Looks and money matter. Don’t think otherwise

[Gamisch]

That's unfair. This is a movie with professional makeup artists and perfect lighting.

This actor is choosen from perhaps 1000 candidates. You might as well show a clip from Leo in titanic.

I get your message tho. But dont forget, we've ALL been him at some point. I know i was when I was his age. What matters is what you're doing with your "power". And as he gets older, loses his hair, goes through some depressions and gets fat he'll obviously lose some smv points.

Women will especially love his unapologetic behavior. Finally every age and phase for a man comes with its own perks and advantages. Its on each man individually how he leverages his gifts.

go read the comments in this video:

Literally the most rated comment is:

“There is this thing abot his eyes that make him look so high ( and so attractive )”
And the guy in the video is literally a mesomorph that hasnt step a foot in the gym his entire life, about 6 ft tall that is a complete F-U-C-Kboy rebel that doesnt pay attention to societal norms, has no work ethic and smokes weed at school.
Yet, all the girls in the comments are drooling about him.
THIS is the real lover for most despicable,feminist driven and educated and social media influenced women. ( which the mainstream media and feminists and leftists in power are making sure its majority of women )

What you said only matters as a provider.

Looks matter, but not the way you think.




Now, with that said let me clarify:

Should you give up on your purpose? No.
But please do it for yourself, because i can guarantee that all the **** you see in that video is what most women want… and the guy didnt move a single hair to earn any of those qualities, he was born with them.

 

[Slowhandluke]

ultimately most men get a woman. While the journey that attractive men vs. average men take is different. The destination is the same.

Not this time arround. The average women are not attracting the average guys when they are younger. It's hurting the dating/mating dynamics. This is something new. Most guys will not get a woman... conversely, most women will not get a guy. Evolution have made average women attractive when they are young so they can capture the average, unkempt, "gross" guy. Once the attractiveness have gone, average guys don't really LTR the average woman. Just the way things work. Look at the thread about the rate of unmarried women within the next 5-10 years.

As someone who (excuse my hubris) is somewhat attractive, I never really understood the dating crises of the average man. Only recently, have I started to look into it... and it's terrible. It's a mess. We have always blamed the average man (be more succesful, make more money, look better, etc..etc..), but ultimately, it's not the average guys fault. Average men throughout history were average - they were not exceptional, they weren't very attractive - but they were able to have families; grew together as a team and help build society... Now, its not the case. We are telling the average man to be not average which is impossible. We should be focusing on the average woman and her unability to chose average men. Why should be asking ourselves why is that when in the past, she was. They were able to form loving relationships.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

If you have a good personality that attracts people then you will believe personality matters. If you get by on looks, money, status alone then you probably won't believe personality matters. How would you know?

It's my personality and ability to connect that is why I have had a second date with almost every woman I went out with .

This is really the crux of a lot of the debates here & elsewhere. Like The Blind Men & The Elephant. If someone finds (or perceives) success through personality, then personality is the key. If someone finds it through status. then that is the key. And it becomes difficult to comprehend the ‘success factor ‘ of others.

 

[The Duke]

This is really the crux of a lot of the debates here & elsewhere. Like The Blind Men & The Elephant. If someone finds (or perceives) success through personality, then personality is the key. If someone finds it through status. then that is the key. And it becomes difficult to comprehend the ‘success factor ‘ of others.

Yes, you see it play out all the time here. If people could only open their minds...

 

[Slowhandluke]

This is really the crux of a lot of the debates here & elsewhere. Like The Blind Men & The Elephant. If someone finds (or perceives) success through personality, then personality is the key. If someone finds it through status. then that is the key. And it becomes difficult to comprehend the ‘success factor ‘ of others.

Eschew that bs. Line people up. On side women the other side guys. Why aren't the average people pairing up? Status, wealth, personality, etc... It doesn't matter. What matter is how a certain man is in the social hiearchy when compared to another man; same with the woman. Remember almost every man now is 1000x "richer" than a man in the past century with respect to food, shelter, etc.. and also with respect to money. personality - that is a bell curve and I don't think that has changed much through the centuries. Things like how to firt, how to be social, etc. . doesn't really matter when it comes to mating because in a monogamous society; all that matters is average people pair up.

For example, if you think firting is the main skill to have to get a mate: you can teach an average men how to flirt... how to be social... etc.. However, no matter how good the average man is at flirting, the average woman will still chase after the top 10% of those men that can flirt better. You are telling the average man to chase the red queen. It cannot work.

Same with success. You can tell the average man that he needs to be more successful. Even as a whole, if the AVERAGE man does become successful, the AVERAGE woman will still not mate with him, because she is still looking that the top 10% of succesful guys. The bar has been moved for EVERY GUY. Its an unattainable position.. Just like telling kids fairy tales that good always triumps evil. It's not the truth.