LOOKS and a FUN personality over Money, Power and Status

[BeTheChange]

Firstly let me caveat by saying the title refers exclusively to the realm of attraction. Not general usefulness in life.

I just came back from a holiday / business trip in Dubai. Had the girl I was with take a few snaps of me on the beach topless.

Also posted a few pics to Snapchat and changed my WhatsApp profile pic to a topless beach photo.

The results were unbelievable.

Had girls who I couldn't even get to text back, openly messaging me telling me how great my body was, trying to ARRANGE dates with me. Some would send a seemingly random "hey how are you", others would just be direct and send messages like "omg you're amazing", "i bet you're such a player". I do spend a lot of dating life denying I'm a player but now expect that to be ramped up x10.

Asked one young girl why the sudden interest and she flat out said it was because I was hot and she'd never really "taken the time to look at my pictures before".

Also had multiple women messaging me after seeing my Snapchat photos and vids in Dubai. Beautiful women, expensive restaurants, exclusive venues, business meetings with high level execs within the media industry incredible parties. Massive social proof. But more than anything else a demonstration that you lead a FUN lifestyle.

Flat out had one girl just send a message saying "Hey, how are you babe. We should meet" and yet this is the type of girl that would have 99% of guys chasing their tails for.

I'm almost in awe at how much more attention I'm getting and the quality of women I'm getting it from. And this was already from a pretty high base. I'm realising that in the past few years I woefully underused my looks. So do everything in your power to maximise your looks and once you get there be proud of your body. Use every tool at your disposal in this game.

 

[Infern0]

I sort of told my story before and i got quite a few haters but ill tell it again.

Used to work in retail area managment and earned very good money but i was a skinnyfat slob who took no pride in my appearence, had no game and was quite dull and depressed due to various things.

But as i say i had a lot of disposable cash for someone my age.

No female interest at all.

In the last 2 years while learning game etc ive been training seriously and have got serious results. 6 pack abs and very good muscle definition, a better looking face that has cheekbones and a jaw instead of puffy face. And i carry myself with pride because frankly, im an impessive physical specimen and i worked my ass off to become that.

Threw my job in and went to college to get a degree in the field i actually want, and im living on the bones of my ass, but im HAPPY because im doing what i want in life. (I have considerable savings but im not using them while i study)

I get LOADS of female interest, and none of them give a crap that i dont have loads of money. One girl last week took me to see guardians 2 and she paid. Ill pick up the tab next time we hook up.

For the guys on here who think money is a major factor in game, maybe if you have nothing else it will help you pick up some gold diggers, but i guarentee you some broke ass chad with 6 pack abs will be nutting down said gold diggers throat behind your back, after shes started denying you for sex or told you she doesnt like giving *******s.

Look after your finances, but be in a field you want and focus on all areas of your life.

Money alone aint **** when it comes to succesful dating and relationships

 

[SteR]

This has been discussed to death on these boards already: It's never about one attribute

You have to grow in all areas. People need to get this idea out of their heads that it's either/or.

 

[homie]

Show us your body.

 

[stovepipe]

Show us your body-"no homo".

Fixed to make you not look gay. You're welcome

 

[homie]

Fixed to make you not look gay. You're welcome

Thanks, sugar (no homo)

 

[bigneil]

Topless photos of a male? Was this a Freudian slip?

And you published them saying you were in Dubai, one of the most expensive cities on Earth, and are here to say money doesn't matter?

 

[BeTheChange]

Show us your body.

One chick recently compared my body to Rogan o Connor, although I'm black.

I'd say it's similar, although I have less muscle mass than some of his jacked pictures.

 

[nismo-4]

Money helps too of course. A better body, fame, status, can all be bought.

I don't have time for girls right now. All girls I speak to are strictly business, and those I work with are not attractive anyway. Working 6 days a week at a job I don't like (unfortunately, money is the only item that pays bills), and the fact that we're shorthanded in the kitchen doesn't help. I barely have time to get my health right and look for a better job.

I wonder how long it takes to get jacked. I'd love to hire a personal trainer, but working in the kitchen only helps my wallet, not my body.

If I had a better job, I'd actually have a girlfriend right now. Getting past a first date is a major obstacle.

 

[devilkingx2]

did you really just discover that looks is one of the most important things and that many other things are only to make up for not having looks?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

A hot body is so important. You can intentionally friendzoned yourself, then have them see you without a shirt on. They'll immediately want to start sucking on something lol. A guy with a hot body is worth so much more to a woman than a million-dollar fatty with b!tch tits. Any of those fat loser retards who think otherwise is just that—a fat loser retard.