little help please

[smoothtalker72]

i recently met a girl by way of my job. initially she was giving em alot of attention out of the blue. i never really paid her attention until she started flirting with me via facebook. i've had her number for a while now and never really used it before but one day i got bored at work and decided to text her. for a bit after that she would text me almost every day and from class also. around last week the texts have stopped coming from her end first, instead i dont talk to her unless i text her first. my question is has she lost interest? we still have in depth conversations when i text her but im always the one to have to initiate the conversation. should i always text her first or stop texting her and instead wait for her to either completely lose interest or miss talking with me and text me first. i know it may seem silly but i actually feel like im appearing desperate by always being the one to text her.

 

[smoothtalker72]

anyone?

 

[penkitten]

she is losing interest because you are not showing her interest.

 

[ARrocket]

she is losing interest because you are not showing her interest.

Quite possibly. Time to stop wasting time....get her out on a date

Flirt, use C&F, lots of kino, etc.

 

[smoothtalker72]

i did ask her out, but shes really busy between work and softball. when she actually does have some free time her parents dont let her out or i have to work. i still talk to her at work but dating seems out of the question at the moment. ive actually got an idea of how to use work as a kind of date but im still working on how to actually accomplish this without getting sent home for not working.

 

[schttrj]

ok man, i have a different message for u in here.... not a master but i think i understand quite a bit about this game. two questions for u,

1) how much do u rate this girl in looks itself in a scale of 1 to 10?

2) how was the end? when she first started flirting with u and sending daily text to u, how did u reply? remember the last thing u did or replied after which she stopped replying or calling u? how did u actually behave with her after she showed interest in you?

just a note here, not all times u need to use the opportunity to keep her, if she wants u, she will be there. no worry.

 

[WesCottII]

No texting!

Texting is how friends are made.

 

[smoothtalker72]

our texts were geared toward more sexual things in most cases.

i responded to most of her texts. we havent stopped talking but the last time she initiated the conversation i was at work. i answered but she didnt get any of my messages after that because her phone was shut off due to her not paying her bill. once she started showing interest i didnt change much, just flirted a bit more with her and started actually talking to her more. before hand we would just have short friendly passing conversations now she tells me stuff about her personal life as well as the occasional sexual hint. not the type of things you would say to a friend either.

 

[WesCottII]

It doesn't make a damn difference if you were taking off her text panties and wearing them round your text c0ck.

If you're not there in person, you're not there at all as far as she's concerned. You can't elicit the emotions you need to elicit via written words.

Ask her out, if she refuses, **** her off.

Also, be unavailable sometimes.

 

[smoothtalker72]

we talk at work, its just cheaper to text.
i did ask her out, she didnt say no, in fact im pretty sure she wants to go out but its either shes busy/has to work, i have to work, or her parents wont let her out that night.