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Naapimp

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Hey, I’ve just recently registered to this forum and read a few of of the articles; I must say they were quite helpful. I was wondering if I could get some advice.

I saw this girl’s profile on thefacebook.com, an online database of college students and alum if you didn’t know. Frankly, I found her just amazing, I really didn’t think I had much chance of doing anything with her but I thought I’d just tell what I thought about her, nothing to lose and there’s plenty more like her, right? I sent this message:

“Let me get this straight; you’re mixed, like Nightwish (this is rare, especially for a girl), like action movies, and you look incredible? Wow.. I think you just blew my mind. :)

Two days later I suppose she viewed my profile, including picture, and then sent me this:

“Yes, I'm pretty damn mixed (not even I know exactly what to say when people ask me where I'm from), I love NIghtwish and most rock (metallica, nickelback, nirvana, greenday, offspring kicks ass, etc)... You are one of the few people I know who knows of the existence of Apocalytpica, that's awesome! I like some action movies, but some are just too... how do I want to say this? ummm... bull****ty? I dunno, they have reached a point where the stunts are too much, but lethal weapon, die hard, (i don't completely remember the plots) but I loved them...

You say you like a lot of different sports and stay in shape... Do you like volleyball? FOr me it's the greatest sport to play. Soccer is a lot of fun too, but I'm not very good at it. I enjoy watchin basketball, but no way in hell I'll enjoy playing it...

Sorry, I'm rambling... I'm bored and have nothing else to do so just go on and on... so I'll "shut up"... talk to ya later!

‘Her name here’”

What should I make of this message and why? Obviously I need to message her back sometime, as this is the only way I can contact her. I’m wondering what I should say. I’m totally not worried about what happens so I’d try any strategy you think I should employ, expect I won’t lie, I mostly just want to learn from this. I was thinking of saying something like this:

“Pretty damn mixed huh? I guess you didn’t ask to be that way, just got lucky. ;) Looks like we share the same taste in music, though I’ll have try this nickelback you speak of. I know exactly what you mean by too bull****ty; I think the last great example I saw of this was Cradle to the Grave, one of my friends will watch any movie with Jet Lei in it and pretend it was cool, I guess he’s pretty loyal. I don’t remember much about the first 3 lethal weapon movies; I do remember the 4th was pretty good as a whole, but of some of things, I mean c’mon. Like driving behind someone until they stop in front of a rail road track with a train about to pass, then pushing them into the train as means to kill them. I don’t know about you but this doesn’t seem very reliable to me, but I guess it worked twice, so what do I know.

I haven’t played volleyball much, but I’ve learned to enjoy pretty much every sport I’ve been involved with. Most of my experience comes from playing with a bunch of sissy girls and some of my friends. I remember doing my “Brazilian jump serve” I just made up to be interesting. I was packing some heat with it but I don’t think the girls appreciated that.

Maybe we should meet up sometime, do you ever play volley ball with your friends? Or maybe you’d liked see this movie called ‘Ong-Bak: The Thai Warrior’ my friend from Croatia really thinks I should see it but no ones else wants to. If you’ve got better ideas let me know.”

Maybe this is too much, shows I thought about it too much, needs some typos and other errors?

Any thing you can teach me would be much appreciated.
 

Dapper Swindler

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Get her phone number before you ask her out, and ask her out over the phone. This is only your second message to her so I don't think she would be comfortable meeting you yet. Usually, it's a good idea to meet in person in a public place when you meet someone online because girls are always worried you might be a rapist or something.

The other thing is that you shouldn't over analyze so much. You don't want to become emotionally invested in this so soon. Just play it cool.
 

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I think I'll just cut that last paragraph out. The only thing is I don't ask any questions this way, maybe this can be good?
 

Dapper Swindler

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I think you should ask her questions so she has a reason to write you back. I would ask for her number in your next reply (your third message to her), or maybe the one after that depending on the chemistry. Then I would call her once (after waiting a few days) to chit chat, then at the peak of the conversation say you're busy and have to go but would like to meet in person. Invite her for coffee. That's the course I would take, but it is going to differ based on who she is and how well you connect.
 
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