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WestCoaster

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Originally posted by speedo_meme
I don't have oneitis, as a matter of fact I'm a p*ssy hound.

If you're a p-ssy hound, why are you moving in with someone? If you don't have oneitis, why are you moving in with someone?

If you're 25, why are you moving in with someone?

Youth is wasted on the young.

Read Rollo's post again ... and again and again.
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
dont worry...im sure all the guys here older then you...wanted the same thing at 25 as you do, when they were 25...it didnt work out..now they suggest to you to wait.

good luck....do what is best for you, dont do it based off calculated data.
Ah, the cheerleader Friv, telling everyone to do what they feel and it's all good.

FACT: At 25 I in no way wanted to move in with a woman. I was having too much fun being single, dating women, and living by myself with my buddies watching football on a big screen in a bachelor pad.

Your assumptions are just that Friv, assumptions.
 

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We're missing an important fact here....SHE is begging to move in with me, not the other way around, and I told her she couldn't anyway so it doesn't matter.

I've been around and f*cked my share of girls, most p*ssy comes and goes. I like the company of this girl, we get along real good and we make each other laugh alot. She's fine with me doing anything with my buds I want, even the strip club, h*ll, she even goes with us.

I read Rollo's post through and through. Haha it's like left wing and right wing in here. If Westcoaster and Titguy etc. could find a middle ground with friv maybe we could finally get somewhere lol...
 

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If she's BEGGING, you don't have a sound relationship. If she's begging, you can keep her whether you're living together or not.

Bottom line: If you marry at 30 or younger, you will live with someone for FIVE decades or around there.

Enjoy your freedom while you can, don't listen to Friz. Nice guy, bad at giving advice. We know what we're talking about, he says you can just leave a woman on a whim if you're living together. Thus the problem, there's commitment without commitment. It's a fraud and a sham.

Don't do it, be a man, don't move in.
 

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Co-habitation.

Hey guys,
I'd have to say that most of my co-habitation experiences ended in me being shafted (mostly due to being an AFC) but most of the women I know don't believe in marriage and don't want to get married. Whether that means they don't want to be committed is another question maybe..?

So, surely non-marital co-habitation is inevitable in this case...IF you want to settle down that is.

Yeah, so my question is what about those women who aren't into marriage?
 

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Keep up the good fight! It is amazing how people will reject advice they KNOW to be correct because it conflicts with thier "feelings".

If they want to end up like me, I guess we cannot stop them...

Do not move in and do not get married at 25!!

Dietzcoi
 

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Who is rejecting advice here? I actually took his advice...

I did pull an AFC move last night though, we were at the bar and she got drunk and wanted to leave, but I wanted to stay. So I caved in and went home and fukked her in the ass.
 

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Originally posted by speedo_meme
My girlfriend and I have been together for four months. She lives with her sister and her husband and daughter. She was just starting a new job and trying to save a little money when I met her, so that's why she didn't have her own place.

Well, lately she's been moving things in my house a little at a time, but she still talks about getting her own apartment and how she plans on doing that soon. She basically lives at my house now, but keeps half of her stuff in storage at her dad's and some stuff at her sister's. I could see myself staying with her for awhile, but this moving in nonsense is a big step.

When we first started dating, I wanted to keep f*cking other girls too, but she's eventually won out, she's a good girl and a definite keeper. But this "living together" seems so serious. She's head over heels for me, cooks, does laundry, keeps a clean house, whatever.

I'm rambling, but my question is, is it a good idea to live with a chick for awhile before even thinking about marriage. Should I wait for a year or so? The funny thing is, as more days go by, her moving in seems less and less of a hassle. Any comments?
If she is hott, knows how to cook, and satisfies your loins, why the HELL would you wanna get back in the BS dating scene?
 

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Originally posted by dietzcoi
... It is amazing how people will reject advice they KNOW to be correct because it conflicts with thier "feelings".
That must be what it's like to be a woman.
 
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