, and sexual energy.

End of the Discussion.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
What the "looks matter" guys don't realize is that attractiveness is completely subjective. Attraction is made up of several aspects determined by the person him/herself.
Right. I don't know what's so hard to understand about this.
 
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