Looking like a thug

[The JustMan]

I was wondering about style and body language and how I believe it may be important to look like a bad boy or thug to help your game. Many bad boy/thug men have a distinct sexual vibe coming from them and the ladies, I believe, buy into the stereotype. I have changed my style from a conservative dork to hip, sexy, punk. My body language has become much more sexy/confident as well. I have a theory that if one embraces more of a badboy/thug/sexy style than it may help in the attraction part of his game. Any other opinions?

 

[dreamxhenry_notAFC]

I was wondering about style and body language and how I believe it may be important to look like a bad boy or thug to help your game. Many bad boy/thug men have a distinct sexual vibe coming from them and the ladies, I believe, buy into the stereotype. I have changed my style from a conservative dork to hip, sexy, punk. My body language has become much more sexy/confident as well. I have a theory that if one embraces more of a badboy/thug/sexy style than it may help in the attraction part of his game. Any other opinions?

YOUR STUPID!Thats ONE of the dumbest ideas ever so all of suddenly your chaning your appearance just a for a girl?Come on now a girl should like you for who you are,not because your a "thug" or "badboy".Being or dressing like a badboy wont get YOU a job,and inmatter of fact someone women maybe scared of apperance because its called"Stereotype" as what you said they may assume your just some badboy their for sex and will probaly caled them bad names.

 

[Bloke]

I've never understood why epopel buy into the bad boy theme.

These people are usually f*cked up demented low-lives who would steal off their mothers, yet becuase they are so muacho & occasionally attract girls people would wanna be like them ?

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

>>>>>>>>>>> http://profiles.yahoo.com/marine_sergeant0311 --- My thuggish look:box:

 

[dreamxhenry_notAFC]

I've never understood why epopel buy into the bad boy theme.

These people are usually f*cked up demented low-lives who would steal off their mothers, yet becuase they are so muacho & occasionally attract girls people would wanna be like them ?

I agree most of these so called"Badboys" in a couple years will either be in jail,dead,or homeless and no girl will want some low life,welfare,low income guy with NO JOB or education.

 

[dreamxhenry_notAFC]

>>>>>>>>>>> http://profiles.yahoo.com/marine_sergeant0311 --- My thuggish look:box:

OMG That guy is freaken huge!!!!!!!!

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

OMG That guy is freaken huge!!!!!!!!

"that guy" .....LOL..

 

[Reloaded]

Sun glasses, leather jacket, tatoo reading "I love u mom", scruff beard/hair, motorcycle, bandanna, dirty jeans, etc. Lol, "Kenya West".

 

[Blackdragon5095]

Oh yeah your hot. Mr. Know it all. LOL j/k

 

[dreamxhenry_notAFC]

I was wondering about style and body language and how I believe it may be important to look like a bad boy or thug to help your game. Many bad boy/thug men have a distinct sexual vibe coming from them and the ladies, I believe, buy into the stereotype. I have changed my style from a conservative dork to hip, sexy, punk. My body language has become much more sexy/confident as well. I have a theory that if one embraces more of a badboy/thug/sexy style than it may help in the attraction part of his game. Any other opinions?

Oh yeah hey guys tommorow im going to dress like some gangsta or punk rock guy,then im going to use alot of drugs why because im a bad boy.who wants to call women "hoes" why?Because im a bad boy,thats what a bad boy does he changes his appearance for women or is some tough guy.Hey guys I dont like school,I skip school everyday and use drugs why?Because im a bad boy


lol thats how stupid this guy sounds

 

[Paradigm Artisan]

>>>>>>>>>>> http://profiles.yahoo.com/marine_sergeant0311 --- My thuggish look:box:

HOLY SKIT!!! You must of took a lot of ummmmm,.... Vitamins, to be that big. Jesus dude, I'm never pissing you off! If you look like that, you can be Mr. Know It All for all I care. You look like a secret assassin ninja from the third riek waiting for the superbowl while listening to Barry White.

Anyway, is that really you? Osama has nothing on that sh!t.


Totally irrelevent.:woo:

 

[i am me]

if youre lookin for that thug look, dont overdo it if youre not really that tough...

 

[AngelusPUA]

I was wondering about style and body language and how I believe it may be important to look like a bad boy or thug to help your game. Many bad boy/thug men have a distinct sexual vibe coming from them and the ladies, I believe, buy into the stereotype. I have changed my style from a conservative dork to hip, sexy, punk. My body language has become much more sexy/confident as well. I have a theory that if one embraces more of a badboy/thug/sexy style than it may help in the attraction part of his game. Any other opinions?

How about you try being cultured and sophisticated, much like James Bond is. You will be a more respected person and you will give off much more of a sexual vibe, plus you get classier hotter women than a thug does.

 

[The JustMan]

HA! Jeff Goldblum a thug. Funny... I do not look like a thug myself. I just have more of a liberal stylish look. I accessorize more and take more fashion risks. I wear my sunglasses, jewelry such as earring and necklace, etc. I look good. I was jsut pondering the appeal of the thug look many women find sexy. Mant women find punk rockers, bikers, black thugs, and even James Bond type looks sexy. Button up shirts buttoned up all the way with pocket protectors, glasses, and parted hair do not really give off a sexual vibe. I definately agree that you need to be congruent with how you look though.

 

[AngelusPUA]

james Bond all the way, if you can pull of the style and class of Bond do it. Women will chase you to the end of the earth......

 

[Archaxis]

I was wondering about style and body language and how I believe it may be important to look like a bad boy or thug to help your game. Many bad boy/thug men have a distinct sexual vibe coming from them and the ladies, I believe, buy into the stereotype. I have changed my style from a conservative dork to hip, sexy, punk. My body language has become much more sexy/confident as well. I have a theory that if one embraces more of a badboy/thug/sexy style than it may help in the attraction part of his game. Any other opinions?

I dunno, this keeps coming up, so I guess there's some precieved validity in it... I'm not entirely sure where though. I spent a couple of peroids of my life experimenting with the badboy look and was largely unsucessful with it, which is strange because I have definite personality leanings in that direction... and while I have the attitude to go along, it didn't give much, if any, oppourtunity to actually apply it. Girls simply did not take notice of it. Seems to me its more a myth than anything.

 

[Randomer]

I did grow up in the hood and in my observations, i've gotta say it's still your personality that matters. The only reason that a woman would be attracted to the bad boy look would be because as soon as she sees the fashion, she automatically expects a certain mindset from the person. If you don't have the mindset, the clothes will just look stupid on you but you can change your mindset without changing your look... The badboy mindset is of utmost confidence/pride/living on your own terms, that means basically... you do whatever the **** you want, and yea, women are attracted to it

 

[Garamin]

I did grow up in the hood and in my observations, i've gotta say it's still your personality that matters. The only reason that a woman would be attracted to the bad boy look would be because as soon as she sees the fashion, she automatically expects a certain mindset from the person. If you don't have the mindset, the clothes will just look stupid on you but you can change your mindset without changing your look... The badboy mindset is of utmost confidence/pride/living on your own terms, that means basically... you do whatever the **** you want, and yea, women are attracted to it

This guy has the right idea going.It is all about your mindset to be a badboy.I look like an uppity prep(nice jeans,white or black undershirt,good fitting button down overshirt),but becuse of my mindset,and who i hang out with(stoners,punks,skaters)and how i think(like i own the world,and everybody should be graced to be around me) most ladies know me as a badboy.I love to do MY own thing,i never follow the crowd,and am seen as a leader by most of the older people in town.People look to me becuse I AM sure of myself,and MY actions.nobody tells me what to do(unless they have my respect,which is very hard to earn)I live everyday to the best,becuse i am on borrowed time anyway,might as well have fun while i am still around.

Your look has alot to do with how people see you,and if they see you as a punk a** thug,they will think of you as one.Make your own style,fit it to yourself,your life.that way you will always be seen as yourself,not some stereo-type(SP?)When people see you talking your life in your own hands,they will see confdince,pride,and control over your self.

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

This guy has the right idea going.It is all about your mindset to be a badboy.I look like an uppity prep(nice jeans,white or black undershirt,good fitting button down overshirt),but becuse of my mindset,and who i hang out with(stoners,punks,skaters)and how i think(like i own the world,and everybody should be graced to be around me) most ladies know me as a badboy.I love to do MY own thing,i never follow the crowd,and am seen as a leader by most of the older people in town.People look to me becuse I AM sure of myself,and MY actions.nobody tells me what to do(unless they have my respect,which is very hard to earn)I live everyday to the best,becuse i am on borrowed time anyway,might as well have fun while i am still around.

Your look has alot to do with how people see you,and if they see you as a punk a** thug,they will think of you as one.Make your own style,fit it to yourself,your life.that way you will always be seen as yourself,not some stereo-type(SP?)When people see you talking your life in your own hands,they will see confdince,pride,and control over your self.

I realize you're only 16, but you somewhat contradict yourself. On one side you say you're a bad boy because you hang out with "stoners" and "punks", then you say you have respect because you carry yourself well.

I hate to tell you this, but hanging out with those types of people doesn't garner you respect, nor does it make you a bad boy. Anybody can hang around with criminals and losers. Focus your efforts on projecting alpha characteristics and pursuing your education. Most of your stoner buds will probably end up in jail. That's not a path you want to take.

P.S. I also think you're a bit delusional about yourself. I don't know any 16 year olds anywhere that get that much respect from people. I don't care how "bad ass" you think you are, that kind of attitude on someone your age just looks silly.

 

[The JustMan]

When I was 16 I hung around all the stoners too. I was a punk ass troublemaker, and I am glad I shifted out of that mentality. The point I am trying to make is that many girls were attracted to me at that age because I looked the way I wanted, (long bleached hair, ears pierced, grass stained shoes, tight ripped jeans, band t-shirts, Simpsons shirts, loud colorful overshirts, many homemade bead necklaces on at once, porkchop sideburns, etc.) and I did what I wanted (I just did crazy neurotic ****, one time I approached every chick at lunch and asked if they masturbated, I would jump out into the hall and pretend to do convultions, I would sing in the middle of class, make fun of the hot chicks, etc.). I did not know it at the time but these chicks were sending me mad IOIs. Too bad I had no self-esteem. Hot, preppy chicks would approach me and grab my ass, chicks asked me out (my self-esteem was so low I thought they were just fvcking with me), and one time this really hot chick literally walked up to me and told me she wanted to have sex with me in gym class. My neurotic mind would not accept this which lead to no pvssy despite my natural tendencies. I later dropped out and fell further. I went into a deep, dark, lonely depression which I filled with pot and alcohol. After I decided to go "straight" a couple of years ago I decided to go into more of a withdrawn, conservative look/attitude. This was to cover up my insecurities and trick people into believing I had it all together. In the last couple of years I have succeeded in college (3.9+ GPA and looking for a law school), got in shape (started year 2 of my workout journal this week), and decided to rebuild my personality, becoming confident, self-loving, and successful with friendships and women. Over a month ago I started doing cold approaches. My confidence has skyrocketed. I go out all the time now without worrying what anybody thinks. I love myself and that is all that matters. I am not out to score with many women as I can. Men who do this are insecure and just trying to fill their void with pvssy instead of pot, drugs, beer, gambling, or what they really need- self-love. I want to eventually find a girl who I vibe with and compliments me. She has to meet my standards, and yes, I have HIGH standards! My clothing style and personality has strangly changed back to what it was like in High School, but a little polished and more mature. I express my neurotic side- I sing at work, dance when I walk in public, ask girls weird questions, and I am beginning to dress again in a more unique, liberal, punk-but-not style. Women have been responding to me quite better, and now I am beginning to be confident to know that beautiful women can be genuinely interested in me. As long as they meet my other standards they are in! JustMan out!