Dear Are you Single,
"is englishman for real? How can an old man like him possibly attract woman?"Of course he can,as quality Men like him are not attracted to shallow superficial Women,Girls like you never get to know what they are missing....I look at my own scene,socially it revolves around Dancing,mainly Tango,Ball Room and Rock and Roll...On these three scenes which each break into different venues every week,a number of Men much older than Englishman reap the Younger Women as a Farmer scythes Wheat...This is particularly so on the Tango Scene,where a good Male Dancer takes years to perfect the Art....Real Life example:Katie a 26 year old girl(long hair gorgeous body,degree in Commerce an eight in anyones book)starts lessons.....within about six weeks,she attracts the attention of Robert 56 years old,skinny,greying,reasonable personality maybe a seven....Well it takes about a year,with his superb leading he gives her the illusion of being a good Dancer....actually she is only just passable,if she Dances with other People she realises that things aren't working out right...but she sticks to her Guns,telling herself,I am Gods gift to Dancing I just need a Man at my level to bring out the best in me...soon she will wait on his availability rather than expose her clumsiness....SHE IS DEPENDANT ON HIM,SHE NEEDS HIM!....But in this dependence is her Achilles heel,the close hold with him generates her Oxytocin she is in love....and so Robert will dance maybe half the dances with her,being a Philanderer he uses the rest to progress his other Plates......Tango nights though she is the Main Dish,he takes her to his Home until the wee small hours,then drives her back to her Mothers place....I can think of maybe eight to ten Men like this,interestingly four of them are Gay or Bi....Really good Dancers often start as young Children,suggesting a very dominant Mother,one of the Key variables in fostering Homosexuality in the young Male...Me?....As a Dancer maybe an eight,can't afford to spin plates....I have a really good Dance Partner,and will only try and "Pull" other ladies in different thematic areas,that can create enough unexpected situations anyway...on that topic coming home from Dancing with my regular Bird,we dropped in to a Super-Market to do a bit of Shopping,I ran head on into Plate no 2 she was puzzled,I just blurted out "little Dog,gotta go"ran away and waited in my Car...luckily all was well...Plate No 1 was told this Woman was an ex Girl friend who had previously stalked me,Plate No2 was told that I had just received a Voice Mail,that My Dog had collapsed at home and I had to help her....A close one...Always Run...Why?,well the two parties never get together to compare Notes,you end up dealing with them separately,so two stories and plenty of time to think....Of course if one sees the other in close cahoots,then that might require a bit of ducking and diving,and if you survive you will be under very close surveillance from then on.
