Litterally the hootest girl in the party eying me I couldn't do anything

[bfl]

This is the situation I'm so mad at myself....

I was at a celebrity party which I won passes for, so all this singers and artists were there.

So I'm drinkin and vibing with my friend just really chilling and I see these group of 3 dime pieces, literally 10s.
One of the gave me eye contact from far but I wasn't interested in her.

The hottest one at first she was trying to ignore me she even walked pass me and didn't even look my way, but when they walked back and she gave me the eye, the one that I was interested in gave me the eye, we made eye contact for like 2 seconds as she was walking pass me.

I wanted to talk to her so bad but everybody in the club kept talking to them and I literally had no chance to.

At one point I did but she was so damn hot that I didn't know how to open up so I didn't approach. I know I messed up there that one was on me so I'm asking for advice which I will use, believe me.

My question is how do I open up a convo with a girl so hot and she knows she hot, everybody is on them yet she eyes me.

How could I go about this for next time cus the party continues this coming weekend.

All I need is a proper approach an opener the rest I can take care of that, remember she is one of the hottest girls I have ever seen so I can be on no bs, cause I know a lotta men try to hit her with bs.

 

[NickBe]

There is no magical approach or opener. Grow a pair and say 'Hi' you pus*y. You do not need to carry the conversation let her talk about herself. Most people worry about conversation but when they are in it they do fine.

Why do people want to try approaches, you say you do not want to bull**** her so why are you asking for an approach. Any planned approach is bull****.

Just be a man walk up to her and say 'Hi' if she is looking at you say 'Do you want to take a picture?'. It is not hard..

 

[IWillReturnsoon]

Trust me man, i bet ur feeling a ton of regret, a feeling worse than rejection. Do you want to live through that feeling? If not, then who cares if people are talking to her....don't give the group any attention and just walk right up to her, either saying hi or anything that shows that u are interested in her. Even if ur afraid, think what life would be like if u don't take that chance. Don't make this mistake next time, be the mack u truly are within. Take Action!

 

[IWillReturnsoon]

All I need is a proper approach an opener the rest I can take care of that, remember she is one of the hottest girls I have ever seen so I can be on no bs, cause I know a lotta men try to hit her with bs.

I think a good way to look at this is:

1) Does she look beautiful?
2) Does she look stunning?
3) Does she look sexy?

Why not tell her what u think of her looks wise? You know, "You're beautiful...i want to meet you" but looking deep in her eyes, feeling that sexual tension

 

[NickBe]

See I can approach any woman, anywhere without hesitation no matter who is talking to her. I can do this because I know that I am the most interesting and desirable person she has or will ever meet in her life.

Take of that what you will....

P.S. Do not listen to 'IWillReturnsoon', do not tell her she is beautiful, she knows that and she has been told that her entire life.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Yes, don't tell her she is beautiful. You'd be the 12th guy that hour telling her the same thing. Being born beautiful is not enough. She had nothing to do with that. What else does she bring to the table?

 

[NickBe]

Don't listen to fallen just say "hi". You cant just approach with an insult even if she is a 10.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Thats is good for you

Now you'll realize you should've been out there consistently practicing. Now the time comes when there is a hot girl that you REALLY want you don't know how to get her.

No one can get past this...YOU MUST GO THROUGH THE PROCESS of what it takes to become good with women in general. So many pusvies think they can jump out get some real hot girl and then never have to approach again. You weren't competent when it comes to pickup so it's obvious you weren't going to approach because you don't even know what you're doing.

The only advice I'd give you right now is start practicing pickup. Go out 3-4 times a week and approach sets. That way when the time comes again where you see a 10 (You're ideal girl) you can approach and have a great interaction.

 

[Skel]

I think a good way to look at this is:

1) Does she look beautiful?
2) Does she look stunning?
3) Does she look sexy?

Why not tell her what u think of her looks wise? You know, "You're beautiful...i want to meet you" but looking deep in her eyes, feeling that sexual tension

Terrible advice :nono:

 

[NickBe]

Oh wow I have a lot to learn.

If you had ever met an attractive woman with class you would know saying that would make you look like an idiot. She would automatically reject you, we are talking about high class women or what I presume are high class women since they have everybody at a celebrity party looking at them. This isn't your run of the mill Saturday night party with a Wal Mart Cashier.

**** like a neg-hit/insult will get you ignored and the word will quickly spread that you are an obnoxious retarded idiot.

 

[Alphamale1821]

Oh wow I have a lot to learn.

If you had ever met an attractive woman with class you would know saying that would make you look like an idiot. She would automatically reject you, we are talking about high class women or what I presume are high class women since they have everybody at a celebrity party looking at them. This isn't your run of the mill Saturday night party with a Wal Mart Cashier.

**** like a neg-hit/insult will get you ignored and the word will quickly spread that you are an obnoxious retarded idiot.

Here's an example of how i would open. "Look's like you have all the chumps flocking to you....(silence) thier has to be someeeething interesting about you.(****y smirk)

That neg hit will work because it's implying that she is boring(looking past her beauty). The fact that you aren't OMG blown away about how hot she will be hot for you all night.

 

[NickBe]

I doubt you guys have any experience with classy, sophisticated, rich women.

What experience do you have?

 

[min619]

This is the situation I'm so mad at myself....

I was at a celebrity party which I won passes for, so all this singers and artists were there.

So I'm drinkin and vibing with my friend just really chilling and I see these group of 3 dime pieces, literally 10s.
One of the gave me eye contact from far but I wasn't interested in her.

The hottest one at first she was trying to ignore me she even walked pass me and didn't even look my way, but when they walked back and she gave me the eye, the one that I was interested in gave me the eye, we made eye contact for like 2 seconds as she was walking pass me.

I wanted to talk to her so bad but everybody in the club kept talking to them and I literally had no chance to.

At one point I did but she was so damn hot that I didn't know how to open up so I didn't approach. I know I messed up there that one was on me so I'm asking for advice which I will use, believe me.

My question is how do I open up a convo with a girl so hot and she knows she hot, everybody is on them yet she eyes me.

How could I go about this for next time cus the party continues this coming weekend.

All I need is a proper approach an opener the rest I can take care of that, remember she is one of the hottest girls I have ever seen so I can be on no bs, cause I know a lotta men try to hit her with bs.

i can't say this enough, apply this to all aspects of your life. BE FEARLESS.

 

[RAFCbearfilm]

Nickbe, let it go! They speak the truth and i got the girl to back it up, she even tells me that it works that way.
alpha's neg was a littl better imo but fallen is right on track.

 

[NickBe]

Negs work but not on these types of women. I know these types because I am one of them, it is my crowd. You can not approach a woman of class and stature with something like that. She will ignore you and with 15 min you will be asked to leave the party by some big bouncer. I see stuff like this every weekend. Rich, sophisticated, cultured, classy, beautiful women do not respond well to neg hits like that.

You guys can assume all you want but I highly doubt any of you know this kind of crowd and how they react.

 

[bfl]

That kinda makes sese a neg-hit where she knows that im just joking and not serious would work perfect as an opener, lol now that i think back..she was wearing this tight tight tight white booty shorts and she had one of the roundest best asses ive ever seen.

if i could rewind time i would had approached her with something like " why u holding ur lil sisters gym shorts" lol i really would had said that and then quickly " just joking my names blah blah blah blah"

i think this worked out for the better...i feel more prepare now.

i luv this site

 

[NickBe]

If you take that advice you are an idiot it will not work with he type of women you are gaming.

 

[bfl]

its a party a big party where everybody is drinking and just st raight up having fun if she takes it personal which i really doubt since everybody in that party gets on everybody for any silly stuff then she can literally go kick rocks.

She should have enough common sese to know that im just joking, also t he way u say it and ur facial expression has a major role too.

with the right tone little smile and unaggresive body language i dont see why that wouldnt work in that situation, quicly after u say u just joking even if she laughs " im playing though wats ur name...? and thats it. u approached without letting her know that all u want is some @ss , and carry the convo making her think that u actually trying to get to know her, at least make her thinkg that.

Approach on a courtsey level, aint no way she can diss you off if approaching her on a courtsey level, where u just striking a convo at a radio station party, she obviously went there to have fun and socialize, so why not with a laugh from the get go.

A lotta men just gotta lose their egos when they are approaching , every man gets dissed , but for every 1 that disses u when you approach on a courtsey,polite level there is 10 that will actually give you conversation, and now the rest is on how u handle the convo.


lol im telling yall i konw my stuff but when you get nervous and you see an unexpected dime piece like that....lol it only happens to the best of us i guess...

 

[NickBe]

I am telling you rich, classy women do no respond to that stuff if you do not want to f*ck her then use the neg but I am warning you I go only for these types of women and they are easily offended. It works on your average run of the mill girl but these rich, beautiful, classy girls negs wont work as an opener. Later on in the convo fine but not as an opener.

I don't know why I bother, live and learn. You will get rejected and learn for next time.

Just remember there are different classes of people. The high society types do not respond the same way as the average types.

 

[Budheavy]

Nick you have never met this woman. You weren't at the party. If this girl were to respond that poorly to playful behavior then she sucks anyway.

Let it go chum!