I'm an artist myself trying to break into the film and video game industry. But I want to use art to benefit others, not just entertain them. I've been thinking about this for a while and lately I've been realizing that I need to take the focus off of myself and put it on others.
If you don't believe me, go out and ask someone how their day is going so far. They brighten up. It's crazy. Go to someone who looks like they could use money and give em a 20 and watch their face grow in shock.
Now I'm not saying go and devote your life to giving all the time. I'm just saying take that into consideration when you fnd out what you want to do. Yove already acheived something great in your search for becoming better with women. Now give that back to others. You don't have o train people
on being a DJ or anything. You can use it in your writing. You can give through your passion. You will feel more fulfilled.
Hoped this helped and good luck.