Looking down her phone

[IKO69]

She's known 30 guys bro? Yeah she belongs to the streets.

On the bright side kissing her on the mouth will probably give you a cast iron immune system

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

UPDATE

We both had some wine, I told her how disgusted I am with this all. How even if she had broken up with her first boyfriend of 8 years she lost her virginity to, then had a hoe phase, how this is still disgusting. I told her I'm not sure if I can get over this. She hasn't been raped or abused, no trauma, just only slept with one person and wanted to be free.

I'm fvcking disgusted. 30 is too many. She's saying I'm being rude about her past. She doesn't think it's disgusting. She's now pleading it doesn't mean she a hoe, she was finding her own way and didn't have guidance.

"You're the lucky man that knows my whole sexual past. I'm not a hoe, I've been nothing but loyal to you"

I'm disgusted.

You seem pretty knowledgeable on other threads but you’re totally fumbling the rock on your own situation. If you’re disgusted it’s time to walk. You will never get past the fact she’s been ran through. It’s time to next her bro you’ll just suffer mentally if you don’t because obviously her past is effecting you.

 

[DonJuanjr]

In your relationship with her, did you ever had a conversation trying to get her to do something kinky, that she was hesitant on? If so, this would be a cherry on top for the deal breaker decision. She has a "hoe phase" but can't/has to be talked into something that you want...

 

[Murk]

You seem pretty knowledgeable on other threads but you’re totally fumbling the rock on your own situation. If you’re disgusted it’s time to walk. You will never get past the fact she’s been running through. It’s time to next her bro you’ll just suffer mentally if you don’t because obviously, her past is affecting you.

Because it's easy to analyse situations for me with my experience with women, but I'm messed up and when I'm in the situation myself I'm a mess, that's the main reason I post here. I love this girl, she isn't with me for my money, I'm being weak and wanting a mother figure replacement.

I'll bounce her on eventually.

 

[Murk]

In your relationship with her, did you ever had a conversation trying to get her to do something kinky, that she was hesitant on? If so, this would be a cherry on top for the deal breaker decision. She has a "hoe phase" but can't/has to be talked into something that you want...

No, only anal because I'm too girthy but I don't like anal anyway. She's great sex. I don't want a threesome with her because I don't want to share her.

 

[DonJuanjr]

No, only anal because I'm too girthy but I don't like anal anyway. She's great sex. I don't want a threesome with her because I don't want to share her.

The point is, her making rules for you instead of breaking them like she did with all the men during her "hoe phase". I don't believe men's penis' can be "too girthy" for women, after watching how wide some of the cam models dildos are when they're taking it up the a$$.

 

[Murk]

The point is, her making rules for you instead of breaking them like she did with all the men during her "hoe phase". I don't believe men's penis' can be "too girthy" for women, after watching how wide some of the cam models dildos are when they're taking it up the a$$.

Bro I've tried anal with girls I'm too big it's not enjoyable. They have do it for money on cam but 1-2-1 I've tried anal multiple times and never goes down well, it's not something I want.

She's now crying, she's upset I said I'll move on to better in a few months. The truth came out. I still love her, but I can't plate her/fwb her, I'm emotionally exhausted right now and she keeps asking what I'm typing on my laptop and I'm sipping wine telling her it's work emails.

What is the male equivalent of being a hoe? Murder? Rape? It's certainly not being a hoe.

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

Because it's easy to analyse situations for me with my experience with women, but I'm messed up and when I'm in the situation myself I'm a mess, that's the main reason I post here. I love this girl, she isn't with me for my money, I'm being weak and wanting a mother figure replacement.

I'll bounce her on eventually.

I feel you. I’m the same sometimes. It’s easy coaching from the sidelines but when you’re on the court yourself it’s much harder to see everything clear.

 

[DonJuanjr]

What is the male equivalent of being a hoe?

Being an incel.

Bro I've tried anal with girls I'm too big it's not enjoyable. They have do it for money on cam but 1-2-1 I've tried anal multiple times and never goes down well, it's not something I want.

Exactly... Cam girls do it for money. Meaning they're physically capable of it. They don't have some special extra elastic anus...
As I said that's not the point. She doesn't desire you enough to even consider it. That's the point. How dare she make rules for you, when she broke them during her hoe phase. Regardless if you want it or not. That should be the final nail in the coffin.

 

[Murk]

Exactly... Cam girls do it for money. Meaning they're physically capable of it. They don't have some special extra elastic anus...
As I said that's not the point. She doesn't desire you enough to even consider it. That's the point. How dare she make rules for you, when she broke them during her hoe phase. Regardless if you want it or not. That should be the final nail in the coffin.

Nah bro thats incel speak right there, don't parrot what you saw on a youtube channel.

I'm telling you I've attempted anal with girls including this girl, it doesn't work for me. I don't like anal, she doesn't, even if she let 4 guys anal her at the same time I don't want anal lol. It's sodomy, I'm not a sodomite.

 

[DonJuanjr]

I don't like anal, she doesn't, even if she let 4 guys anal her at the same time I don't want anal

Good because she wouldn't ALLOW YOU to do it anyways, even if you did like it.... That's the point. Either she allowed another guy to do it, or she doesn't desire you enough to attempt it...

I think we're straying from the original point. Which was, she had her wild side fun time past with other men, and you should be happy with ms. saintly good girl... This fact would be the final nail, on top of her "disgusting past".

 

[Murk]

Good because she wouldn't ALLOW YOU to do it anyways, even if you did like it.... That's the point. Either she allowed another guy to do it, or she doesn't desire you enough to attempt it...

I think we're straying from the original point. Which was, she had her wild side fun time past with other men, and you should be happy with ms. saintly good girl... This fact would be the final nail, on top of her "disgusting past".

She's not a saint with me, she sucks my d!ck more than anyone, I wake up and shes sucking my off, role play, outside, dress up, she does what I want, submissive, swallowing, she's never done a lot of stuff we do (could be lying), it's not the stereotypical she gave her best and now i get the scraps. It's a real-life relationship

 

[RBK]

UPDATE

We both had some wine, I told her how disgusted I am with this all. How even if she had broken up with her first boyfriend of 8 years she lost her virginity to, then had a hoe phase, how this is still disgusting. I told her I'm not sure if I can get over this. She hasn't been raped or abused, no trauma, just only slept with one person and wanted to be free.

I'm fvcking disgusted. 30 is too many. She's saying I'm being rude about her past. She doesn't think it's disgusting. She's now pleading it doesn't mean she a hoe, she was finding her own way and didn't have guidance.

"You're the lucky man that knows my whole sexual past. I'm not a hoe, I've been nothing but loyal to you"

I told her I can get a way better girl, probably shouldn't have said it, "one that will use to, if she only slept with 1 or 2 people you wouldn't mind her using you for your money then"

I'm disgusted.

No matter what the outcome is you guys need a break if nothing else. Neither of you are in the right headspace and you are going after her past. Most women have pasts. We just don't know about them like you do currently.

Need a level head man, no woman should rock you off your center like this.

 

[tightgrp]

Correct. It's been a wild ride these past few weeks but I realise the thought of losing her kicked my ego/jealousy into overdrive, I half knew it myself.

I took her away to a spa weekend and fancy meal, we played house, I can't do it.

Initiating (another) breakup this weekend I think, or maybe she can help redecorate my property first over the next month then give her the snip.

Fear - A price to be paid for rationalizing it there is.

 

[Murk]

Update from the insecure cuck.

Still here killing myself with this hoe. I posted about how I didn't have much desire for other women, well one girl I hooked up with in Feb 2020 posted a pic on WhatsApp looking sexy so I reached out and shes still DTF.

I'm prob gonna cheat on my hoe gf, feel guilty, and end it.

Why are women hoes. My girl had 2 MMF threesomes, she fvcked a dude in her car on a first date, she went to some basket ball players house to smash from bumble. This I all learned from her phone back in May.

Absolute harlot. I don't want to cheat, I've made some promises to myself to be a man of integrity and that includes stopping cheating. I don't want to end this relationship just yet though.

 

[Atom Smasher]

You’re disgusted by her past because you’re supposed to be disgusted by her past. She carries with her the essence of many men, which is inherently disgusting to us.
I see many men trying to rationalize their girlfriends’ past, but it never works.
Women are the receivers, men the givers. Women absorb a man’s essence when they have sex. Each encounter changes them emotionally and even physically. They carry with them forever each man they’ve slept with. It changes their eyes, their jawlines and their skin. Also their general facial expression and general body language. That’s why we can always tell a high-mileage girl when we see one.
Some carry that past with little evidence, but most show the evidence.
Promiscuity destroys women on every level. It does not do the same to men.

Since you’re still carrying around resentment and thinking of cheating after several months of all this coming to light, your best bet is to eject and find a better woman. Cheating is going to open up a whole new can of worms.

 

[TheGambino]

You’re disgusted by her past because you’re supposed to be disgusted by her past. She carries with her the essence of many men, which is inherently disgusting to us.
I see many men trying to rationalize their girlfriends’ past, but it never works.
Women are the receivers, men the givers. Women absorb a man’s essence when they have sex. Each encounter changes them emotionally and even physically. They carry with them forever each man they’ve slept with. It changes their eyes, their jawlines and their skin. Also their general facial expression and general body language. That’s why we can always tell a high-mileage girl when we see one.
Some carry that past with little evidence, but most show the evidence.
Promiscuity destroys women on every level. It does not do the same to men.

Since you’re still carrying around resentment and thinking of cheating after several months of all this coming to light, your best bet is to eject and find a better woman. Cheating is going to open up a whole new can of worms.

What a quality answer. And Its so true. @atomsmasher

 

[Gamisch]

You’re disgusted by her past because you’re supposed to be disgusted by her past. She carries with her the essence of many men, which is inherently disgusting to us.
I see many men trying to rationalize their girlfriends’ past, but it never works.
Women are the receivers, men the givers. Women absorb a man’s essence when they have sex. Each encounter changes them emotionally and even physically. They carry with them forever each man they’ve slept with. It changes their eyes, their jawlines and their skin. Also their general facial expression and general body language. That’s why we can always tell a high-mileage girl when we see one.
Some carry that past with little evidence, but most show the evidence.
Promiscuity destroys women on every level. It does not do the same to men.

Since you’re still carrying around resentment and thinking of cheating after several months of all this coming to light, your best bet is to eject and find a better woman. Cheating is going to open up a whole new can of worms.

Indeed perfectly worded. The reason why most men rationalize female milage is because they keep meeting the same type of women,and either start to see this as normal, or realize that they simply have no other choice anyway.

Even this case, as a neutral bystander it almost sounds " normal". It's what single women do nowedays. Then you can further rationalize it by using time, as in the more time it took her to get a certain milage the more forgiving you want to be as a man.

Until you get to actually deal with this shyt yourself, and need to micro analyze the situation. Does is take a " real man" to rationalize the fact she had a "fase" where whe would meet random dudes and lick their azs and balls ? And now you get to wife that up, argue with her trying to lift her up ect. We all know, the more samples she got, the more delusional her demands become. Where men are the opposite; at some point a experienced man might pick a less hotter woman but also with less milage.

This is a difficult case, but eventually comes down to what standars do you have as a man. Personally I stayed in situation like this outta scarcity. In the past I left one woman for another, only tofind myself in a worse situation. Still you gotta have standards and live by them. A better prospect is always put there gentlemen.

 

[Murk]

You’re disgusted by her past because you’re supposed to be disgusted by her past. She carries with her the essence of many men, which is inherently disgusting to us.
I see many men trying to rationalize their girlfriends’ past, but it never works.
Women are the receivers, men the givers. Women absorb a man’s essence when they have sex. Each encounter changes them emotionally and even physically. They carry with them forever each man they’ve slept with. It changes their eyes, their jawlines and their skin. Also their general facial expression and general body language. That’s why we can always tell a high-mileage girl when we see one.
Some carry that past with little evidence, but most show the evidence.
Promiscuity destroys women on every level. It does not do the same to men.

Since you’re still carrying around resentment and thinking of cheating after several months of all this coming to light, your best bet is to eject and find a better woman. Cheating is going to open up a whole new can of worms.

Well said mate. I'm not actually going to cheat, I'm at a point where I'm not ruled by sex and hunting new women like I used to be. I'm just now debating whether to end this relationship now or just continue going through the motions while I continue to self-improve. I was close yesterday to just ending it with her to preserve my own emotions and mental exhaustion.

Also, I've been debating internally whether to tell her the true reason or to make up some excuse. She can't change her past so what's the point of shaming her (again)? Then I think, women need to be held accountable and corrected (even if it's on your way out the door). I've already told her it's a deal breaker and I'm not sure I can get over this, marriage and kids are now out of the question with her for me, whereas before I wouldn't have minded knocking her up. She's not actually done anything to me and has been the best gf I've had in terms of compliance, submission and loyalty. I realise now that this is something I can't just forgive or forget. I have nobody to speak to IRL about it, they all say the past is the past, she's a good girl, give it time etc but of course they would, they are simps, even the most alpha of my friends think I should stick with this girl. I just want someone in my real life to agree with me.

If I found out a few months into the relationship this wouldn't an issue but I've known her 5 years now.

 

[Gamisch]

Also wanna say funny how past decisions virtually imprisons a woman. I totally feel @Murk . You just look down upon her, it takes effort to have some basic respect for such a woman, even tho she might be a " good person". Nobody teaches women the true consequences of their actions.

The other side tho, when a man acts like it doesn't bother him , then SHE might lose respect for you because you have no self respect...