Personally, I just treat women like any other 'toy' I would like to get. It's like treating them the same way as you would treat a very nice car. I would love to get one. And a good one at that. Once I do get one, I take care of it properly. If they so happen to get 'stolen' or become 'obsolete', I feel sad but there's always more cars and more women to have a go at.
Just remember, essentially every thing you try and get or try to own serves the same purpose. To fill some sort of void in your life. By all means shower care and attention on your prized possessions. If it breaks, go get a new one. It's only harder with girls because it seems harder to get a new girl. With everything else you own, you just dump the cash on it and it's yours. And so what happens when you don't have the means to get what you want? You live with it. You learn how to live within your means.
Girls, cars, gadgets and gizmos. They're all the same. Just another extension and experience in your life. Get them, use them and treat them well. But since girls are human beings, you've got to be mindful.