lol at people who claim looks dont matter

[latino158]

every youtube video on looks, claim it don't matter lol like you can watch any video that says anything about looks, and you can bet your ass, the person making the video, will probably say it don't matter, same thing in real life, if is a girl, regardless if she is ugly, average or pretty, notice how most of them will say looks don't matter, they will only tell you what you want to hear so they don't come off as superficial shallow, women fear losing society's approval, they fear coming off as slut, easy, etc

If the girl is pretty, she has more reasons to lie, because her beauty puts her in a place where people may assume she is vain superficial stuckup etc, so she feels more pressure to claim that looks don't matter (which would include her own, which everyone can see) thus automatically coming off as humble more human, the perfect combo in society's eyes, beauty and humbleness

same thing for men, notice how every guy on vids or real life who claim that looks dont matter, doesnt have looks himself lol and if they do, they are just being hypocrites, lying so they are perceived as humble, more human, again, the perfect combo of humbleness and looks, same thing with money, only people without money say that it don't matter, a rich guy would never say it unless he wants society approval and come off as humble, come off as if he cares for poorer people, he doesn't

both the pretty boy and girl, and the rich dude

know by experience that looks and money matter a lot in society, yet they will claim it doesn't to come off as more human, and gain the respect and approval of others

is kinda of pathetic really, we lie to ourselves, so we can feel more human, because admitting the truth, would be too painful

I have noticed women who are more likely to straight up give you honest answer that looks matter while u were expecting the opposite answer, happen to be below average girls, maybe because they live through it everyday, they more than anyone know the importance of looks

 

[BraddH]

Looks and money does not matter in your inner soul where is the only place you will find happiness.

 

[latino158]

Looks and money does not matter in your inner soul where is the only place you will find happiness.

age : 20

experience in life : none

lol

 

[BraddH]

age : 20

experience in life : none

lol

My body has lived for 20 years but my soul has for at least 10 million years.

 

[LMFAO]

My body has lived for 20 years but my soul has for at least 10 million years.

You may like to read some Jung then he agrees with you

 

[Bokanovsky]

If looks don't matter, why do articles like this get millions of likes?

http://www.popsugar.com/love/Sexy-Guys-Instagram-36267224#photo-36267224

Case closed.

 

[BraddH]

If looks don't matter, why do articles like this get millions of likes?

http://www.popsugar.com/love/Sexy-Guys-Instagram-36267224#photo-36267224

Case closed.

Even if you had a million women all for yourself, you would start getting bored the shvt out of you and start selling them off, hanging them around and start doing experiments or something. Happiness does not come from your looks, neither does money.

 

[Bokanovsky]

^ Sorry, I forgot. It comes from your inner soul.

 

[December_in_NY_1978]

Looks don't matter as much as you think. Women are opportunists and will always go with what men can offer them. I know plenty of subpar looking men who have connections getting girls what they want in exchange for sex.

 

[Starwolf]

The only exception is if you have a certain amount of wealth or fame.

all these ugly rappers and old wrinkled CEO's get any girl they want.

So stop reading pua tricks
go workout, make money and get your sh!t in order!

 

[Bokanovsky]

Looks don't matter as much as you think. Women are opportunists and will always go with what men can offer them. I know plenty of subpar looking men who have connections getting girls what they want in exchange for sex.

That is true. However, with the changing nature of dating (OLD), looks are becoming increasingly more important to get you a foot in the door. When a woman goes on tinder and is faced with literally tens of thousands of choices, she is not going to swipe right if your looks don't measure up. She has no idea what sort of "connections" you might have but she can see what you look like. It's as simple as that.

 

[December_in_NY_1978]

That is true. However, with the changing nature of dating (OLD), looks are becoming increasingly more important to get you a foot in the door. When a woman goes on tinder and is faced with literally tens of thousands of choices, she is not going to swipe right if your looks don't measure up. She has no idea what sort of "connections" you might have but she can see what you look like. It's as simple as that.

Why would men with connections use Tinder when they have pvssy right in front of them? Would you?

 

[latino158]

Looks don't matter as much as you think. Women are opportunists and will always go with what men can offer them. I know plenty of subpar looking men who have connections getting girls what they want in exchange for sex.

looks matter, but only for initial attraction

looks don't have much to do with relationships though

even so, if you have looks, you get so much validations from society is ridiculous

doesn't matter if you get girls or not, or have a girlfriend or not

 

[December_in_NY_1978]

Are you backtracking on your comment?

looks matter, but only for initial attraction

It doesn't matter if a person becomes fat? That won't matter to someone?

looks don't have much to do with relationships though

Why not? You said they do matter.

even so, if you have looks, you get so much validations from society is ridiculous

What does that have to do with subpar looking men with connections scoring hot women?

doesn't matter if you get girls or not, or have a girlfriend or not

It doesn't? Why did you write this thread if it doesn't matter to you?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

even so, if you have looks, you get so much validations from society is ridiculous

This is very true. That's why most successful people tend to be aesthetic. People constantly would say and do stuff that would have a positive mental effect on them (like confidence, entitlement, etc.) and it just has a snowball-like on people. People would approach these naturally good-looking fellows from childhood and that would get them an advantage in naturally developing their social skills. This includes men just as much as it includes women. There are exceptions to the rules of course, but generally speaking, this is how it goes.

There are other factors such as parents and what they do to make you more social. Then there are your genes that would determine your personality as well which can have a snowball effect too (if you are naturally introverted, you will be less social and you won't develop your social skills so that when you DO actually try and talk to people, you will be given a negative response thus making you more introverted. Vice versa for extroverts). Then there are the physical capabilities associated with your genes too. Oh well. You do the best with what you've got. You can still go a long ass way even with crappy genes. Best to stay positive and improve yourself because these naturals will get lazy and you will soon surpass them because you will become used to working hard and progressing. That's what happened to me in almost all aspects of my life

 

[latino158]

Are you backtracking on your comment?



It doesn't matter if a person becomes fat? That won't matter to someone?



Why not? You said they do matter.



What does that have to do with subpar looking men with connections scoring hot women?



It doesn't? Why did you write this thread if it doesn't matter to you?

no where in my post, I said anything about looks and getting women

 

[LMFAO]

Rollo has a great article on Looks:

http://therationalmale.com/2012/02/23/looks-count/

Priorities

In accordance with women’s sexual strategies, women place an importance upon looks according to their phase of life. The priorities and importance of characteristics that women will consider prerequisites for intimacy shift as her life’s conditions dictate.

14 – 24 years old: Looks are EVERYTHING. Yes, some romanticism might help complete the fantasy, and Game is definitely a factor, but the priority for arousal is primarily Darwinian. Women will gladly overlook character flaws or a lack of assets in favor of ****ing the physical Alpha while she approaches her own sexual apex. For a brilliant study of this take the time to read Dr. Martie Hasselton’s study, Why Muscularity is Sexy.

25-30 years old: Looks are still of primary importance, but other factors are beginning to compete in significance as she becomes increasingly more aware of hitting the impending Wall. While she’s still hot enough to command attention, her hypergamic priorities lean more towards the life time provisioning potential and parental investment potential a Man represents. As she gets closer to 30, she knows she has to play her cards well if she is to cash out of the game while she’s still able to compete with other women. Ambition, character, assets, humor, personality, etc. begin to be more important in the light of a potential lifetime commitment.

30-35 years old: Most single women in this demographic are in varying degrees of denial (aided by social conventions), but on some level of consciousness they realize that they’re past their expiration date and securing a commitment is a progressively more difficult battle with every passing year. Looks lose precedent in favor of assets and status. Game and personality become more prominent, but the primary focus is catching up to the choices she made (or should’ve made) when she was about 28. Locking down a proven commodity – a Man with a reasonable amount of success and status – is the goal now; not a Man with “potential” for that same success. While the physical is still important, she’s more than willing to compromise the physical standards she held at 24 if the Man brings a lot to the table.

35-45 years old: She’s well past her expiration date, hit the Wall and is, graciously or not, accepting the fact that she’s used goods. Any notion of a list of requisites or priorities are a fond memory now. She may play the Cougar card in an ego protection effort. This may seem like she’s back to her primary Looks focus in playing the Cougar, but again, on some level of consciousness she understands that younger Men are doing her the favor by ****ing her and in no way expects more than a physical fling. The hope is still, by some miracle, to lock down an aging AFC divorcee in a bad spot, with at least some amount of appreciable assets. Status is nice, looks would be icing on the cake if he’s still got them, but provisioning takes priority above even Game or social intelligence.

 

[logicallefty]

Looks get you in the door. Everything else either keeps you there or gets you booted.