Look for subconscious signs in girls, be attentive

[lizardking82]

I wanna touch on this since today something happened for the second time in a short while that I think we men miss out on a lot.

I was talking to this girl a couple of weeks ago, started online, she's gorgeous, has got one of the best asses in town probably and all natural, no gym, no nothing. She was used to having *****whiped guys who either act too cold/tough trynna look alpha or are soft and stupid and hungry. We kept talking for quite a while and one thing that blew my mind away is when one day, talking to me, she tells me "When slept together las night..." (bare in mind, we had not met yet) and then she stops, realising what she said. She giggles and repeats that "subconsciously" 2 more times. Her subconscious wanted to sleep with me so bad it slipped out of her. We ended up not even meeting because I asked her to go out and she was like "I'm starting to catch feelings" and I just went cold turkey on her cause I got no time for bull**** like that.

Today, I went out with this girl to take some pics (I am a photographer) and it was the first time we ever meet. I enjoy talking to the person for a while as to create a connection so that they feel closer to me emotionally when shooting the pics. We talked for about an hour or so and she seemed to be enjoying the convo quite a lot and then we started shooting. At one point, I tell her "Let's move to that area so we can shoot some pics like this and that" and instead of saying something like "OK" or "Yeah", she says "Baby.." and then probably hopes I didn't hear it LOL. I didn't "call her out" on that since it would've made the whole situation awkward, but damn, these things fascinate me, how people sometimes cannot stop themselves from expressing even with words what they feel in their subconscious

 

[AlphaNate]

I need to become a model photographer.

 

[BeExcellent]

If you listen carefully and observe you'll learn everything you need to know about someone.

Most people are too self absorbed or too busy thinking of what they are going to say or too busy talking themselves to listen and observe.

But to slow down, listen & observe will tell you everything. It also is the foundation for real intimacy.

 

[sazc]

I dont mean to be a party pooper but, in my opinion, this chick is sleeping with at least one other guy.

She got you momentarily mixed up with that guy and then covered her arse by saying what she did. There's nothing subconscious going on here, she's hanging some other dude.

This is further evidenced by the fact that, if she's so hot after you that her subconscious is already on your tip, why didn't you guys bang when you met?

Sorry but she's playing you with all this subconscious nonsense, or you are fooling yourself

 

[bigneil]

I started photography about a year ago. I originally hired my girlfriend as a model (6 months ago today). She was my second formal model but the first one I seduced. The first model is now chasing me but the new one put her to shame.

There are few things girls get more excited about than posing for a formal modeling assignment.

 

[marmel75]

Stop looking for signs of any kind and proceed as if she is already interested. Guys waste lay opportunities trying to read tea leaves. Be a man and go for what you want. Lead and she will usually follow.

 

[lizardking82]

I dont mean to be a party pooper but, in my opinion, this chick is sleeping with at least one other guy.

She got you momentarily mixed up with that guy and then covered her arse by saying what she did. There's nothing subconscious going on here, she's hanging some other dude.

This is further evidenced by the fact that, if she's so hot after you that her subconscious is already on your tip, why didn't you guys bang when you met?

Sorry but she's playing you with all this subconscious nonsense, or you are fooling yourself

She may be sleeping with another guy, I don't know about that, but she was sleeping every night in her parent's house and yes, you might be right, that's an option, too. But I still think it is sth about it. I mean, I don't call someone out randomly "baby" or it has never happened to me, no matter how in heat I might have been for someone, to tell them **** like that.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

One time I was walking through the mall with my male friend. He pointed out that McDonalds' was selling Big Macs for a dollar. I said "Baby!" but it didn't mean I wanted to svck his d*ck...

It could be the whole time you were shooting she was imagining you were her ticket to fame and fortune and when you mentioned the other areas, that just made her fantasy (filled with rich guys and their penises) more real....

Why don't you just ask her?

"Hey I enjoyed talking to you before we took pictures the other day, wanna grab a drink?"

No need for ninja techniques....

 

[lizardking82]

One time I was walking through the mall with my male friend. He pointed out that McDonalds' was selling Big Macs for a dollar. I said "Baby!" but it didn't mean I wanted to svck his d*ck...

It could be the whole time you were shooting she was imagining you were her ticket to fame and fortune and when you mentioned the other areas, that just made her fantasy (filled with rich guys and their penises) more real....

Why don't you just ask her?

"Hey I enjoyed talking to you before we took pictures the other day, wanna grab a drink?"

No need for ninja techniques....

With all due respect, but the example is just LOL. Yes, I am gonna invite her out for a drink.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

but the example is just LOL

Asking a bunch of random strangers on the internet what some unknown girl "meant' when she said "baby" is equally LOL

 

[lizardking82]

Asking a bunch of random strangers on the internet what some unknown girl "meant' when she said "baby" is equally LOL

I am not asking anyone what she meant. I just shared my experiences in those both cases of what I think is an interesting thing to consider. I didn't say I am going to become a freak and look at every word every woman says, I didn't say I expect these women to be jumping on my **** all day starting tomorrow, I am just sharing it, maybe someone has similar experiences, maybe people go like "nah, dude, it's just you" That's all.

But a woman telling you baby and you telling your best guy friend baby are two completely different and uncomparable things.

 

[Champ Slice]

We call folks baby all the time. Maybe its a southern thing?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

But a woman telling you baby and you telling your best guy friend baby are two completely different and uncomparable things.

Well, in my example, I wasn't telling my best friend "baby" I was just saying "baby" out loud as in "right on" or "oh yeah!"

So in your example, how exactly did she say it?

Did she turn and look at you?

Did she pause, take a deep breath, and say it, or did she spit it out without much thought?

Was the word "baby" longer than the average length of the other two syllable words that she had uttered in the conversation up to that point?

Did her eyes dilate slightly when she said baby?

Was she looking directly at you when it happened or maybe off in the distance?

How was the eye dilation compared to other words which indicated she was talking about something she enjoyed thinking about?

Was the average hardness of her nipples before, during and after the word "baby" was spoken?

Did you notice any changes in the color of her lips when she said baby?

Did you perceive any changes in heart rate?

Breathing rate?

Where was she holding her hands?

At her sides?

Did she motion in any way in particular when she said "baby"?

Did she rotate her upper torso more toward you when she said it?

If you're trying to decipher subconscious signals, you may as well go all the way, baby!

(just playin dude, don't get mad )

 

[PeasantPlayer]

A lot of you guys are negative always an excuse when someone makes a personal observation.