So last night I met this crazy Eastern European girl off tinder. HB7.
I went over to her place for "drinks and a movie" for our first meetup, which tinder women rarely seem to agree to so quickly. I assumed this was a DTF signal. So I get there and she's already kinda drunk from a work happy hour, plus an hour late to what we agreed. But she seems into me. We banter, I tease her, we grab some wine and smokes and take a walk to a park. She's open to my kino and I escalate it gradually. We go back to her place and drink more while making dinner together then watch the flick. By this point were both drunk and it's really late. I've kinod to the point where I'm basically rubbing her crotch thru her jeans. She leaves the room and i assume it was to use the washroom. But she doesn't come back, so I go looking for her. She's in bed. I announce that I'm crashing with her for the night cause I'm too drunk to drive. She says cool.
So I crawl into bed with her in my boxers. She's fully clothed. Rub her arm for 15 seconds then grab her head and start making out. She responds enthusiastically. 20 minutes later she's topless and moaning as I kiss her neck and breasts. She starts to rub her *****. I take this as a sign to escalate and
Start to pull down her pants. She's says no. I go back to kissing. I bite her nipples gently and she's all "harder! F!ck!". I slide my hand down her pants and she pulls it out. This sort of dynamic goes on for another 20 minutes.
By this point I'm frustrated. I've been lavishing her with foreplay and she hasn't done a thing. I grab her hand and put in on my junk. She doesn't protest and strokes it. She informs me that she's getting some toys. So she comes back in the room with lube, her vibe and handcuffs. I inform her that I'm not wearing the cuffs no offense. She protests but accepts it. She jerks me off. She's still rubing herself this whole time and using her vibe. So I make another move to put my hand down her pants. She says no and removes it again. She's laughs and in a sultry tone says "you're so bad haha". I laugh and keep making out. She jerks me off again in a bit. Eventually were both exhausted an go to sleep.
2 + hours of foreplay, two handjobs, her getting toys and rubbing her self for over an hour... And she rebuked all 5 of my attempts to **** her. She's moaning and screaming yes, biting my lip, giving me hickeys, pulling my hair ect. She was 100% into it. Why the **** wouldn't she cave? Was I supposed to just ignore her protests and smash her? In this rape culture feminist age that's the last thing I'm doing!
What the heck was this crazy broad playing at? Was this surmountable lmr or a highly convincing ASD??
Sorry for the long post! Trying to make sense of this.
I went over to her place for "drinks and a movie" for our first meetup, which tinder women rarely seem to agree to so quickly. I assumed this was a DTF signal. So I get there and she's already kinda drunk from a work happy hour, plus an hour late to what we agreed. But she seems into me. We banter, I tease her, we grab some wine and smokes and take a walk to a park. She's open to my kino and I escalate it gradually. We go back to her place and drink more while making dinner together then watch the flick. By this point were both drunk and it's really late. I've kinod to the point where I'm basically rubbing her crotch thru her jeans. She leaves the room and i assume it was to use the washroom. But she doesn't come back, so I go looking for her. She's in bed. I announce that I'm crashing with her for the night cause I'm too drunk to drive. She says cool.
So I crawl into bed with her in my boxers. She's fully clothed. Rub her arm for 15 seconds then grab her head and start making out. She responds enthusiastically. 20 minutes later she's topless and moaning as I kiss her neck and breasts. She starts to rub her *****. I take this as a sign to escalate and
Start to pull down her pants. She's says no. I go back to kissing. I bite her nipples gently and she's all "harder! F!ck!". I slide my hand down her pants and she pulls it out. This sort of dynamic goes on for another 20 minutes.
By this point I'm frustrated. I've been lavishing her with foreplay and she hasn't done a thing. I grab her hand and put in on my junk. She doesn't protest and strokes it. She informs me that she's getting some toys. So she comes back in the room with lube, her vibe and handcuffs. I inform her that I'm not wearing the cuffs no offense. She protests but accepts it. She jerks me off. She's still rubing herself this whole time and using her vibe. So I make another move to put my hand down her pants. She says no and removes it again. She's laughs and in a sultry tone says "you're so bad haha". I laugh and keep making out. She jerks me off again in a bit. Eventually were both exhausted an go to sleep.
2 + hours of foreplay, two handjobs, her getting toys and rubbing her self for over an hour... And she rebuked all 5 of my attempts to **** her. She's moaning and screaming yes, biting my lip, giving me hickeys, pulling my hair ect. She was 100% into it. Why the **** wouldn't she cave? Was I supposed to just ignore her protests and smash her? In this rape culture feminist age that's the last thing I'm doing!
What the heck was this crazy broad playing at? Was this surmountable lmr or a highly convincing ASD??
Sorry for the long post! Trying to make sense of this.