I am living with my GF yea I know that can lead to some problems but anyways we got in a big fight cause of some stupid sh*t. Im kind of mad ive been with her over a year roughly and things are usually ok but she just fvcks up sometimes like doing really idiotic things like being real flirty. Thats just the way she is though. It just got to me this time though. She wasnt kissing or anything but she and this guy she messed around with before like a while ago had their around each other (standing side by side) she saw me walk up and she all of the sudden got away from him then I walked away again and she did the same thing. So I let her know what was up and got pissed. Maybe it was innocent considering they were wasted and I was pretty buzzed. Im still kind of mad right now. she said she was sorry but still. I almost want to end everything with her. But then I want to stay with her. How do you fix problems like this when you live with a GF?
live with GF and got in a big fight what do you do to fix it?
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when i was living with my g/f whenever we got in a fight, it was her fault... not mine. she always gave in first and to this day she still loves me even though we no longer live together.
its her problem to deal with if you got in a fight. not yours
its her problem to deal with if you got in a fight. not yours
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Jealousy is the kiss of death!
Women are attracted to power. Powerful people are not jealous, because they have everything they want. Never display jealosy to a woman - they are the catty jealous ones, not us.
The next time it happens, tell them they make a cute couple. Make it no big deal (you have to believe it first).
Women are attracted to power. Powerful people are not jealous, because they have everything they want. Never display jealosy to a woman - they are the catty jealous ones, not us.
The next time it happens, tell them they make a cute couple. Make it no big deal (you have to believe it first).
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
If you were smart you'd dump her and not look back. This girl has zero integrity. If a girl pulled this sh1t on me her azz would be out the door. Do not tolerate any disrespect from any woman.
Just make it clear to her that it is disrespectful for her to be hanging on any other guy if she is in a relationship with you and that if she behaves like that again you're not going to stay in a relationship with her. Then if she does it again, dump her.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
izza
Master Don Juan
MKS,
Let me ask you this. Say you had a fantastic day, that all of a sudden your career took a turn for the better, you had spent a lot of time with friends, and you were regularly having phenomenal sex with this GF of yours, as well as regularly feeling a spiritual connection to this girl. Would this GF of yours standing next to some ex bother you at all?
I sincerely hope not! You have the right to be angry, even if it's really not a big deal - it feels like it's a big deal, I'm sure! All I'm saying is, if things were going different in your life, you wouldn't care. If she apologized, as long as she isn't cheating that is the end of her responsibility. That you're still angry about it is your responsibility. Go out with friends, have a good time, you'll feel better and have more perspective.
David
Let me ask you this. Say you had a fantastic day, that all of a sudden your career took a turn for the better, you had spent a lot of time with friends, and you were regularly having phenomenal sex with this GF of yours, as well as regularly feeling a spiritual connection to this girl. Would this GF of yours standing next to some ex bother you at all?
I sincerely hope not! You have the right to be angry, even if it's really not a big deal - it feels like it's a big deal, I'm sure! All I'm saying is, if things were going different in your life, you wouldn't care. If she apologized, as long as she isn't cheating that is the end of her responsibility. That you're still angry about it is your responsibility. Go out with friends, have a good time, you'll feel better and have more perspective.
David
NewMan
Master Don Juan
He would and SHOULD care.
There are several ways these kinds of situations can go:
Either you act like a pvssy and she begins to lose all respect for you, and this behaviour continues (for if this is how she acts when you are around, how do you think she acts when your not around?). If she see's that you think this is no big deal, she will continue to fratanize with the enemy.
You act like a crazy mother fvcker - get insecure and jealous - which will also deem the end fo your relationship
You can step up to the plate and lay down the law. You tell her what you expect from her - reiterate it, then ask her "Do you UNDERSTAND?" . If she does not understand or agree you leave.
Of course, you could also go find a chick that isn't a Attention Ho.
Why would you tolerate her hanging off of a guy who C#ck she's sucked?
