MacAvoy said:
Cmon guys. Why does everyone have to be so harsh and negative around here? This is a beautiful young women and she's payin attention to HIM. We can't stand in the way of destiny, after all this women makes him dream that he is a man, you don't want to take that away do you?
:flowers: Oh yes MacAvoy! You're right, we're all wrong. He should sweep her off her feet and marry her right away! Have kids! Lots of chubby smiling babies! He should buy a house with a white picket fence, a dog named Rex and a cat named Pixie! How about a bright red minivan with "Love Conquers All" painted on the side!
Okay, all sacrasm aside, he really shouldn't be thinking about marrying this girl for several years. He shouldn't be going on about "there's no one else like her". Divorce rates are around 50-60% in the US. A "starter marriage" is becoming acceptable. And destiny is a way of saying "I have no control over my life". We aren't trying to be harsh, we're trying to be realistic, hoping to make him open his eyes and take off those pretty rose colored glasses.